“I don't know. This person goes on and on about forgiveness, and letting things go, but mentions nothing about TRUST.. once that is broken .. forget the rest.
And I agree that you need to spend time together, and share interests etc , but some partners can be a bit overbearing. You need to remember that you do not " own " the other person, and it's perfectly healthy to need and want some personal space”
“I also agree.
We can " humanly" relieve animals of pain and suffering , but not human beings.
How many of us have watched a loved one slowly die, and felt relief for them once they have passed.”
hellyon3too on Aug 20, 2012 at 15:16:14
“I have watched loved ones slowly die. I also watched a loved one take the pills that ended her suffering, and sat with her until the end. That option is there for anyone who wants to take it. We don't need to change anything.”
“it wasnt designed to be a way of life. it was designed to provide the basics needed to survive.
and there are always food and toy drives come the holidays
as for vacation lots of regular working families dont get to go anywhere either... thats why we have public beaches and pools, and parks.. zoos have free days, as well”
“that's 31 per person (4), per week .. 124.oo
sorry but it can be done. I'm not on any type of assistance, and I don't spend much more than that per week.
you need to be a smart shopper. plan out meals and make a list before you go to the store.. shop/ buy what is on sale, and use coupons
i just went shopping today.. chicken leg 1/4's were on sale for .69cts a pd ( stock up item ).. ground beef 1.99pd ( bulk pack.. can be divided into 4 ).. tomatoes on the vine 6 for $2..romaine lettuce 3 bunches 2.99... green beans.99 pd - cauliflower 1.99 ea ..oranges.. grapefruit 10 for 10... bag of apples $3... bananas. 49 a pd... big box of cheerios 2.50.. frozen pancake/waffle items( auntjemima) buy 1 @ 2.00 & get 1 free... they had wheat bread on sale ... eggs... tropicana oj ( 1.99 ) etc., i bought a bunch of things ( not just what is above ) and i spent 110. total and i live in ny”
adamben on May 16, 2012 at 16:50:33
“the point is that they are planning on cutting it so it may not be as easy as you say, in the future.”
“I live in Westchester, and I've been here a lot longer then they have .. all my life, like most that live in the area. FYI Ms. Lively and Mr. Reynolds. It's the two of you that are the outsiders, and need to be respectful of us!”
bbhuey4213 on May 11, 2012 at 10:57:23
“I live in a small rural community where a number of wealthy people have summer homes - no self-absorbed celebs, though, thank goodness - and though some are really wonderful neighbors while they're here there are a few who look down their noses at the "locals". I've only lived here since '72 but my mother was born here and her great-grandparents settled here in the 1800's so you could say we've been here a while. With Memorial Day approaching we're bracing for the "great influx", but when dealing with the more obnoxious outsiders ("townies") I just remember my grandmother's mantra: "Is it Labor Day yet?" (For the uninitiated, Mem. Day is the great influx, Labor Day marks the townie exodus...)”
“Regular people? Wow what a bunch of arrogant snobs WE'VE created!
Dear " Celebs"
“Make sure you treat everyone you meet on your way up the ladder with respect and kindness, and don’t forget them … because you’ll meet those same exact people on your way back down on the other side."”
“They need to go after the people that abuse and back up the system by calling in (anonymously) with fabricated , malicious, defamatory and demonstrably false claims of child abuse, so that these Caseworkers could more focus on saving the lives of children in real need!”
Candy Apple Blue on May 8, 2012 at 11:40:27
“I'm not sure that's a real solution; people would be even more reluctant to get involved and report what they've seen or suspected if they were worried about retribution.”
“In NY if you receive assistance, and win a lottery, like that. I believe they will take back what they gave you right out of it.”
Unca Allen on Mar 7, 2012 at 18:34:29
“Cut it off at the pass.”
jaye4412 on Mar 7, 2012 at 18:21:49
“And that's the cash benifet that they will recoup, not the foodstamp money..”
jaye4412 on Mar 7, 2012 at 18:20:31
“Yes, they will... People are outraged, and rightfully so, but they fail to realize that she doing nothing that's against the law.. She'll probally be off food stamps next month, and won't be able to re-certify.. It's the law...”
“my EX is bipolar, and when he was having a manic episode ( off his meds ) he would become very sexual and have deep deviant sexual thoughts, and if i refused anything he would become very violent. I didn't know until years later that during these times he would also seek out prostitutes and do who knows what with them. He was under Dr's care, and he did the 12 step program ( at a church )... a few times. It was always the same story no matter what they did. They are sick.. you need to be understanding.. you need to forgive... be supportive etc.,
Anyway im thinking this monster had initially fully intended to molest Etan.. only Etan fought him with all his might... and that's what led him to choke him to death”
Jules212 on May 26, 2012 at 09:51:39
“I'm really glad to hear he is your EX.....”
Hakulanni on May 26, 2012 at 09:43:57
“No offense, but you're extrapolating more than just a bit here. 1. Bipolar sufferers aren't sexual deviants nor become so when they suffer a bipolar episode. 2. You wren't there, so stop making a narrative on something you know absolutely nothing about... This guy may not even be the one who did it.”
Savannah5 on May 26, 2012 at 09:37:04
“It is very sad indeed.
Some mentally ill people are really harmless, but others like this monster was always a threat to society.
How could no one notice?”