iPhone app iPad app Android phone app Android tablet app More

Featuring fresh takes and real-time analysis from HuffPost's signature lineup of contributors
Sophia A. Nelson

GET UPDATES FROM Sophia A. Nelson

Why Are Some Black Women So Outraged by The Help

Posted: 08/16/11 11:46 AM ET

Why are some of the best and brightest black female voices in America so outraged over the new movie The Help based on Kathryn Stockett's best-selling novel?

Well, according to the Association of Black Women Historians (ABWH), and others like Professor Melissa Harris Perry of Tulane University, both the book and the movie represent widespread stereotyping and historical inaccuracies. They also take issue with the fact that Ms. Stockett's book which has sold over three million copies, and became a major motion picture that raked in close to $20 million dollars in its opening weekend debut has profited at the expense of the very women whose stories she purports to share so accurately in her novel. Couple this with the fact that Stockett is now being sued in a Mississippi court of law (on August 16, 2011) by a woman named Ablene Cooper, an African American nanny and housekeeper who works for Stockett's brother and sister-in-law, for stealing her likeness and story without her permission, and you have a perfect storm of emotions and resentment from a black female community that has often been silenced and shut out of "mainstream" book success and film adaptations when we share our own stories.

The ABWH further says in part in an "open" statement released on Friday, "that despite efforts to market the book and the film as a progressive story of triumph over racial injustice, The Help distorts, ignores, and trivializes the experiences of black domestic workers. During the 1960s, the era covered in The Help, legal segregation and economic inequalities limited black women's employment opportunities. Up to 90 percent of working black women in the South labored as domestic servants in white homes. The Help's representation of these women is a disappointing resurrection of Mammy -- a mythical stereotype of black women who were compelled, either by slavery or segregation, to serve white families. Portrayed as asexual, loyal, and contented caretakers of whites, the caricature of Mammy allowed mainstream America to ignore the systemic racism that bound black women to back-breaking, low-paying jobs where employers routinely exploited them. The popularity of this most recent iteration is troubling because it reveals a contemporary nostalgia for the days when a black woman could only hope to clean the White House rather than reside in it.

While I agree with most of the sentiments expressed by the ABWH there is a larger, more contemporary issue that we need to consider--and that is this: some of the most poignant and heart-stirring stories of black women's lives both past and present have been told by the likes of Audre Lorde, Toni Morrison, Anne Moody, Alice Walker, Lorene Cary, Maya Angelou, Jill Nelson and now women of my generation (self included) are starting to share our complex journey as young, urban, professional, upwardly mobile black women in America, living in the "Age of Michelle Obama." Yet, very few if any of these books become mega-best-sellers or are adapted on film into a major motion picture.

Not to mention when we do get published, our books rarely get the marketing support and print runs of our white counterparts. This is not sour grapes, this is the reality black women live with everyday in America. And this is the real reason why so many black women are disgusted and maybe even angered by the success of a white female author who tells our story (as fiction) and is embraced and celebrated for doing so by the mainstream media, book reviews, film world, and the like.

This is no different than John Grisham's A Time to Kill, Mississippi Burning, or Ghosts of Mississippi and the like. In all of these books, turned to film, there is a white hero who saves the black people from the bad guys. Even portrayals of the Civil Rights era give the Kennedy brothers and others a heap of credit for somehow liberating black people. NOT TRUE.

The truth is that black people liberated ourselves. We organized, we marched, we protested, we put the USA's system of legalized segregation on trial -- and we won.

That is what I think is at the crux of what bothers us all so much. It is not that our white brothers and sisters did not play a role in our liberation from slavery and Jim Crow, they did. But the challenge for us as black authors, historians, and film-makers is that we cannot often get our stories told or shared on a broad national platform because the people often making the decisions to publish, support or fund these stories do not see them as valuable or relevant.

