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Suhag A. Shukla, Esq.

Suhag A. Shukla, Esq.

Posted: January 3, 2011 08:17 PM

Working out more, getting organized, losing those last ten pounds ... these are amongst the top ten promises that millions around the world, including me, have made this weekend and likely break before the end of the month. Hoping to arrive on something less short-lived, something not so self-centered, something greater than me, I'm hoping this year to better illumine my path with age-old Hindu wisdom. They were inculcated in me long ago, but those echoes of the past suddenly seem more relevant. May the spiritual guidance of sages, swamis and gurus inspire my interactions with all those whose paths cross mine, not only to the end of this year, but through lifetimes. For all you yogis out there -- my list of resolutions may just be the same as yours -- they are, of course, the five eternal yamas:

Ahimsa -- Non-harming. I'm a peace-loving vegetarian. I eat local, at least in the summers, and I recycle. It's a start, though I could probably lighten my footprint on Mother Earth even more. But what about being non-harming in my thoughts and words? Can I recognize and respect the Divine in the road-raged driver who cuts me off to get to his destination a whopping fifteen seconds early? Or how about the rude cashier who's taking out her angst against her boss on my carefully selected, perfectly ripe tomatoes? And, most challenging, how about the irate community member who thrives on the path of hostility rather than humility, and then insults me and my husband, in one fell swoop, over a difference of opinion? On these occasions a knuckle-sandwich or a certain privileged finger seem almost instinctual, but the concept of ahimsa wants us to tolerate not only that which we dislike, but even those who are mean or hateful. Ahimsa asks us to be non-harmful in all that floats through our minds and that comes out of our mouths (or out of our keyboards). To this end, I welcome the path of all-around non-hurting -- it's going to be hard, but my internal GPS has officially been reset.

Satya -- Truthfulness. As a stand-alone value, the truth can hurt -- really hurt. Case in point: "Do these pants make me look fat?" While "yes" may be the honest answer, Hindu gurus have advised that truth must always be served on a platter of kindness. So how can one communicate truthfully but also with courtesy and compassion? Perhaps being present and open in all of our conversations is one way. As one of my favorite swamis from Chinmaya Mission Trinidad shared during a talk, "God gave you two ears and one mouth, so listen more and speak less." I confess that I've suffered from foot-in-mouth syndrome and have given inappropriate advice as a result of simply talking too much. So following Swamiji's advice will hopefully enable me to foster more genuine and loving relationships, be it as a daughter, sister, wife, mother, friend or advocate.

Asteya -- Asteya literally is non-stealing, but that's rather simplistic and perhaps too easy for most of us who are law-abiding members of civil society. So in my quest to dig deeper, I need to apply more expansively, what it means to not take that which is not given. To this end, the first thing that comes to my mind is letting go of expectations. As much as I remind myself that, all that I do for family, for the community, or for others, should be embarked upon as a selfless offering to the Divine. But the reality is that I still innately find myself having expectations for praise, acceptance or appreciation. These expectations unknowingly, and quickly, transform to a sense of my right to that compliment. And when the acknowledgment doesn't come, I'm upset, angry and hurt over not getting something that wasn't mine to begin with? Here on, my motto has to be, "Do more. Expect less."

Brahmacharya -- Brahmacharya as one of the traditional Hindu stages of life is a phase in which a youth (~ages 14-20) dedicates his or her full efforts to gaining both secular and spiritual knowledge. While traditionally this age is a prescription for study, discipline and strict celibacy, brahmacharya in a broader context, and well beyond youth, means self-control or self-restraint in our dealings with the many distractions of our daily lives, be they physical, emotional or mental. My biggest area for improvement in this regard is control in thoughts, especially when trying to navigate the swinging pendulum of life's highs and lows. In these times of stress, my thoughts, as if laced up with a pair of running shoes, sprint back and forth between woulda-coulda-shoulda and what-if. Learning the art of not letting thoughts control my ability to be present through mindfulness and meditation has to be a top priority.

Aparigraha -- In an age where Jimmy Choo's are just a mouse-click away and even available to those who don't live in New York City, abstention from greed, or in more modern terms, letting go of the need for "stuff" is so relevant. I have to admit that I actually have my credit card number memorized because of online shopping. I also have to sadly admit that I have not been able to memorize, thanks to caller ID and a cell phone, my own sister's phone number -- and that too, despite talking to her almost every day. How many can relate? I feel a sea of hands joining mine out there in cyberspace. I choose to follow the wise words of Mahatma Gandhi, a fellow Hindu and Gujarati who said, "I live simply so that others may simply live."

