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Sexual Abuse of Children: 10 Years of Hard-Earned Knowledge

Posted: 12/28/2011 9:57 am

Today I am giving my blog space to my colleague, Bernard Nojadera, who directs the U.S. bishops' critical office that works with clergy sexual abuse of children.

With 2012, the Catholic Church looks back on a decade of learning about a problem which may be decades or centuries old: the sexual abuse of minors by those who would mentor them.

The crisis in the Church in the United States reached a head in 2002, when newspaper coverage nationwide highlighted the existence of this horrific crime and moral travesty. We now know that others, including some sports organizations and other groups where adults mentor youth, have yet to confront this crisis within their own ranks.

In the United States, the Catholic Church adopted a plan to address the issue, called the Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People. It has spent billions of dollars on settlements, safe environment education, and background checks to do all it can to prevent the abuse of children in its care. We have come to some understanding of how to address the problem, gaining knowledge that can benefit more than the Catholic Church.

Some of what we've learned:

  • The guiding principle when confronting child sexual abuse is to remember that it is most of all about the person who was abused. It is not about the offender, the institution or anyone's reputation. It is about helping a child.
  • People can learn. In the 10 years since establishment of the Charter we have moved from disbelief to action. We have learned that what once seemed unbelievable is, unfortunately, credible and must be faced. Training, reference checks and background evaluations now are a normal part of parish life to keep children safe. We recommend these steps for all who deal with youth.
  • Sexual abuse of a minor is a sickness that can be contained through vigilance but will not disappear. Incidents of sexual abuse are still occurring in the one place that ought to be the safest place. We cannot let our guard down. The work is not finished.
  • Critical situations impel people and institutions to change. We have seen the culture of our parishes and schools evolve. People now accept that child sexual abuse exists and are willing to help stop it from occurring. They no longer assume someone else will take care of it.
  • Child sexual abuse is a reality society must confront. No institution is immune from it. Learning to respond to the victim of abuse is the first job of any institution, community or family.
  • The court of public opinion holds institutional leaders to a high standard. Leaders who forgo an immediate and appropriate response to abuse of a child do so at their own peril. There is hardly any other issue which evokes such intolerance as not acting in the face of child sexual abuse.
  • Parents are willing to step up and make sure parishes and schools are following policies and procedures to protect children. With this critical issue, few people reply, "I just don't have time to get involved."
  • The task of protecting children can be shared. Clergy, employees, volunteers, parents and teachers realize that bystanders can be their allies in protecting children.
  • Child sexual abuse is a hard topic to discuss, but training adults to protect children has given the topic a forum where the uncomfortable reality can be discussed.
  • Victims of child sexual abuse can heal and live productive lives. Steps that help bring them toward healing include seriously listening to their stories and expressing profound sorrow for what they have endured. As awful as the experience has been for a person, there is hope, a gift of grace from a loving God.

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Bernard Nojadera is a deacon and head of the U.S. bishops' Secretariat for the Protection of Children and Young People

 

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11:50 AM on 01/25/2012
Thank you for these encouraging words! As a survivor (and continually healing), the steps outlined are important for others to realize and take to heart and STOP pointing fingers. It is the "victim" that should be the center of focus and their healing.
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roy brophy
Dyslexic F. O. "Sorry!"
06:16 AM on 01/01/2012
Your still making excuses!
09:50 AM on 01/11/2012
As statements of what has been done, it is absurd to label them as excuses.
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JayBachand
Atheist, artist, and dad.
02:01 PM on 12/30/2011
This is a rather one-sided view of the clergy-abuse scandal. Hardly surprising considering it's penned by an official from the U.S. Council of Catholic Bishops - why don't we ask for a balanced view on second-hand smoke from Philip Morris while we're at it?

The fact is that The U.S. Council of Bishops has been under pressure to adopt tougher reporting guidelines and more appropriate punishments for both abusers and those who fail to report abusers. And guess what? They've failed to make even moderate changes to the current policies. (see: http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/15/us/15bishops.html). In fact, the very clergyman appointed to oversee the investigation of clergy abuse in England was himself arrested for taking nude photos of 2-year-olds just months ago (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/14/christopher-jarvis-catholic-church-abuse-child-porn_n_1092622.html). No amount of damage control is going to change the fact that the Catholic Church is a morally bankrupt, criminal organization that has largely unacknowledged systemic problem of child rape.
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charlesrfd2003
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05:45 AM on 12/30/2011
It is hard for me to believe that Sister Walsh really believes what she is saying. Officially she is the mouthpiece for the American Catholic bishops and represents their collective views. The bishops are the supervisors so their actions in face of child abuse is central to everything including treatment of the victim.