I will end by sharing that I know of what I speak. Black Woman Redefined: Dispelling Myths and Discovering Fulfillment in the Age of Michelle Obama is my first book. It has nationally commissioned research that costs over $30,000 dollars, it includes groundbreaking insights and trends for today's black woman, and it was published by a notable publishing house in May 2011 (but with a very small print run -- my publisher hedged its bets). The book did much better than expected (for a black woman's book), after being given a great reception by black radio, TV, and press and it has sold over 10,000 copies out the gate. The subject matter could not be more timely and relevant (it came out the same week Psychology Today said black women were scientifically unattractive), yet this book which tells the authentic story of modern-day black women of a new generation, our struggles, road-blocks, hopes and dreams has yet to be reviewed by a major news paper, or given time on a major morning show, or mainstream radio program. Those same producers and editors embrace Ms. Stockett and others like her so readily, while pushing those who live the reality into a corner to be silenced.

If I had a dime for every white female or white male editor who has told me or my publicist that the book is just "not for them" or that "it is nice but not for their audience," I would be rich. And this is what is really driving the furor of black women scholars, historians, and journalists who once again have to sit by and hear how wonderful a white woman author is for "telling our story," and watch her be embraced, validated, covered, and rewarded for doing so (even if inaccurately so). This is something that even in the year 2011, rarely happens to and for us as black women authors and screenplay writers.

 
 
 

Follow Sophia A. Nelson on Twitter: www.twitter.com/http://twitter.

 
 
  • Comments
  • 124
  • Pending Comments
  • 0
  • View FAQ
Comments are closed for this entry
View All
Favorites
Bloggers
Recency  | 
Popularity
Page: 1 2 3  Next ›  Last »  (3 total)
01:32 PM on 08/21/2011
Just in case you really think black women are the only ones upset about depictions in THE HELP, check this out (see below). Maybe somebody posted it already--(I didn't read ALL of the comments since they were becoming repetitious.) This is the courageous voice of a White woman who really "gets it". A fictional story doesn't have to be factual because it's not a historical document. But it needs to be AUTHENTIC otherwise, it's fantasy. Please check the word VERISIMILITUDE--which is an attribute that all good fiction writers strive for. I think this is what is lacking for those who object to the book and film. Enjoy pure social entertainment if you want, but understand completely what it is that you are "enjoying". Maybe Donna Ladd's perspective will help you all understand a bit more clearly what you are "enjoying" in this novel since now you can't say it's just an "angry/jealous/bitchy/whatever black woman offering the critique.

http://www.jacksonfreepress.com/index.php/site/comments/editors_note_of_anger_and_alternative_endings_081711/
08:25 PM on 08/21/2011
You meant to say "some" black women...right? Because at least 95% of the black women I've communicated with regarding the movie loved it. Also, did you really think the black women who were upset with the depictions in the movie, needed to have their critisms co-signed by a white women to gain authenticity!
photo
HUFFPOST BLOGGER
Nelson Montana
Artist, Author, Composer
09:42 PM on 08/19/2011
Make a statement, tell a story, have a perspective -- and some people will have a problem with it.

It's a story folks. Everything doesn't have to be a political stance according to your personal whims.
This user has chosen to opt out of the Badges program
photo
DCreamerII
Middle Age Merry Prankster...
09:12 PM on 08/19/2011
This lady would ride the bus to and from and more often than not bring her children with her, an infant boy and a girl several years younger than myself. We played together with other children in the neighborhood, ate together and took naps together on the front porch. My mother would always straighten the house before Nadine arrived and fix lunch for her and the rest of us as they talked and laughed and sometimes scolded us. As a child I never doubted Nadine’s love for me or my family and to this day I miss her and her family who we got to know rather well over the years. When she passed we were not the only white people at her funeral but looking back we were few in number.

