Overcoming Loneliness The 'OPA!' Way
Despite connecting with new "friends" via online social networking, living in cities with thousands of people and working in large organizations, the incidence of people who say they are lonely keeps rising.
Despite connecting with new "friends" via online social networking, living in cities with thousands of people and working in large organizations, the incidence of people who say they are lonely keeps rising.
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
Here are some possible reasons that someone might have difficulty developing close, reciprocal relationships with friends.
Nina Lorez Collins | Posted 06.13.2011
Like many of us, I had a truly hideous divorce. Adultery, physical violence, arrests, screaming fights, swimming pools of tears, hundreds of thousands...
Shasta Nelson, M.Div. | Posted 11.17.2011
Balance in a relationship means not only that you need to give wisely, but also that you may need to look around to see how you're also receiving more than you might notice.
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
QUESTION Dear Irene, Recently discovered your column (it's awesome) and hope you can help me gain some perspective. I was introduced to my husband ...
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
QUESTION Hi Irene: Three friends never seem to work. One person always gets excluded in one way or another. I just moved to a new town where my husb...
Jane Minogue | Posted 06.02.2011
Dave Minogue has been out of work for two years. Jobs are scarce in Kilkenny -- and the rest of Ireland. The Central Statistics Office reports that Ir...
Shasta Nelson, M.Div. | Posted 11.17.2011
If there is one thing I hear all the time from women, it is some variation of the theme: "I'm tired of being the one who gives more than I receive." ...
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
Aided and abetted by new technologies, phone calls and phone friends are becoming a dying breed. More people are switching to text messaging, which is less intrusive and less time-consuming.
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
QUESTION Hi, Irene. My husband and I are good friends with a couple and enjoy their company. However, they have a 5-year-old child who is completely...
Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011
If you were sitting across the table from someone who was suffering right now, how would you approach them and what would you tell them?
Shasta Nelson, M.Div. | Posted 11.17.2011
You have never met a friend. But you have most certainly met amazing people you have turned into friends. And you can do it again.
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
QUESTION Dear Irene, My best friend and I had a major falling out 4½ years ago shortly after the death of my two-year-old son. At the time I was so...
Rachel Bertsche | Posted 11.17.2011
A dinner guest had a fabulous theory for testing out whether a city is generally friendly or not: "You can tell by whether or not other girls talk to you while you wait in line for the restroom." I love this. It's a brilliant barometer.
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
QUESTION Hi Dr. Levine, I have read most of your posts about needy friends and overbearing friends and annoying friends. I am in a long-term friends...
Penny Love Hoff | Posted 05.25.2011
This week I was the recipient of a Barn Raising, but instead of building a place in which to put my cows, it was more along the lines of preparing the place to try and sell it to avoid foreclosure.
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
QUESTION Hi Irene, Three and a half years ago I left my husband. We divorced amicably and have a collaborative and supportive co-parenting relatio...
Shasta Nelson, M.Div. | Posted 11.17.2011
We know how many potential friendships haven't been actualized because we dropped the ball. We waited for someone else to pursue. We waited for someone else to "just make it happen."
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
QUESTION Dear Irene, My best friend and I have been best friends since the first grade. Now we're in middle school. This new charter school opened u...
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
QUESTION Hi Irene, I have a certain friend with whom I've grown very close over a relatively short period of time (a little over a year). She is an ...
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
QUESTION Hi Irene, I haven't spoken to an old best friend for quite some time. I was the last one to initiate contact after the relationship had bec...
Nicole Rodgers | Posted 11.17.2011
Consumers of pop culture will find it hard to argue that there's not a strong undercurrent of formulaic and unflattering portrayals of women's relationships with other women.
Lisa Haisha | Posted 11.17.2011
While it may seem cliché, the fact is that successful people in any arena have increased challenges than "regular folks."
Lorraine Devon Wilke | Posted 05.25.2011
I stood in the house Lisa built, shared mementos and pictures everywhere, and knew something big had been lost. A life, a future, a friendship and all her brilliant work that was to come.
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011
Saying NO can unravel a friendship but sometimes there's no way around it. Many of us have a hard time saying NO to a friend. When someone's a tru...
Alex Pattakos | Posted 11.17.2011