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When a Kiss Can Get You Bitten: Lessons From Denver

Posted: 02/13/2012 5:34 pm

Imagine this. Your friend introduces you to her 3-year-old boy whom you immediately adore. You hold his shoulders with your arms outstretched as you talk to him and he responds by looking at you while he leans against his mom. As you tell your friend how lovely her child is, you switch to pinching the child's cheeks and patting his head. He responds by looking away. As your visit ends, you move in to kiss him on the cheek. He looks at you with an expression of horror and, before you can kiss him, he starts to cry.

While you may have missed the earlier signs that indicated he wasn't enjoying the interaction, most people would recognize that his tense posture and look of shock was your cue to stop even before he started to cry.

Humans Tend to Ignore Canine Signs of Anxiety and Discomfort


On the other hand, when an avid dog lover greets a dog in this equally improper way, the bite that ensues is often perplexing to the victim as well as onlookers. One such incident involving KUSA Denver television anchor Kyle Dyer occurred just this week. The news piece featured a Dogo Argentino who had been rescued the day before by firefighters when he fell into an icy lake. The spot was to honor and celebrate the rescue.

The reporter, who loves dogs, smothered the dog with affection by petting with both hands all over the face. The dog was virtually cornered -- sitting with his back against the couch with the owner's legs on both sides of him while the owner held his collar tight. The reporter was encroaching into the dog's personal space and, because of his positioning, the dog did not have the ability to show that he enjoyed the petting by leaning into the petting hand and couldn't show that he disliked the petting either by moving away. But he did lick his lips, which often indicates anxiety and he clearly turned away while the petting continued.

Next, the anchor moved her face in closer as if going in for a kiss -- the dog raised his lips and froze for an instant. When the reporter failed to recognize the neon signs and continued moving closer, the dog snapped, making contact with her face. It was over in an instant because the snap was meant to warn, not to hurt. The owner reflexively pulled the dog away and the dog willingly complied. No hard feelings on the part of the dog and no long, drawn out, frenzied barking and lunging. But the damage had already been done. He had landed a bite which, because the TV anchor was moving closer to him, led to a laceration requiring 70 stitches.

Most likely everyone involved feels badly about this incident, and they are not alone. The mistakes that the reporter made occur every day. In fact, this type of greeting is probably one of the top reasons why about 4.5 million people are bitten by dogs every year.

Recognizing Body Language and Greeting Correctly are the Keys to Prevention

We'd all do better if every one just knew a few things about dog body language and proper greetings. For instance, it's important to know that yawning, licking their lips, and panting as well as looking away can be signs of anxiety or fear.

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To see more signs read my Art & Science of Animal Behavior Blog. You can also download a free poster on the body language of fear in dogs.

It's also useful to realize that while many dogs will put up with impolite greeting by unfamiliar people, some dogs are too scared to handle these human mistakes. Luckily, the mistakes are common sense when you stop and think about how you would want to be greeted (see the other free downloads on how to greet a dog).

For instance, you wouldn't want some stranger on the street rushing up to hug you. The same goes for dogs. That's why it's best to approach slowly (at a relaxed walk).

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You'd also feel uncomfortable if a stranger approached and stared at you. It's the same with dogs. Avoid staring at and approaching dogs head on. It's best to approach sideways and view the dog out of your peripheral vision.


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Similarly, you might be creeped out by someone hovering over you. Leaning over dogs can scare them too. It's important to stay outside the dog's bubble or personal space.

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Even with people you know, it's still rude to reach into their personal space. Reaching out to a dog can be a threat. That's why it's best to let the dog approach at his own rate. It's best if the dog looks relaxed, comes up to you, and rubs against you to solicit your attention.

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Lastly, even with your good friends, some friendly gestures are unwanted. The same goes for dogs. Many dogs dislike being hugged or kissed. As a result, it's best to watch the dog's body language and avoid actions that make him uncomfortable.

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As you can see, the drama created in situations like the KUSA one described above can generally be avoided if humans follow a few simple rules. Just learn to recognize a few body language signs that tell you when a dog is scared or wants you to back off, and remember to greet dogs the way you'd want strangers to greet you.

For more information on how to properly greet a dog, read Preventing Dog Bites by Learning to Greet Appropriately.

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07:44 PM on 03/07/2012
Though I am thankful for the useful article, I tend to think that the underlying problem may be our general lack of respect and empathy toward a life (whether it is a dog or human being) other than self. Even if you do not know at all about an animal's body language, an adult should know that he/she is not the most important being on earth that is entitled to impose patience on any random object, such as this dog. I have seen it everywhere -- stalkers, bullies, for example -- but it seems it gets worse and even almost justified when people are with cameras. I hope people in media to have some respect and not let their camera take them over with an illusion that they are the only "I"s with others just being their "objects."
10:51 PM on 03/06/2012
I searched the internet to find a follow-up on this story because I would like to know what is going to happen to Max. I thought I had heard there was a court date set for April. Is the Dogo's life still hanging in the balance?