Wishing you an inspired New Year.

 
Working out more, getting organized, losing those last ten pounds ... these are amongst the top ten promises that millions around the world, including me, have made this weekend and likely break befor...
Working out more, getting organized, losing those last ten pounds ... these are amongst the top ten promises that millions around the world, including me, have made this weekend and likely break befor...
 
 
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CHMB
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11:58 AM on 01/31/2011
Thank you for sharing this wonderful piece. These are small things we can do to make the world a better place for all of us.
12:13 PM on 01/07/2011
@ DoesItMatter - Thank you and you are right that in the interest of satya, I should let readers know I corrected an error. My editing mistake was pointed out by a colleague, so I simply went in and made the change -- there was no intent to deceive or fool. And while you said a reason was not necessary, I will give one anyways. When I first started thinking about my piece, it was going to be on Niyamas but when I actually began writing, my resolutions flowed out naturally as Yamas (not to imply that I don't have Niyamas to improve upon). I will be more careful in the future about my inner-autopilot mode, and owning it, if it rears its absent-minded head.
DoesItMatter
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11:18 AM on 01/05/2011
In keeping with the spirit of the blog, and one of the Yamas - Satya - that the author aims towards, she should have a "blog update" or "note" indicating that she made a mistake and was correcting it instead of just rectifying the past mistake. A simple line or two, acknowledging that a mistake had happened and she has rectified it. She does not have to elaborate the reasons.

Acknowledging mistakes has two effects. Some readers will look up to the author with additional or new found respect; while others will look down up on. While others might just be neutral. The human tendency is to reduce the number of people who look down upon us, because I guess it is how we have evolved on this planet. We all mistakes, but we seldom publicly acknowledge them for unknown fears plague us. Maybe it is Ego. I suspect there could be multiple reasons based on the circumstances that prevent us humans from going the "satya" route and we take the easier "asatya" route.

This is just one example of how tough it is to practice "Satya". As Suhag correctly states "truth can hurt".
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Neil Pharr
08:42 AM on 01/05/2011
Yes there are many gods (male and female) in hinduism, but to the intellectuals they are seen as symbolic. Hinduism comes for yoga. Yoga explains it like this: Brahma (God) is the composite of Shiva (cosmic conciousness) and Shakti (Energy - sort of), But is is a unified theology in that Conciousness and Energy (creative force) is like two side of a piece of paper, ie, two sides of one god.
Actually the word "God" is a joke in Yoga: G.O.D. Generator, Operator & Destroyer (ie, changer) of the universe. Google 'gunapie' to see more.
DoesItMatter
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10:50 AM on 01/05/2011
It is simply wrong to state Hinduism came from Yoga. What is Hinduism, is still being debated by scholars. In the absence of a majority consensus, the least some of them have agreed upon is that it is a set of inter-related traditions.

The much touted Patanjali of Yoga Sutras fame, did not "discover" or "create" the sutras, he compiled and/or codified the existing practices & knowledge of his times.

The West, which is very used to monotheism and the rise of Christianity and Islam, attempts to treat the Indic traditions similar to Christianity and Islam.

In the Indic traditions, like in all there is philosophy and there is practice. In practice, the people in the Indian-subcontinent prayed to multitude of gods and godesses, without any concern to theory or philosophy - because sometimes none existed. In the theoretical or philosophical arena was not all simple and clam, it was chaotic in the sense many ideas rose and rubbed shoulders with others.

Hindus are happy to be idol worshiper worshiping thousands of gods and goddesses.

To claim one knows the origins of Hinduism, one of the Indic traditions, is laughable at best. Because it means one has defined "What is Hinduism" in the first place. And let me remind again, both the practitioners and the scholars are still bickering about it; and Hindus are fine with this sort of confusion. After all such conditions gave birth to tolerance and pluralism.
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02:22 PM on 01/05/2011
Succinct and comprehensive - as usual - Faved!

BTW, the book you recommended arrived at my doorstep yesterday, and I quite like what I see in it; the organization is excellent. Thanks again. :-)
07:01 PM on 01/05/2011
There is no monolithic structure called "Hinduism". It is an amalgam of several things, not the least of which are six schools of philosophy, Samkhya, Yoga, Nyaya, Vaisesika, Purva Mimamsa and Uttar Mimamsa. Just like you found one explanation through the lens of yoga, there are other explanations that can be applied when you use, for instance, tantra. There are different sects, different faiths, different explanations. Shaivas have one view, Vaishnavas have another, Shaktas have yet another. And all of them may be different from the Vedantins who themselves are divided into three splinter groups. Does it mean they are all wrong, or any one of them is right and the others wrong? No. They are all accurate, but at different levels of complexity for different people. Some like their meat well done, some like it rare, some like it chopped and fried.
One of the sacred phrases of "Hinduism" is "Ekam sat vipra bahudha vadanti" (The truth is but one, the wise call it by different names). Pluralism is at the heart of Hinduism.
11:30 PM on 01/04/2011
mapmakers is a beautiful word