I guess my hope would be that any time people of different races are depicted as respecting, collaborating, liking or loving each other it would chip away another piece of what separates us and remind us of the things that bring us together. If even one person sees the Help maybe a child or an insensitive adult and leaves with a new respect for or yearning for brotherly love it will have been worth making and seeing. That’s my perspective anyway.
photo
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
seereene1
More genius in a cracked pot than a whole one.
04:47 AM on 08/19/2011
I'm not really outraged by the book or movie. It's just kinda SSDD to me. It's nothing I'd run out to read or see. As a grandchild of domestic workers to southern whites I have no illusions on how those long hours away from home and low pay affected our family. It all feels a bit Driving Miss Daisy to me - another movie that made my stomach churn.
dangerousNEGRO
21st Century Abolitionist
02:44 PM on 08/18/2011
Not to oversimplify the issue, but it really is quite simple. The narrative that gets told and the people who get to tell it usually look like, or have the same cultural background as, the people that own the media that broadcast it. If Black consumers do not create, invest in, and support Black-owned media companies in print, radio, and film, WE CANNOT BE SURPRISED when other people won't do for us what WE SHOULD BE DOING OURSELVES. White people telling stories that make us look inferior does not really make us look inferior nearly as much as having your hand out to white media companies begging them to tell OUR stories. When you see a Black-owned media company trying to make it, support them. Start with ujamaadeals.com and stop giving your money to Groupon and LivingSocial.
photo
HUFFPOST BLOGGER
Marlynn Snyder
08:50 AM on 08/19/2011
Excellent sentiment, very well said, AND with a nice plug at the end! Get into it!
photo
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
Rmchairphilo
11:50 AM on 08/18/2011
This article confuses me. While she is raising some valid points about the plight of the black woman back in the jim crowe era, what does her scholarly book, or any other for that matter, have to do with a novel? Is it even fair to compare something written strictly for "entertainment" purpose with something written to educte people? I went to the movie prepared to be angry, because I read some pretty scathing reviews, and found that I liked the movie very much, particularly the fine performances of the two main actresses. I think this is the wrong fight to pick.
photo
HUFFPOST BLOGGER
Marlynn Snyder
08:59 AM on 08/19/2011
Very interesting. I, too, feel that Nelson raises some valid issues, but at the very end of the day, this lack of marketing thrust and vision from the major publishers in the promoting of work by authors of color should inspire more innovation and creativity. Although the book 'The Help' was marketed to a mainstream audience, a lot of women of color read the book and connected with the story. No one put a gun to their heads making them buy the book.

What some publishers/marketers still don't get is that EVERYONE wants to be a part of something special. NO ONE wants to be the last to find out about something hot or amazing. Not just "mainstream" (read 'white') audiences; not just audiences "of color." EVERYONE.

So let that frustration inspire your own creativity in marketing your book/film/tv show, or whatever. Less time complaining, and more time innovating & promoting - that's my view.
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
echurley
10:52 AM on 08/18/2011
I guess I saw a differnt movie from the other people who posted here.

Skeeter did not save the maid, she save herself from a life of oppression... marriage to an idiot.

The maids saved themselves by exposing the horrors of their work lives. I am a minority who grew up in the Civil rights era. I remember seeing whites marching right beside us. Whites helped my parents buy a house in an all white neighborhood that had good schools. Whites employed my sisters in their shops so that we would not have to be domestics like my grandmother.

