“I just find it really infuriating that we're still having this debate. I think what people do in their own bedrooms is their own gd business, unless it's (non-consensually) hurting someone else. Who, what and where you're getting your jollies isn't a big deal, in the grand scheme of things. Maybe if more people were interested in spending extended time having sex, we wouldn't have such a problem with people wasting time building atomic weapons, or testing nasty perfumes on innocent animals.
Live and let live, people. And stop judging your neighbor because s/he likes being beaten with a bouquet of geraniums, or whatever it is they do. Your foot fetish/anal proclivity/absolute need for "all missionary, all the time" is f-ing weird, too.”