The Big Post-Divorce Secret I Kept From My Son
As my marriage fell apart and my ex saw us even less frequently, our son shifted into what he considered his role of "Man of the House." And, in one of many mistakes I've made in parenting, I let him.
As my marriage fell apart and my ex saw us even less frequently, our son shifted into what he considered his role of "Man of the House." And, in one of many mistakes I've made in parenting, I let him.
Robert Hughes, Jr. | Posted 05.27.2012
Almost everyone involved in divorce becomes frustrated by the legal process. Both mothers and fathers feel like the system works against them.
M. Gary Neuman | Posted 05.06.2012
My son is three years old and we have a great relationship. But his mother and I are divorced, and every time I go to pick him up he runs around and sort of avoids me. Shouldn't his mom be helping the situation instead of doing nothing and complaining?
Susan Stiffelman | Posted 01.21.2012
Even though I haven't been with my son's dad for 10 years and we clearly weren't right for one another, it is still a significant loss, and deserves to be treated as such.
Tara Fass | Posted 11.30.2011
Co-parenting is tough. Putting your own wants and needs side-by-side with the child's and yes, the other parent's too, helps create a mutual willingness to do the right thing.
Brette Sember | Posted 11.27.2011
The recession has hit all of us where it hurts the most -- in our wallets. If you're looking for ways to save money, don't forget to look to your co-parenting agreement for ways to make some cuts.
Richard "RJ" Jaramillo | Posted 11.02.2011
What's important to know in this analogy is how the coach and the quarterback work together in order to get to the end result: a victory.
TIME | Posted 09.21.2011
If there was one time in my marriage when life felt the most unfair, it was during the witching hour. When our children were young and I was working f...
Robert Hughes, Jr. | Posted 09.18.2011
In the past two decades, most states in the US have required divorcing couples with children to attend a parent education program. Despite this manda...
Richard Warshak | Posted 07.24.2011
People are wondering how the Shriver-Schwarzenegger split and his infidelity will affect their children.
Richard Warshak | Posted 07.12.2011
Summertime, for school-age children, should be when the living is easy. It is a time for exploration, new experiences, and an extended break from the ...
Richard Warshak | Posted 06.20.2011
Fifty-four years after publication, Ayn Rand's magnum opus..
Karen Buscemi | Posted 06.08.2011
It was a beautiful summer day, so when Frank and I stopped at a downtown restaurant for a quick bite...
Alan Ravitz, MD | Posted 05.25.2011
Divorce is almost never easy, especially when there are children involved, and it's often seriously rancorous. After seeing your kids every day, you s...
Karen Buscemi | Posted 05.25.2011
Attempting to develop a close relationship with your ex-spouse is not something that's often recommended. However, if you and the ex have to co-parent...
Richard Warshak | Posted 05.25.2011
The Warshak Test helps parents judge whether their criticisms of each other are likely to help or hurt their children.
Richard Warshak | Posted 05.25.2011
You are convinced that your child's other parent, or a grandparent is bad, and the kids should know about it. Do they really need to hear what you have to say?
Karen Buscemi | Posted 05.25.2011
There comes a time in every kid's life when he has to make a decision: Does he want to hang out with his parents or his friends?
Lee Block | Posted 05.25.2011
The divorce is done and things are going along nicely for a while, and then it happens.
The Huffington Post | Sara Wilson | Posted 05.25.2011
How do you broach the topic of remarriage with an ex? Bravo's "Real Housewives of Atlanta" offers one approach--and it's (shockingly) drama-free. On...
Parenting.com | Lynn Fredericks | Posted 05.25.2011
It's not easy for parents to lay down the law after divorce. Not only are they emotionally exhausted, they're reluctant to come down too hard on a chi...
Angela Lutin | Posted 05.29.2012