Those times existed and continue to exist. We would be foolish to pretend otherwise.
photo
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
lib2dbone
Liberal all day
05:05 AM on 08/18/2011
I don't read fiction to understand or learn about my history.. The story was a good one, even if a little over the top for effect. I have not seen the film, but I will, and like "A time to kill" and "The color purple", I'll enjoy it for what it is. Entertainment. Don't forget that this is America, and the sooner we stop celebrating how far we've advanced in the past 50 years, the better. Those of us who lived through those times know that all that has changed is that attitudes are subtler. We are 1/9th of the population, and the other 8/9ths weren't taught about us in school, and they believe we are inconsequential. Regardless of who wrote the book, whose story it is/was, it was a good effort and it rang true ... in an exaggerated way.
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
forkuu
terrible typist-no patience- no political party
04:54 AM on 08/18/2011
i am not black and i was disgusted to this this book made into a film. its the same old white rehashing of the same story that has been told or insinuated over and over again. have you watched the actors puton the talk shows ? they are the white actors of the film. have you seen hsn trying make money off this movie ? all white clothes designers, all white cooks etc. why is this still happening in our day and age? to deny how rascism is still so pervasive would be ludicrous. we just have to listen to the insideous remarks and attitude made about our president (who i am not a fan of) and first lady. we are kidding ourselves that our country has come far . all of us are bigots
and we need to face up to it. i am not excluding our black brothers and sisters who have their own rascist ways regarding color.
01:45 AM on 08/18/2011
"The truth is that black people liberated ourselves. We organized, we marched, we protested, we put the USA's system of legalized segregation on trial -- and we won."

If we won, they why does it never get left alone? Why keep fighting? It seems that many are fighting themselves and their own personal issues. Why does it always seem that something so simple as a work of 'fiction' is picked apart and not just accepted for the nice work that it is?
photo
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
Age Of Aquarius
Sorry, republicans...my one term lasts 2,160 years
02:50 AM on 08/18/2011
I would like to live in your world, would love it if we all could. But, even you don't live in that world...because one person's 'fiction' is another person's reality. It is not fiction if people actually speak and live that way...as my mother does.

It can't be "left alone" when you have an industry that won't leave it alone. In Hollywood, we never "won", because they won't allow it. Until Viola Davis is on the short-list to play the same roles as Julia Roberts and Meryl Streep, which she is CLEARLY capable of...these kinds of movies, no matter how well they are done, will be a point of contention.

I never raised this point, though I thought of it before now. Why couldn't this movie have taken place in the modern era, with the same actors...instead of the Jim Crow period? With the current economic downturn and the growing divide between the wealthy and the middle-class, this could have been much the same movie dealing with racism AND classism.

Instead, we were once again given the spectacle that we are all too familiar with. Hollywood has been updating old movies and TV shows like crazy, of late. Why couldn't this story have been one of them? I can think of a million other ways for a group of black women to find their strength...and I wouldn't need to go back 60 years to do it.
03:57 AM on 08/18/2011
Because the people who wrote the book/screenplay, produced and directed and risked their $30 plus million dollars wanted to make this movie and they wanted to tell the story they wanted to tell, taking place in the era they wanted it to take place in. If you want a movie that takes place in a more modern era, you are going to have to write the story, get the book published, find a movie producer willing to risk $30 plus million on your project, then find a director willing to take on the project. Then make the movie. It's really that simple!
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
forkuu
terrible typist-no patience- no political party
04:55 AM on 08/18/2011
you miss the point
06:22 AM on 08/18/2011
You may think that I have missed YOUR point and everyone who feels as you do, but I don't feel 'outraged by The Help' - even as a black woman. That is MY point. And, before you try to dissect my every word, I do notice the title mentions 'some' not 'all', I just think many are looking way too far into this.
12:05 AM on 08/18/2011
So, I'm reading all the post here pro and con, the question I have is what exactly do those against this film/movie find so offensive or off putting? What exactly is so objectionable? Is it that the female leads are playing domestic servants and nannies. If so, what is negative about those occupations? Are you insulted how the Jim Crowism was illustrated, was it lacking in it's authenticity, did it not portray enough or too much venom? Did you not find the characters Abilene and Minnie attractive, did there darker skin offend you? Are you upset that these women were shown actually loving and nurturing the children under their care? Do you really think the dialect of southern women who probably did not complete high school was unrealistic? Are you saying the domestic maid/nanny role is over done? Or are you become undone because of who wrote the book? Or, are you ashamed?
photo
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
Age Of Aquarius
Sorry, republicans...my one term lasts 2,160 years
01:37 AM on 08/18/2011
I cannot answer your questions in the way others might, having only seen brief clips of the movie. In that respect, I have no quarrel with what takes place in the film, especially since, by all accounts,
Viola Davis has yet another stunning performance to add to her criminally short resume.

