You can sort through five or more supposedly "highly qualified leads" -- in some cases daily. The question is, whose definition of highly qualified are we talking about? Certainly not mine, and according to the women in my circles, not theirs either. It's not so much that the gentlemen themselves aren't high quality -- it's the marketing.
I had a lot of jobs before I became an actor: chopped tobacco, sold women's shoes. One thing you learn selling women's shoes is that all women lie about their shoe size. All women. And I mean all women. What is this horribly screwed-up thing that women have been taught that large feet are not attractive?