http://www.tm.org/blog/meditation/the-yoga-sutra-and-deep-meditation/

if someone at mum.edu has time thye might comment on this from Wikipedia: {{{{New Age author George D. Chryssides, believes that the Transcendental Meditation technique taught by Maharishi Mahesh Yogi is derived from Patañjali's Yoga.The TM-Sidhi Program is claimed to be based directly on the theory and practice of the Yoga sutras using a technique of Sanyama.
Actual lineal traditions of the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali bear no similarity to the neo-Hindu Transcendental Meditation "sidhi" program,[13] which cultivates yogic siddhis. Traditionally, cultivation of yogic siddhis is considered a primary impediment to Enlightenment or Cosmic Consciousness (Skt.: turiyatita) and are disallowed in the Shankaracharya tradition for this reason.[14]}}}}

all i can say is that Shankaracharya of Jyotirmath Swami Vasudevananda supports the Maharishi

patanjali was not teaching impediments Siddhis are not the goal of Yogic practice true they are stepping stones if one wants to us ethem; that is the siddhis are not the goal of the siddhis ; thye are a means [like pranayama or asanas] to unity consciousness as the maharishi teaches

experience of siddhis [practice of TM siddhi program] is culturing of the human nervous system to be able to adchieve world peace; siddhis elevate the individual into deep innerpeace and that being unbounded [that transcendental consciousness][unbounded means not bound by time an dspace] creates peace [stressfreestate] in the collective consciousness....
10:27 PM on 01/04/2011
Very good goals of which meditation as a daily priority , will help you to effortlessly attain the rest of youre goals.
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MohammedAbbasi
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09:36 PM on 01/04/2011
many thanks for this inspirational piece

www.aobm.org
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Steve McSwain
Author; speaker; spiritual teacher
08:42 PM on 01/04/2011
This are aspirations for all of us, regardless of our spiritual heritage or persuasion. Thanks for sharing them.
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08:02 PM on 01/04/2011
"ultimately the author is God"

well stated.

all is god, all is oneness, all is infinite, all is all and all,

now who are we??????????

we are expressions of this all and all; the Infinite source of all and all, how could we be otherwise?

now as expressions we manifest the devine qualities of this Infinite Source of vitality and substance most call God.

why so much suffering? why so many imperfections? why so much ignorance? why the sin/evil?

our "imperfections" define us as unique souls. actually our imperfections and perfections define us as unique souls as we evolve/unfold towards infinite perfection.

"without variety there is no world". swami prabhavananda.
"take away variety and the world would end" swami prabhavananda; again a profound statement.

variety demands imperfections (differences from perfection); no exceptions.

the very act of creation creates ignorance or better stated as unawareness.

are we an illusion. no.

we are of the real therefore we are not illusions but our experiences are temporal and transient.

Sri Aurobindo: “The world is manifestation of the Real and therefore is itself real.”

enlightened hinduism has much to offer. no I am not a hindu as I belong to no religion but my view is that enlightened hinduism has much to offer any sincere seeker into these mysteries of life.

if you are a true believer of any religion or materialism your seeking might be in vain. or not.
ie you already know. ie glass is already full thing.
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khanti
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07:15 PM on 01/04/2011
Here are another 10 beautiful places in our heart.

Dana - charity/genorousity

Sila - morality

Nekkhamma - renunciation

Viriya - energy to do good

Karuna - compassion

khanti - patience

sacca(as in satya) - truth/sincerity

adihtthanana - determination to do good

upekkha - equanimity with clarity

panna - wisdom
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07:22 PM on 01/04/2011
That's very good... thanks for that Khanti.
09:30 PM on 01/04/2011
Thank you for the book link. I will have to read it. I have had the Rig Ved and I think the 9th and 10th mondula in my drawer for twenty some years and occasionaly read a few pages a year. It has been said that the desired affect uccurs whether you understand it or not. I never could relate to it , but knew there was something there. Unlike the Consice Yoga Vasistha of which I can relate to every word and sentence.

Just reading the reviews , a taste of the cracking of the code with one word "cow" as meaning eternal light , or somehting like that , makes me very interested in it.
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Doug Sandlin
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05:35 PM on 01/04/2011
Yoga is a path within Hinduism, but, at the same time, Yoga is completely independent of Hinduism, as a religion.