My problems lie with its very existence. In 1939, the first Oscar ever awarded to a black person was for portraying a domestic slave named "Mammy", of all things. And here we are, 72 years later, in another century, with a black family occupying the most famous house in the world...and there is talk again of an Oscar going to a black actress for again playing a domestic...this time during the Jim Crow era.

Many have argued that movies, especially non-autobiographical works, should not bear the weight of historical accuracy, as it is just "escapist fare." What if the portrayal hits far too close to home, as it does in my case, as my mother does exactly that kind of work in Mississippi.
Where, then...is my escape?

Revisiting roles like these are akin to having a serious wound stitched up...and right before it heals...you remove the stitches and the wound opens anew. Neither Hollywood nor our communities are far enough removed from these portrayals to allow that wound to completely heal. We are so much better than this.
03:03 AM on 08/18/2011
What I hear you saying is you're offended by the occupation of a domestic. I am hearing you say that for, whatever reason, the role/job of a domestic is, perhaps not as good as some other occupation. Now I have domestic working in my home of El Salvordorian descent. I admire the work she performs and I appreciate her contribution to her family and our economy. She's earning an honest living as did the real life characters represented in The Help. In essence what I hear you saying is, for whatever reason, you find the occupation of domestic, less than, say a doctor or lawyer, mmmm, perhaps, better than, what, a prostitute, a waitress, a bank teller, a cotton picker? Also if I'm hearing what you're saying correctly, it seems as if you are suggesting the history of our people should start say post-Obama, cause we as a people were just so wounded in our 400 year post- African, American experience! HUGE SIGH!!!
12:57 PM on 08/18/2011
VERY strong points. Thank you for sharing. The columnist, Sophia Nelson will be joining us LIVE tonight, Thursday August 18th on "Black Hollwyood Weekly" with The siSTARS on Afterbuzz TV. You can tune in online at www.thesiSTARS.com or www.Ustream.tv/afterbuzztv. We'd LOVE for your feedback on this issue. Call-in to speak with Sophia directly at 424-256-1729. 7/pt 9/c See you then!
01:08 PM on 08/18/2011
Author Sophia A. Nelson made a profound point. I ask you: Are you suggesting that the Alice Walkers and the Toni Morrisons' of the world, who do not get the same opportunities within the mainstream Hollywood system to tell stories ABOUT black women FROM black women, is not a cause for concern? Are you unable to see the through-line of our stories, decade after decade, being told through the lens of white people of which THEY (not us) are the catalyst for our growth, transformation, "healing" and change? Has the "white people can show you the way" formula not been WAY overdone in Hollywood? You are correct. The movie is exceptional. I don't think that is the argument here. Actually, it's beside the point. The real issue is : Can Viola Davis win an Oscar playing a role other than a maid? How many roles has she STARRED in (not just been featured in) beside one that has inherent racial implications? She was brilliant LONG before playing a maid--why haven't we seen it? Do you believe black actresses have enough of a VARIED and different reflection presented on the screen as do our white female counterparts? THESE are the questions I am interested in hearing your answer to. Join the conversation on Afterbuzz TV's "Black Hollywood Weekly" with The siSTARS--Thursday, August 18th at 7p/ 9/c on www.thesiSTARS.com or www.ustream.tv/afterbuzztv. Call-in at 424-256-1729. Sophia Nelson will be answering questions!
photo
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
Age Of Aquarius
Sorry, republicans...my one term lasts 2,160 years
07:57 PM on 08/17/2011
"Race" is an old lion, a shadow of its former self, slowed by time and circumstance. But, its fangs are no less dangerous...and it is still just as unnerving when you hear its mighty roar. I feel the presence of that lion stalking me whenever I see ads for movies or books with a majority of black faces.