I tried to pinpoint when Max's behavior changed. At first, I saw his tail wagging and it seemed he briefly enjoyed the attention. To me, the behavior change happened when the anchor put her hand on Max's owner's leg. I suspect that Max's owner tensed up, just as anyone would whose space was invaded. So, the anchor not only invaded the dog's space but the owner's as well.

To me, the anchor's dominant behavior reflects the disrespect of the media to all of us. After all, the media, in that specific event, did not care that the dog would be injured or tired, nor that they were asking the owner to bring it directly to an area with extensive breed-specific bans, nor that they would be putting a powerful, dominant breed under stress, etc. They only cared for "the story" and not for the results getting that story might bring. I recognize there was no ostensible malice intended, but for me, the blood-thirst for a "story" is malice enough. And didn't Max do us all a favor by mirroring that back to us so well? Maybe in the future, media types will be quicker to let sleeping dogs lie.
11:06 PM on 02/21/2012
The Dogo Argenino is a Pit Bull Mixed Breed. Please read this:
(source: http://www.burkesbackyard.com.au/factsheets/Dogs/Dogo-Argentino-(Argentinian-Mastiff)/997)
While some texts describe the Dogo Argentino as trustworthy with people and exceptionally loyal, the breed is banned in Australia and Great Britain due to concerns about its temperament.

In other words....This dog had NO BUSINESS being off leash at any time. The breed can be very aggressive with other dogs, potentially dangerous with humans.
Why did this foolish lady put her face down in front of a strange pitbull going for a kiss? Dumb Dumb Dumb....Why did 9news need to sensationalize this story? The owner was at fault here all the way around and deserves a citation...not a medal of honor.
04:36 PM on 02/22/2012
No pitbulls were used in the creation of Dogo Argeninos. They are not a mixed breed as they have been breed intentionally for a purpose for over 70 years.

In regards to a Dogo's temperament. These dogs should never be human aggressive, but they are functional hunting dogs. The biggest issue is a high prey drive and exercise requirements. With any working dog breed they require a lot of work and not everyone can handle the challenge. The breed ban as always have to do with politically sensationalism and a quick fix attitude of trying to ban something without actually dealing with the core of the problem, which is bad dog owners.

