The Year of the Apology: The Worst and Best of 2009
We tested 15 of the most public apologies of the year to see what makes for a good apology and a bad apology and what we can learn from our A-list of apologists.
We tested 15 of the most public apologies of the year to see what makes for a good apology and a bad apology and what we can learn from our A-list of apologists.
Elena Brower | Posted 11.18.2009 | Living
The take-home here a concept I've been studying for almost ten years. We have three centers in our bodies. When the activity of these three centers is balanced, we are living in our hearts.
Jim Wallis | Posted 11.17.2009 | Politics
I see racial sub-texts in the intensity of the attacks on Obama -- not in the disagreements per se, but in the viciousness of the rhetoric.
Michael Wolff | Posted 11.16.2009 | Politics
Apologizing has become some formal social, political, and media condition. It's a ritual and nicety like a thank you; it's part of a political process, like a campaign; it's a media event like a season finale.
Eric Dezenhall | Posted 08.25.2009 | Entertainment
Vick's comeback will be tied to three variables: His athletic skill, his ability to keep his nose clean, and the passage of time, which tends to be surprisingly merciful.
Samara O'Shea | Posted 08.02.2009 | Media
Last week, author Alice Hoffman issued an apology to a reviewer she attacked via Twitter. But an apology, by its nature, should focus on what you did wrong and not place blame on the other.
John Feffer | Posted 07.10.2009 | World
Don't hold your breath waiting for a mea culpa from the 43rd president. Instead, it's left to Barack Obama to come to terms with the Bush legacy.
Don McNay | Posted 06.13.2009 | Politics
I want someone on the United States Supreme Court who can look back at actions that were wrong, feel a sense of injustice and make amends, even if the act happened forty or fifty years ago.
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 04.29.2009 | Living
If your friend is unwilling or unable to forgive you, don't lash out in anger. Step back and learn from the experience.
Keith Blanchard | Posted 04.27.2009 | Media
Words cannot begin to express how sorry and saddened I am over what transpired. I let my family down, and I let this country down.
Disgrasian | Posted 03.09.2009 | Entertainment
You were giving us the chink-eye, an internationally-recognized symbol of unwelcome, like the reverse pineapple.
Robert Naiman | Posted 03.07.2009 | World
If Clinton could "near-apologize" for the U.S. role in Guatemala, is it beyond the realm of imagination that Obama could "near-apologize" for the U.S. overthrow of democracy in Iran?
Rip Empson | Posted 03.05.2009 | Comedy
"We should really be congratulating the bong. I really hit that thing hard, and it responded," Mr. Phelps said in subsequent statements.
Chris Durang | Posted 01.24.2009 | Entertainment
It's easier to find nice apologies and resolution of differences in literature and movies than in life. But blessed are the peacemakers, eh? If only we can figure out how to make peace.
Charles Karel Bouley | Posted 12.16.2008 | Media
I am sorry anyone thought I wanted a real person dead -- I did not. But John McCain, Sarah Palin and all the zealot conservatives meant the dangerous things they said about Obama. They still mean it, and they've never apologized for it.
Times Of London | Matthew Parris | Posted 11.29.2008 | Living
There are many of ways of not quite apologising, and they all take longer than the real thing. The real thing needs only one word. "Sorry." Or if you ...
Martin Lewis | Posted 11.29.2008 | Politics
If we had known 8 years ago that you would nationalize many of the US's largest banks (Right on Comrade!), galvanize the nation to vote for a liberal Democrat to replace you ...
Michael E. McCullough | Posted 09.26.2008 | Politics
The ability to control revenge and broker forgiveness among groups in conflict is a crucial, though underappreciated, element of statecraft. We need a president who can rebuild our reserves of this resource.
Fortune's Stanley Bing | Posted 04.09.2008 | Business
There are networks reserved for grownups, the ones with serious business purposes, like LinkedIn, which does a really good job networking people. I have nothing against them.
Fortune's Stanley Bing | Posted 03.28.2008 | Business
I have given this a lot of thought over the last several years and come to the conclusion that it is almost never a good idea for anybody in our culture to apologize about anything, even when they are in the wrong
HuffingtonPost.com | Jason Linkins | Posted 03.28.2008 | Politics
Romney, who apparently got the news of Time's decision from Beck, just wasn't having it, calling the choice, "disgusting...to suggest that someone like that is the man of the year is really disgusting. I'm just appalled."
Forbes | Andy Greenberg | Posted 03.28.2008 | Business
Forget about gleaning leadership lessons from the likes of Attila the Hun or Alexander the Great. These days, great chief executives have to know when...
Michael Maslansky | Posted 12.24.2009 | Entertainment