Friendship

In Friends We Trust -- Until They Let Us Down

Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011

Dr. Irene S. Levine

QUESTION Dear Irene, About three or four weeks ago, I broke up amicably with a guy I was dating because the relationship just wasn't growing romanti...

12 Ways To Recover From An Emotional Affair

Therese Borchard | Posted 11.17.2011

Therese Borchard

Jimmy Carter isn't the only one with lust in his heart. I receive a handful of e-mails a day from my readers who are either stuck in an emotional affa...

Friends Don't Judge -- Or Do They?

Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011

Dr. Irene S. Levine

As your daughter is only 5 ½, you need to be cautious about the people you expose her to. So if your fiancé is incarcerated for child molestation, that obviously should be a deal-killer.

From Now on, Equality Needs to Be Our Organizing Principle

Johann Hari | Posted 05.25.2011

Johann Hari

At the end of the failed age of market fundamentalism, the long-suppressed democratic cry for equality is emerging once again.

Want New Friends? 8 Ways To Make Yourself More Likable

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

Gretchen Rubin

Well, no. You can't actually make someone like you. But you can behave in ways that will make it slightly more likely. We all want to feel that oth...

Scenes from a Greek Restaurant

Lita Smith-Mines | Posted 05.25.2011

Lita Smith-Mines

I am wistful not because I miss Georgia's split pea soup (though I truly do), but because I'm expecting that such gleeful times in places like Deities may never occur again.

You Think For Yourself but You Act Like Your Friends (on homophily)

Auren Hoffman | Posted 11.17.2011

Auren Hoffman

Friends have the capacity to affect people's tastes, activities, and their lives overall.

10 Life-Changing Tips From Top Connectors

Sally Horchow | Posted 11.17.2011

Sally Horchow

Connectors' lives -- both innately and deliberately -- are built around their meaningful connections with other people.

Phoenix, Band on SNL, Not from Brooklyn

Andrea Chalupa | Posted 05.25.2011

Andrea Chalupa

Phoenix looked like they were really relishing being on the SNL stage. This exuberance and gratitude didn't fit the aloof, no-big-deal-ness of a posturing band out of Brooklyn.

Does Friendship Trump Technology?

Karen Leland | Posted 11.17.2011

Karen Leland

My morning started out well enough, until the doorbell rang. It was the contractor there to discuss the driveway. This would be the same driveway his ...

Big Hurts, Little Hurts and Apologies: How to Save a Friendship

Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011

Dr. Irene S. Levine

If your friend is unwilling or unable to forgive you, don't lash out in anger. Step back and learn from the experience.

How To Fix A Financial Freak-Out

Mona Ackerman | Posted 11.17.2011

Mona Ackerman

Q: I am really fuming at the moment. Let me tell you what happened. I live in an affluent rural area and my husband and I work very hard to ...

Who Are Your Rocks? The Recession Sucks, Who Ya Gonna Call?

Kari Henley | Posted 11.17.2011

Kari Henley

This is the final column in a three part series exploring the power of community as a much needed and oft forgotten tool for stress, coping and perhap...

How could my friend and colleague undermine me?

Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011

Dr. Irene S. Levine

Dear Irene, I'm an award-winning author with a friendship dilemma. A long time friend told one of my clients that my agent was basically a 'nobody' and that I'm 'just a ghost writer.' Should I confront her?

The 6 Types Of Love

YourTango | Sarah Harrison | Posted 11.17.2011

The quiz shows how much you accept six types of love: Eros, Pragma, Banquet, Mania, Ludus and Storge. Yes, they sound like exotic birds or rivers in G...

"Eat, Pray, Love" Your Way to Closer Relationships

Kari Henley | Posted 11.17.2011

Kari Henley

Last week, we baked a cake together. The cake was called Community and the ingredients were all the layers of relationships we have in our lives: ours...

7 Tips For Making New Friends

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011

Gretchen Rubin

Every Wednesday is Tip Day. Ancient philosophers and scientists agree: strong social ties are the KEY to happiness. You need close, long-term relatio...

Friendship and Money: She's fired, you're not

Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011

Dr. Irene S. Levine

Any major life change--including an unexpected job loss can increase the risk of a once-close friendship falling apart. As a result, the global recession is challenging untold numbers of female friendships.

10 Ways To Make Friends

Therese Borchard | Posted 11.17.2011

Therese Borchard

They say it takes a village to raise a child. Well, it also takes a village--at best a supportive community, and at the least a few very good friends-...

Valentine's Day: Not Just for Lovers

Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011

Dr. Irene S. Levine

The first handmade Valentine's Day cards in the 1800s weren't intended only for lovers. They also celebrated affection between friends and relatives.

She's Just Not That Into You: Six Ways to Know When a Girlfriend's a Frenemy

Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011

Dr. Irene S. Levine

Sometimes it's difficult to decide whether someone is truly a friend or may, instead, be a frenemy.

Oxytocin Helps Us Move From Tribe to Community

Susan Kuchinskas | Posted 11.17.2011

Susan Kuchinskas

Herein lies the key to becoming a more trusting, more unified society: Practice. We will need to exercise our brains to approach each other with openness to connection.

Who Wants to be the Goose Anyways?! Why Being Single Doesn't Suck

Leeat Granek, PhD | Posted 11.17.2011

Leeat Granek, PhD

Every single one of my friends is married or in a long-term relationship. Every. Single. One. I don't know how this happened. Most of us are not even thirty yet.

Girlfriends with Pink Slips

Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011

Dr. Irene S. Levine

The support of female friends can help a woman get over the traumatic emotional and financial losses associated with being fired or let go. What can friends do?

Inauguration, Orange

Suz Redfearn | Posted 05.25.2011

Suz Redfearn

I have no capacity for standing out in the cold. I was born in Florida. What was I going to do with my two year-old? All our babysitters either wanted to be home to watch the Inauguration themselves, or try to go.