Sister also cannot see any problem with the financial structure of the Catholic Church where only 10 dioceses out of 192 have acceptable accounting practices. Leakage of funds donated to the Church is a second scandal that is ignored. Money is given for church ministry but ends up in legal settlements, embezzled, and cash dropped in the pope's basket when they visit Rome. Schemes such as the John Paul II Center and the massive DVD mailing in Minnesota drains funds that could be used to assist the poor or young mothers who face abortion decisions. Sister refuses to acknowledge this problem. She is not very creditable.
01:23 AM on 01/01/2012
The piece was not written by Sr. Mary Ann Walsh, but was instead by Bernard Nojadera, as was made very clear both at the start and at the conclusion. If you cannot notice something as basic as who wrote an article, are you really sure you have any business criticizing it?
12:50 PM on 12/29/2011
Deacon Bernard Nojadera ignores hairsplitt­ing legalisms adopted by bishops when it comes to child sexual abuse by clergy. And as for bishops who covered up abuse for decades, the only consequenc­e has been promotion to higher office.

Bishops repeatedly strain the gnats of language and jurisdicti­on to cloud the extent of sexual abuse in the church, and refuse to release church documents in order to keep the secrets.

For example, victims of religious order brothers, like Franciscan­s or Salesians, are excluded from their annual audits (1); as well as abuse by seminarian­s who did not go on to ordination (2).

Neither are technicall­y clergy – an ordained priest or deacon – so apparently no need to count them.

In addition, the abuse of mentally handicappe­d victims, even by clergy, had been excluded, unless it began before the victim’s 18th birthday (3). That repulsive restrictio­n was in effect until 17 months ago when the Vatican finally ruled a mentally handicappe­d adult should be considered like a minor (4).

According to Bishop-Acc­ountabilit­y.org, the bishops have a list of 5,948 names of accused priests from their updated studies (5) but only about half those names are in the public domain. That secrecy denies survivors much healing.

Philosophe­r John Locke noted, “The actions of men are the best interprete­rs of their thoughts.” Are the thoughts of bishops not suspect?

Footnotes in subsequent comment boxes.
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charlesrfd2003
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05:52 AM on 12/30/2011
These are supposed to be celibates so any sexual contact is a serious violation of their vows and should lead to defrocking of the priest. These same priests make a woman feel guilty if her husband uses a condom while they are violating the core tenets of the religion. This is very hypocritical and deserves universal condemnation.
12:49 PM on 12/29/2011
Footnote #1:

(1) http://www­.usccb.org­/search.cf­m?site=new­usccb&prox­ystyleshee­t=newusccb­_frontend&­q=OCYP+ann­ual+report­+2010&lang­=eng
Click first entry:
Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People
... of Child and Youth Protection can be found at www.usccb.­org/ ocyp/whowe­are. shtml. ... 20 2010 Annual Report: Findings and Recommenda­tions ...

Then click www.usccb.­org/issues­-and-actio­n/child-an­d-youth-pr­otection/u­pload/2010­-Annual-Re­port-on-th­e-Implemen­tation-of-­the-Charte­r-for-the-­Protection­-of-Childr­en-and-You­ng-People.­pdf - 2011-06-11 (URL does not work unless you are in USCCB website)

"OCYP Report 2010
Questionna­ires for Dioceses and Eparchies
Appendix B, hard copy p.73, pdf p. 66, (77 of 93)

ALLEGED PERPETRATO­RS NOTE: Include any perpetrato­rs who are or were ordained members of the clergy legitimate­ly serving in or assigned to the diocese or eparchy at the time the credible allegation­(s) was alleged to have occurred. Do not include clergy that are members of religious institutes as they will be reported by their religious institutes­."

"Questionn­aire for Religious Institutes
Appendix C, hard copy p. 75, pdf p. 68, (79 of 93)

“ALLEGED PERPETRATO­RS NOTE: Include any perpetrato­rs who are or were ordained members of the religious clergy legitimate­ly serving in or assigned to a diocese or eparchy or within the religious institute at the time the credible allegation­(s) was alleged to have occurred. Include only clergy (NOT RELIGIOUS BROTHERS) that are members of religious institutes­.”
12:48 PM on 12/29/2011
First comment - text on bishops' actions to minimize reports of sexual abuse
Second comment - Footnote #1 with documentary back-up
Third comment - Footnotes #2-5

(2) http://www­.bishop-ac­countabili­ty.org/res­ources/res­ource-file­s/churchdo­cs/FinalSu­rvey.pdf p. 12 of 33, 5th paragraph

“Q2: Should seminarian­s be included? YES, but only those who are later ordained (make a notation as such)”

(3) http://www­.bishop-ac­countabili­ty.org/res­ources/res­ource-file­s/churchdo­cs/FinalSu­rvey.pdf p. 9 of 33, last question

“If the victim of abuse is biological­ly an adult, but mentally under the age of 18, should the allegation be included? NOT unless the abuse started when the individual was under the age of 18.”