I feel its eyes over me, tension mounting, a palpable sense that I am about to be assaulted and mauled.
And there is no escape.

I often feel this way because race seems to permeate every pore and facet of nearly every project to which we are at the helm...and obviously those. like 'The Help', in which we are not, as well. I am rarely afforded the opportunity to apply the "law of universality" to these endeavors.

What that means is...can I insert an actor of any race into this role and it works just the same? No is too often the case when we create opportunities for ourselves. All audiences can identify with Will Smith saving the planet from destruction. But how many could identify with Brad Pitt playing 'Madea'? When everything is filtered through a black prism, we will never grow...and the old lion will never die.
01:12 AM on 08/18/2011
Part 2: I totally identify with this. As I look back and examine black films and literature that main stream America adores, it is filled with black families living in the ghetto or during times of segregation, and they are poor, uneducated and illiterate, until a white person comes along to save the day. And although that happens sometimes, it is not an accurate portrayal of black families or black women. Not every black person you meet is uneducated, lives in the ghetto, and needs a white person to rescue them. That is a stereotype endorsed by main stream America. I can understand the frustration of a book like "The Help". In reply to your post, I can't find many movies or novels where the law of universality can be applied, and that is to say the very least very eye opening.
04:00 AM on 08/18/2011
Would you let a few of the films and literature you refer to?
01:18 AM on 08/18/2011
Tell me, could you see Brad Pitt playing 'Mrs. Doubtfire'?
photo
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
Age Of Aquarius
Sorry, republicans...my one term lasts 2,160 years
02:11 AM on 08/18/2011
I think you missed the point of what I said. This is NOT about any white actor in any white role. It IS about whether any white actor would fit as comfortably in roles that we create for ourselves vs what we are capable of doing in roles normally assigned to white actors.

Hollywood could, but they don't, cast Denzel Washington in any role written for George Clooney, because the characters are an "every man". But could you see Hollywood, or our own community, casting Leonardo DiCaprio as "Smokey" in 'Friday' instead of Chris Tucker?

I think you know better than that. You seem to be subscribing to the premise that an actor is an actor is an actor. We are not there yet, neither our community or Hollywood...and that is CLEARLY evident by the castings on most "hood" movies, and most "romantic comedies". What color are the protagonists usually in both those genres?

Do white people not live in their own "hood"? Can Hollywood not find two attractive people of color to star in at least a quarter of the "rom-com's" that they put out ad nauseum? They typecast us, and when we get our chance to do something...we typecast ourselves as well. Change is needed.
photo
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
Hope Richardson
Cynical Comedian, Future World Dictator, Otaku
05:41 PM on 08/17/2011
They make a good point, but I'm always suspicious when people have problems with a book (usually suing as well) AFTER it becomes popular. I just enjoy the book for it's humor and writing, it's not like it has warped my mind into thinking that white people "liberated" black people. Anyone who paid attention in history class would know that's nowhere near true.
05:02 PM on 08/17/2011
Hmmmm, Where was the outrage over "white chicks"?

(btw, white chicks was way, way more offensive that the help.)
06:51 PM on 08/17/2011
Well if you are going to there....how about Amos and Andy. The Jazz singer. Etc. etc. etc.
01:33 AM on 08/18/2011
Oh I certainly don't want to get into a competition about it. I was just making a point.
04:53 PM on 08/17/2011
I enjoyed it. It was funny, sad and poignant. Who cares how authentic it is? Stll I feel it's sad that we're still starring in these kinds of movies or that Hollywood still feels the only way to give blacks a proper forum in movies is to conjure up demeaning stereotype archetypes for blacks to play. Oh, well I guess when you run the industry you really do take care of your own first.
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
Nick2
12:25 PM on 08/18/2011
I think most of the White characters in the movie were demeaned, and they deserved it. The Black women in this movie were brave and as powerful as they could be at that time in our history.