Indeed, yoga is independent of religion, period. For a good overview concerning this, please see the following article:

Mysticism, Yoga and Religion
http://www.swamij.com/mysticism-yoga-religion.htm

Simply put: Yoga is equally useful for people of all religions, or no religion.

The foundational sutra of the Yoga Sutras is:

Yogash Citta Vrtti Nirodhah

Yoga (unity) is the cessation of mind disturbances.

(Yoga Sutra 1.2)

Yoga, therefore, is simply the unity and peace which results from resting in, and acting from, our natural, undistorted, fulfilled consciousness.

Yoga is not about beliefs or dogma, but solely about the practices which facilitate the resulting clarity and peace; completion - the condition which is the ultimate fulfillment of all religion.

It could be said that yoga, unity and fulfillment of consciousness, is what all religion is for, ultimately.

And, for anyone who may not know, yoga is far more than simply asanas (body-postures), which, like the Niyamas, are just one of yoga's eight limbs, which are:

1. Yama: codes of restraint, abstinences
2. Niyama: observances, self-training
3. Asana: meditation posture
4. Pranayama: expansion of breath and prana
5. Pratyahara: withdrawal of the senses
6. Dharana: concentration
7. Dhyana: meditation
8. Samadhi: deep absorption

For more on the eight limbs of yoga:

http://www.swamij.com/yoga-sutras-22629.htm

http://www.aypsite.org/149.html
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06:12 PM on 01/04/2011
But also, there is a map which is a guide, and this map is Sankhya, and it is a good map that leads away from projecting onto deep experience and thus stops one from starting new religions/cults. Without this map, and related info connected to the map, such as the difference between samprajnata samadhi and asamprajnata samadhi, the individual is generally over her/his head, becoming potentially aggrandized and/or psychotic, or just confused, or having just collected another 'mind-blowing' experience but not 'getting it".

So, its one thing to say that the process described is universal, but one must not forget the map, which has a historicity, and is very, very, very important. Thanks to the mapmakers, for not all maps are like this, some are confused... a big thanks.

Also, sankhya by itself doesn't cover it totally, there must also be other, balancing complementary views (eg. Nyaya, Vedanta), which are due to other map makers. This all has historicity. One should acknowledge the historicity as well as the universality.
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Doug Sandlin
We See The World Not As It Is But As We Are
06:45 PM on 01/04/2011
Thanks for this; I agree.

Each yogic or mystical system around the world (such as those I named in my comment) have their philosophical underpinnings - but as you pointed out, they are, and have always been known to be, maps.

Indian systems aren't free from teachings, nor should they be. These teachings, as you point out, help to prevent people from getting caught up in the experiences of deeper consciousness, which can be quite dramatic, by day-to-day life standards.

And so, the yogic approach is to use the maps and the steps one is taking to mutual benefit - a logical and proven approach -- and very different than the dogmatic approaches we often see from Western faiths, and to a much lesser degree, Eastern faiths.

Thanks for your comments; good points!
DoesItMatter
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06:36 PM on 01/04/2011
If you want to take it that far, then Hinduism, Buddhism and Jainism are not religions like what Judaism, Christianity and Islam define themselves as, too. Hence the former are called as Indic traditions and not as "religion".

Click on the following link, only if you have the time and patience to read good and lengthy academic discussion. Else do not even bother, with that teaser I present the following fascinating discussion :-)))))

http://www.svabhinava.org/HinduCivilization/Dialogues/HinduismReligion-frame.php
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Doug Sandlin
We See The World Not As It Is But As We Are
07:25 PM on 01/04/2011
Good point; I agree, for the most part.

And I've read many such overviews, over the years, and have studied yogic, tantric and advaitic texts for years -- that's why I can say "good point".
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04:56 PM on 01/04/2011
After hearing girls in 7th grade getting pregnant; as far as Brahmacharya goes, I would surely advocate being celibate until one turns 18 yrs. If individuals can hold on til their marriage, it is still better. But I guess it is not possible in this "modern" world :-))) They say human brains do not mature till in the late teens, so it calls for better parenting skills to live in the 21st century and peer pressure.
04:45 PM on 01/04/2011
the point about value of advice and evidence by Researcher are good advice

knowledge in a book is from that persons brain; the person who reads the book has a brain

for the words in the book to be of value the reader's brain must be able to use the words in the field of action

it may be that thebrain that wrote the book is able to use its own advice but the reader's brian remains the reader's brain rather than thewriters or authors brain