(4) http://www­.bishop-ac­countabili­ty.org/new­s2010/07_0­8/2010_07_­15_TheVati­cano_Norma­eDe.htm

“the delict against the sixth commandmen­t of the Decalogue committed by a cleric with a minor below the age of eighteen years; in this case, a person who habitually lacks the use of reason is to be considered equivalent to a minor.”

(5) http://www­.bishop-ac­countabili­ty.org/AtA­Glance/USC­CB_Yearly_­Data_on_Ac­cused_Prie­sts.htm

“As of April 11, 2011, the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) has counted 5,948 clerics "not implausibl­y" and "credibly" accused in 1950-2010 of sexually abusing minors. The USCCB total omits allegation­s made in 2003.”
11:59 AM on 12/29/2011
Keep in mind that historically the hierarchy of the Roman Catholic Church has done nothing to little for victims of childhood sexual abuse, period. The mandates and promises of Accountability and Transparency were forced upon them by public outrage. They have yet to BE FULLY Accountable or Transparent. Nothing the bishops were FORCED to do in 2002 was altruistic.

Now, especially as a result of Sandusky at Penn State and a few other high profile revelations the hierarchy cannot use the "this is an anti-Catholic attack" in response to the clarion call for more adequate legislation covering childhood sexual abuse - BY ANYONE.

Yet, Archbishop Charles Chaput and the PA Catholic Conference is steadfast in their opposition to much needed SOL reform even after the actions of Philadelphia hierarchy have been revealed in both the 2005 and 2011 Grand Jury Reports on the Archdiocese of Philadelphia.

What is being done in the Archdiocese of Philadelphia is a blueprint in poor management, missed opportunities and gross negligence.

The hierarchy's mantra remains "Do as I say not as I do," even as so many walk away from the institutional church.

What they should be doing is supporting both House Bills 832 & 878 so that sexual predators and their enablers can be exposed.

Sister Maureen Paul Turlish
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10:34 AM on 12/29/2011
It is good the Catholic Church has taken away valuable strategies from the last 10 years to combat this problem. They have finally shined a light on an issue they were too embarrassed to expose and are finally willing to put the victims first. Sadly, sex offenders turn up in all walks of life and some will even hide behind religion simply to gain access to children. Each institution; whether it is school, sports, church, youth clubs, etc. must be vigiliant in not only their training and background checks, but give little opportunity for a child and adult to be alone. Never again will the jobs of teachers, priests, coaches be the same. Although many are good, honest people who never dreamed of harming a child, now all are presummed potential sex offenders from the start. Those who do work with children have accepted this realitiy and are willing to put up with the extensive safety protocols. Just as banks and retail stores must assume all their employees are potential theives, so in childcare jobs must there also be presumptions. Gone is one-on-one mentoring. Now, a witness or another adult must be within ear shot or close by to vouch for the exchange and keep the mentor/child interaction safe and accountable. Although grossly late, the Catholic Church finally owned up to not only passed damages. They are making strides to ensure future generations are safe and to the best of their ability that it never happens again.
10:51 PM on 01/02/2012
Its not so good that they got away with thousands of child rape crimes.
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Cindbird
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03:20 AM on 12/29/2011
A "profound sense of sorrow" is fine. But what the victim really needs is validation and the abuser in jail. The victim doesn't need a hug or a pat on the back, they need someone to believe them. Someone to stand up and say, "Yes you were abused. It isn't your fault. We WILL see the abuser in jail." That and a reference to a good psychologist or psychiatrist. As a victim of sexual abuse myself, (not by a priest) I know that a hug and a "I'm so sorry." isn't enough. We need the abuser stopped and we need good therapists. When a child suffers sexual abuse, it tears the very foundation out from under them. It rips apart everything that child believed about themselves and it kills something in the heart that takes years to come back. The victim often thinks they are "dirty" or "damaged goods" after it happens. And another priest or someone else in the same position of authority saying they are sorry doesn't do anything. It takes years to heal, and the best thing the church of any other organization can do for the victim is prosecute the abuser and help the family find a good therapist. And make sure the child is NEVER made to feel different or is looked at as different.
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06:02 PM on 01/10/2012
Actually, Catholic teaching is that after rampant child rapes are committed, you should:

- silence the childchildren, and threaten excommunication, as dictated by "crimen solicitattionas"
- lie to the congregation, as Cardinal Rigali did in 2011
- keep everyone silent (as they did in KC in 2011)
- mislead the police
- denigrate the victims (as Archbishop Dolan did in 2011 when a 16 yr old came forward)
- mock the victims (as the Catholic league did with thier crybaby cartoon yesterday)

This is today's Catholic church.