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Why Infidelity Doesn't Have To Be A Marriage Dealbreaker

Posted 04.19.2014 | Divorce

By Dr. Alicia H. Clark for YourTango Betrayal, deception, mistrust. And very, very hurt. These are the emotions people harbor after finding out...

Has Your Flirt-Texting Turned Into Cheating?

Loren Ridinger | Posted 04.07.2014 | Women
Loren Ridinger

Flirty texts and emails may never become physical, but that doesn't mean you're not having an affair.

Is There (Marital) Life After an Affair?

Linda Bloom LCSW and Charlie Bloom MSW | Posted 03.14.2014 | Healthy Living
Linda Bloom LCSW and Charlie Bloom MSW

The consequences of an affair may have more to do with how each partner responds to it than the affair itself. As many couples have discovered, even in the midst of the most painful circumstances, when there is a shared intention to heal, repair and take responsibility, what may have previously seemed impossible can become a reality.

11 People Who Lost Their Sh*t After Being Cheated On

The Huffington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 03.18.2014 | Divorce

Back in the day, we used to believe that keying car doors was the worst act of revenge you could commit against a cheater. But then we got the Inte...

10 Signs You're Having An Emotional Affair

Posted 03.10.2014 | Divorce

Written by Jenny Erikson on CafeMom's blog, The Stir You’re just friends. You love your husband. It’s not like there’s anything going on. It...

This Is The Most Popular Day For People To Cheat

Posted 03.06.2014 | Divorce

In news that gives new meaning to the phrase "hump day," -- the infamous site for people seeking affair partners -- has revealed tha...

Cheating Husband Won't Be Too Happy When He Sees This

Posted 03.04.2014 | Divorce

There are a few ways to respond to the news that your cheating husband has gotten his mistress pregnant. You could go all Carrie Underwood and des...

When Strong Women Are Attacked by Weak Men (and Women)

Vivian Norris | Posted 04.01.2014 | Media
Vivian Norris

These past weeks, French and international press has placed the private life of the President, Francois Hollande, his now former companion, Valerie Trierweiler and a French actress, Julie Gayet, on the front page non-stop.

Betrayal: After the Anger, What Do You Do With the Love?

Jane Isay | Posted 03.25.2014 | Books
Jane Isay

Gradually, I began to recover the memories of our love. They contradicted the story of betrayal and disappointment I had told myself all those years. And then I had to face a very hard question. After the anger over a betrayal, what do you do with the love?

The 3 Worst Reactions To News Of An Affair

Christina Pesoli | Posted 03.18.2014 | Divorce
Christina Pesoli

People blurt out really stupid things sometimes. And getting hit with the news that a friend's significant other is cheating is exactly the kind of thing that can prompt you to say something that you'll regret.

What Should You Do If You Suspect Your Spouse Is Cheating?

Posted 01.25.2014 | Divorce

"We can't go on together with suspicious minds," Elvis Presley crooned. And it's true. Few relationships can survive when one partner has doubts a...

The Top Four Reasons Spouses Cheat -- And What To Do About It

Robert C. Jameson | Posted 03.05.2014 | Divorce
Robert C. Jameson

No matter what resolution you decide, to repair the relationship or to end the relationship, at some point in time, the acceptance process comes into play. How can you accept that your life has been turned upside-down?

The Surprising Thing Cheaters Admit About Their Affair Partners

Posted 10.06.2013 | Divorce

The age-old assumption that people cheat with someone better looking than their current partner may not actually be true, according to a new survey by...

When Jealousy Visits Your Relationship

Michael S. Broder, Ph.D. | Posted 11.16.2013 | Weddings
Michael S. Broder, Ph.D.

Practically everyone who's been in a serious romantic relationship with all of the deliciously intense and passionate feelings that go with it, have at one time or another experienced jealousy.

What To Do When You Find Out Your Friend Is Cheating

Shasta Nelson, M.Div. | Posted 09.23.2013 | Women
Shasta Nelson, M.Div.

Having been on both sides of this issue, and after journeying closely with several friends over the years who have confided in me the angst of juggling a second relationship, I offer you my wisdom with hope and humility.

10 Reasons Not To Take Back A Cheater

Posted 08.11.2013 | Divorce

Written by Kiri Blakely on CafeMom’s blog, The Stir Being cheated on is probably the most devastating thing that can happen to a relationship, sh...

5 Steps To Apologizing For An Affair

Posted 07.29.2013 | Divorce

By Scott Haltzman for According to Arnold Schwarzenegger's autobiography, Total Recall, after he committed adultery with his houseke...

Why Infidelity May Be Good For Marriage

Posted 07.25.2013 | Divorce

Can infidelity make a marriage stronger? Yes, according to psychologist Clifford Lazarus. He appeared on HuffPost Live recently and likened an affa...

Eliot Spitzer and the Conscience of An Adulterer

Scott Haltzman, M.D. | Posted 09.23.2013 | Divorce
Scott Haltzman, M.D.

An affair brings a deluge of negative consequences resulting in many negative emotions. Being involved in an affair my have its immediate "rewards," but for many people, it's a bummer.

How To Catch A Cheating Husband

Posted 07.23.2013 | Divorce

Gunning to catch a cheater in the act? According to former mistress Sarah Symonds, it's easiest to uncover a spouse's affair during a family summer va...

WATCH: I Was Propositioned By A Married Man

Posted 07.15.2013 | Divorce

HuffPost Live tackled the touchy subject of emotional infidelity late last week, and relationship coach Yvonne Chase stopped by to share her experienc...

5 Surprising Emotions You'll Feel After Discovering An Affair

Posted 06.30.2013 | Divorce

By Scott Haltzman for If you're lucky, you'll never have to know what it's like to be the victim of infidelity. Still, the statistics...

The Most Popular Shopping Destination For Cheating Wives

Posted 06.26.2013 | Divorce

Where do cheaters prefer to do their shopping? According to a new survey by, a dating site for married people looking to cheat, B...

Affairs to Remember

Henry Gornbein | Posted 08.13.2013 | Divorce
Henry Gornbein

Over my many years of specializing in family law, I have seen many marriages end due to an affair. Affairs come in all shapes and sizes.

Emotional Affair vs. Physical Affair: What's Worse?

Posted 06.04.2013 | Divorce

Are emotional affairs just as bad as physical affairs when it comes to upending marriages? That's the question that sprung to our minds Tuesday, a...