ultimately the author is God

the core of Hinduism is meditation [ADI Shankara] practice

religion cannot do without meditation and meditation [even when not religious] ultimately leads to god-realization

religion does not lead to god realization [except for some few by grace or good luck] it is beleif and remains beleif; god's brain remains god's brain and the beleivers brain remains the beleivers brain

the Maharishi somehow was motivated to leave the valley of the saints in Uttar Kashi and go to Rameshvaram there he was asked to speak after speaking some wanted to learn to meditate so he taught them what he knew to be meditation. he had 2 years of success [experience of inner Bliss] to the point of declaring "we can spiritually regenerate the world"at a meeting of 10 000 people;then he met the attitude we are hindus we allready know all this so he came to america and germany
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opsudrania
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04:24 PM on 01/04/2011
@Antifa,
I think where you are correct technically and linguistically, but I think Suhag may have missed it innocently. But yes it is a gross mistake. Element of overenthusiasm is better avoided especially with issues as sensitive as she has vowed to undertake. It should be more as an educative intention than a mere piece of an erudite counteractive journalism.

We owe a duty to try to educate both followers as well as non followers. Unfortunately sometimes the followers are noted less informed than their counterparts. Hence a word of caution is well advised. Of course Shag will answer for herself.

Another thing that I notice in her deliberation is a vacuum on the real theme of "Yoga" itself by mere narrating "Yamas" (Niyamas by mistake) and then finishing it with "Wishing you an inspired New Year.", is another gross misdirection to the Sage Patanjali and the entire Human race for which the whole system was designed. I would certainly expect that Suhag will be a bit more diligent, careful, purposive, not mixing it with a journalist mind. By doing so, she is defeating the whole purpose of her own sacred work and service.

God bless
Dr. O. P. Sudrania
DoesItMatter
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05:20 PM on 01/04/2011
While I agree with your point about her mistake in swapping the two terms, I disagree with your opinion that she should not have merely narrated Yamas. We do have the luxury and right to highlight a particular thought from the texts without having to mention all the other thoughts. She chose to focus on Yamas.
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Doug Sandlin
We See The World Not As It Is But As We Are
06:48 PM on 01/04/2011
No - I think he's saying she *was* outlining Yamas, and called them Niyamas by mistake; I noticed this, too.

Here's a good overview of the Yamas and Niyamas.

http://www.swamij.com/yoga-sutras-23034.htm
04:14 PM on 01/04/2011
The term hindu-ism was coined by the british in the last 2 centuries. They had no way to understand the complex social fabric of the civilization they were ruling which was knows as hindustan. The word hindu came from the river Indus or rather the land on the other side of the the river. Hinduism is not a religion per se, it is a way of life being followed over the 6000 years during which it absorbed and created many philosophies of its own and became the ultimate melting pot of cultural and civilizational exchange.
The old books(vedas,puranas,upanishads) and their mythological stories which underline this philosophy of Hindu civilization talks about an omnipresent god which lives in everyone and everything. Where did George lucas's idea of midichlorian presence in every life form came from ? It also talks about different ages in which the civilization reclaims itself from its failings in every age with the resurgence of the almighty Creator in whatever form it chooses. It is mostly presented in the form of a struggle between good and evil and shows that there is always a opposing force to every evil action.
DoesItMatter
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04:36 PM on 01/04/2011
The Indic traditions, do not look at the World as "good vs evil". The philosophy focused more with self-liberation through self-realization.
06:57 PM on 01/04/2011
Your opinion that Hinduism is not a religion is wrong as can be. The British simply referred to it originally as "Sinduism" or the religion of the people beyond the Sindus river. Like many other English "borrowed" words, it became simplified to Hinduism over the centuries.

Hindus themselves refer to their religion as Sanatana Dharma, the Endless Truth that springs up from the minds of human beings as naturally as thought itself. There are actually a multitude of religions within Hinduism -- everything from a-theism to monotheism to monism and every subtle variation in between. Even religions based on denying religion.

But Hindus see no conflict in this at all. It is often said that every religion in the world could fit into one or another rooms of the mansion that is Hinduism, the religion that avows that there are as many paths to Divinity as there are people to find and follow them.
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Doug Sandlin
We See The World Not As It Is But As We Are
07:36 PM on 01/04/2011
ekam sad vipra bahudha vadanti

The Truth is one; however sages express it in different ways.

Rig Veda 1.164.46
DoesItMatter
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10:16 PM on 01/04/2011
Sanatana Dharma is just one tradition among several traditions. These Indic traditions sought to influence each other in their own unique ways.