This dog bite had nothing to do with the breed and everything to do with the reporter and owner ignoring or missing obvious dog language (she is the stations animal reporter and should have known better). But it is ultimately the owners responsibility to recognize when his dog is feeling threatened and respond accordingly.
05:46 PM on 02/15/2012
Very good article on body language with dogs. I saw this video when it first hit Denver news stations before they editted out the bite. The reporter had no idea what she was doing. You just can't walk up on a dog like that and get all in its face. While I hate to say it, she got what any stranger might have got had they done the exact same thing. No fault on the dog, she should have been slightly more cautious...
09:27 PM on 02/14/2012
This is a timely and much-needed article. Too many people don't have any idea how to read or understand a dog's body language. I hope Ms. Dyer recovers fully, but I also hope that Max doesn't suffer because of mistakes by the humans.
10:36 AM on 02/14/2012
This bite required 70 stitches. Now this is a very informative article and video of the actual bite. All of what is said here is true. I am a huge animal lover, no doubt about it. I write articles for various outlets and fight for the rights of these wonderful animals. But...this dog did not give a warning growl. This dog was held on a very tight leash. Somehow I think there was a reason for that; perhaps the owner knew of the dog's temperament? A warning growl, a nip, but a full, vicious bite..I would deem this a dangerous dog. And I haven't heard anyone say how sorry they are for this woman's painful injuries. The most dangerous dogs are the ones who don't give warning growls.
04:28 PM on 02/14/2012
The dog had no history of aggression. While that does not mean that the owner has never seen signs of aggression (and let's face it, he did not seem to be very well-versed in dog behavior, even his own dog's), it does indicate that the dog has been relatively well-behaved. The problem is that the dog had been in a near-death experience the day before the interview. He had frostbite and was likely still in pain. He should never have been in that studio and that time. Unfortunately, Denver is already extremely bully breed-intolerant. Denver bans pitbulls and many other of the surrounding suburbs have breed bans in rental properties if not outright bans on all bully breeds. This unfortunate incident will only provide more fuel for the anti-bully fire.
12:33 AM on 02/15/2012
I am sorry that the news woman was injured and required 70 stitches however, I still don't see how you can say it was a vicious bite or deem it a dangerous dog. You point out that the owner was holding the dog tightly by its leash and he could have known what was going to happen. He may or may not have. The dog was placed in a stressful environment and as this article pointed out, he was forced to be in one very limited space and had someone crouching over him and leaning into his face. He had no way to move at all with the tight grip and the other bodies/furniture pressed up against him. Not all dogs will give a warning growl when they are stressed or scared and that dog was definitely stressed. All those people, small space, lights, noise, etc. I know that even as a human, if I was forced to be there, I would have been stressed as well.
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11:42 PM on 02/13/2012
This does not only apply to pets, but to dogs on the street as well. I rescue strays and am quite adapt at how to approach a terrified dog, but most people have no idea. I've always been convinced that the majority of dog attacks could have been prevented if people just knew how to react properly. Screaming, gesticulating and running from a dog on the street is a sure-fire way to get mauled.
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03:48 PM on 02/20/2012
I agree and think that is why children are such attractive target for dogs. They are almost asking to be chased, if not bitten.
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11:04 PM on 02/13/2012
This is very good. It should be required reading for all folks with small kids.
08:55 PM on 02/13/2012
Good article. I love dogs and have three. All large and all well behaved. People who see them often want to come up and....... They ask are they friendly. I reply it depends. Huh! Well they are but as noted in the article it is situational. I have had to stop kids from running up to my dogs several times. I always tell the kids that the best way to approach a dog is as noted above. And that it is important to always ask the owner first. In general I try to avoid the whole thing in a world where an accident can turn into a real problem and may lose you your dog or get you sued.
08:07 PM on 02/13/2012
Dr. Yin is doing a great service here, we all need education on the language of others, listening on all channels is a vital skill. Well done!
08:04 PM on 02/13/2012
Excellent article and a must read for dog lovers all over. I deal with people every day who literally come at a run, yelling, arms waving, wanting to maul all over my 175 pound Great Dane. He was much more tolerant of that kind of thing as a pup, now? Not so much. It blows my mind how clueless supposed dog lovers are, to approach any strange dog in this manner, let alone allow their children to do so, all the while standing back with a proud smile on their face. Until of course they meet the dog who won't stand for it, and a bite occurs. This dog didn't MAUL the reporter. He gave her a warning bite. A dog of that size and strength could have torn her face off had he wanted to. He didn't. It angers me that with such clear warning signs, it is still being reported as an "unprovoked attack".
07:34 PM on 02/14/2012
Usually a dog will growl first but the owner should have warned the reporter. It's the owner's responsibility to keep the dog under control and to stop people from getting close if possible. If your dog is the type that hates close human contact he should not be around kids who are not so great at understanding the dangers. Everyone should train and understand their dog. All dogs have an idea of what is their space and what they will tolerate. Some dogs its just their bed, some just the house, some their yard and some it's everywhere they are like this dog, which is not uncommon with breed of dog.
05:10 PM on 02/15/2012
Totally agree. I was never implying it was the dog's fault that he was dangerous. You have to remember, the dog was just rescued; why, because the poor guy was running loose. Irresponsible on the owner's part. No rabies shot? Again, pattern of irresponsiblitly. This owner, in my humble opinion, should not be paired with this type of breed.I don't believe the dog has or had a sense of "safety." I do believe the owner had him held very tightly for a reason.. That is my opinion, and I base it on what I saw and the circumstances, knowing full well I may be wrong. I still say this is a dangerous dog, not by his own making, but my an owner who has not provided security or discipline. Let's try to think of it this way. It this were not an adult, but perhaps your teenager or even YOUR adult child, and they bent down to this dog and he/she required 70 stitches from a bite, you might have a different perspective. I have rescued dogs and adore them.I am telling you, a dog that doesn't warn with a growl is fear-aggressive. Doesn't mean the dog is "bad" or should be put down; the owner has to take steps to make sure the dog is properly contained and doesn't put his dog in those situations. Wonder if the dog has had vaccinations. Do you have rabies certificates for your animals? I do.
12:22 AM on 02/16/2012
70 stitches??? He just about did tear her face off She has to have reconstructive surgery. That is NOt a warning bite. I am not, however, blaming the dog, but the owner. If you will read further in my posts perhaps you will understand what I mean. Thanks.
02:08 PM on 02/16/2012
Please know your breeds. Poodles and other like breeds often bite but do not generate the amount of damage that other breeds do. Dogo Argentinos are dogs bred for hunting wild boar and mountain lion. They were also bred to be freindly and a superior pet at home with children and family. When they truly bite their teeth interlock and they hold their prey with massive jaw force. They have the ability bred into them to breath with their teeth clenched. This was a warning bite! Not an attack of a viscious dog. Perhaps this is an irresponsible owner. I do not know. Do not approach any stressed animal in this manner, especially an animal as powerful as this one.
08:52 PM on 02/17/2012
The damage from one bite was that severe due to one, how big this dog's teeth are, two, how close her lips happened to be to his face. What would take a smaller breed multiple bites to achieve, a large breed can cause with 1. That's just a reality of size & strength. A dog that is attacking, would have kept at it until someone had to pull him back. He didn't resist being pulled back. He didn't try to get at her again.
07:26 PM on 02/13/2012
This is great Dr. Yin! Thanks for posting this!
07:26 PM on 02/13/2012
Well said, Dr Yin. Most folks are so out of touch with nature that they do not know how to behave or respond to animals, humans included.