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Headless Torsos: How Smart Phone Apps Have Changed Dating for the Worse

Tyler Curry | Posted 05.22.2013 | Gay Voices
Tyler Curry

Has the culture of stats, nudies and decapitated men begun to spill over into the rest our dating lives and making everything else look a little... cheap?

WATCH: 'Blue's Clues' Actors Share Heartwarming Engagement Story

Posted 05.22.2013 | Weddings

Actors Tom Mizer and Travis McGhie owe their relationship happiness to a big blue dog. Mizer was playing the role of "Steve" in the "Blue's Clues L...

Can Religion And Gay Dating Ever Coexist?

Nicholas Marlin | Posted 05.13.2013 | Gay Voices
Nicholas Marlin

I am a huge evangelist when it comes to being happy, so it is hard for me to watch close friends and others struggle with the issue of religion and gay dating. When your religious beliefs say that you are sinning simply because of whom you love, it can be a crushing blow to your self-esteem.

Sex Survey Offers New Findings About Gay Men And Promiscuity

Posted 05.06.2013 | Gay Voices

Gay men are having sex with fewer partners according to a new report. Data from the last two National Surveys of Family Growth indicated that gay ...

Gay Social App Creators Stress Friendship, Give Attention To Health And Social Issues

Victor Lopez | Posted 04.24.2013 | Gay Voices
Victor Lopez

Was I the last gay man on Earth who did not want to hook up? I was parched for conversation with other gay men. Sure, I have a sexual appetite, but I do draw a line sometime. And then, like a ray of sunshine, a friend suggested that I look into Hornet.

Being Open to Love

Nicholas Marlin | Posted 04.04.2013 | Gay Voices
Nicholas Marlin

Being open to love is not always easy. For some it may come naturally but for most it takes practice.

9 Non-Typical Ways To Meet Gay Men

Posted 03.30.2013 | Gay Voices

Quite honestly, there isn't anything about gay dating that hasn't already been said ... until now! Before I proceed, however, I need a commitment. I k...

Why Dating Should Be Easy... Like Sunday Morning

Michael Cohen | Posted 05.21.2013 | Style
Michael Cohen

Take this lesson I learned -- the world doesn't revolve around you -- although I know it would be nice. When you meet the right guy, it will be seamless.

Threesome Relationships: Are You the Odd Man Out?

Tyler Curry | Posted 05.11.2013 | Gay Voices
Tyler Curry

Yes, threesome relationships have started to become a mainstream trend in the gay culture. However, it seems that it is only a matter of time after the third person hops into the bed that someone inevitably falls out.

Are Lesbians Better Daters Than Gay Men?

Mark Brennan Rosenberg | Posted 04.16.2013 | Gay Voices
Mark Brennan Rosenberg

A common joke among lesbians is, "What do lesbians bring to a second date?" The answer: "A U-Haul." Meanwhile, single gay men are often considered promiscuous if they're not attached. Are the differences between lesbians and gay men in the dating world fact or fiction?

Ask MISTER CARL: 'Can I Go To Jail For Not Disclosing My HIV Status?'

Carl Sandler | Posted 04.14.2013 | Gay Voices
Carl Sandler

HIV disclosure laws vary from state to state, with Iowa having arguably the strictest. But let's face it: You're going to have sex again, no matter what lawmakers say. You're going to have to do an honest examination of your personal ethics as an HIV-positive individual.

Sex Drive In Park, Or Grind No More

Lester Brathwaite | Posted 04.14.2013 | Gay Voices
Lester Brathwaite

I recently deleted my Grindr and Adam4Adam profiles. Ever since sobering up, I've had little to no sex drive, but my lack of sex drive is really a blessing in disguise. I'm no longer wasting hours (and I mean hours) of my life seeking the next big fling.

Single, Gay And Looking For Love In 2013?

Posted 02.12.2013 | Gay Voices

The dating scene can be like diving into a shark tank, but lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) singles are highly optimistic that 2013 will ...

Stop Waiting For Love To Find You... Please Just Buy A Lottery Ticket Instead!

Frank Mastronuzzi | Posted 04.01.2013 | Gay Voices
Frank Mastronuzzi

We just don't understand why people are great at going to the gym and changing their diets, but when it comes to their love lives, they just sit like a lame duck Congress and wait for something to happen. Why are so many of you unwilling to make the first move?

10 Surprising Places To Meet LGBT Singles

YourTango | Mary Malia | Posted 01.06.2013 | Gay Voices

Where can you find single lesbians? Single gays? Trans folk? Where are the bisexuals? If I've heard it once, I've heard it a million times — "There'...

POLL: Are These Gay Ads Too Hot For Times Square At Christmas?

Posted 12.13.2012 | Gay Voices

Holiday tourists are sure to get an eyeful when they hit New York City's Times Square this season, courtesy of a new Manhunt Mobile campaign. The s...

The U.S. City With The 'Most Promiscuous' Gay Men Is...

Posted 12.04.2012 | Gay Voices

West Hollywood gay men who are hoping for a commitment-free hookup have an extra-special reason to celebrate, as their city has been named the most pr...

'No Fats or Fems'

Dale Cooper | Posted 12.12.2012 | Gay Voices
Dale Cooper

Since the app Grindr made its debut, I have been troubled by a trend I've noticed: the (at times) overwhelming presence of douchebaggery on the app. There's a veritable epidemic of it.

Cowboys Fans In For Online Surprise

The Huffington Post | Ron Dicker | Posted 09.21.2012 | Sports

Football fans wandering over to Cowboys.com for the scoop on America's Team might be in for a surprise. The address is now a primarily gay dating site...

Zachary Quinto Reveals His Celebrity Boyfriend

Posted 09.12.2012 | Gay Voices

"I thought about it as coming out from behind the wall. Walls now are only as high or as thick or as strong as we allow them to be." That's how Zac...

Dating And Fear In The Age Of HIV: 'I'd Like To Sleep With You -- And I'm HIV-Positive'

Carl Sandler | Posted 11.10.2012 | Gay Voices
Carl Sandler

The dearth of proud, openly positive gay people online in most cities is a lost opportunity for all of us. More open disclosure can lead toward better, more informed, and safer sex. It would also go far toward removing some of the shame we have toward the disease.

Politically Potent: Dating App Aims To Mobilize Gay Users In Time For 2012 Elections

Posted 09.06.2012 | Gay Voices

Though it's best known as the dating application of choice for legions of gay men, Grindr is wading into the political foray with a brand-new project ...

If You Want to Date Someone Great, Be Someone Great

Nico Lang | Posted 10.22.2012 | Chicago
Nico Lang

Standards aren't the problem. Standards are great. When you have standards, it allows you to set goals in your life and hold yourself accountable. The problem is that people have the wrong standards -- ones they don't require of themselves.

Survival Guide For Gay Long-Distance Relationships

Greg Hogben | Posted 10.20.2012 | Gay Voices
Greg Hogben

If you have made it this far, you're either riding high on endorphins or you might have actually found the one. Either way, here are a few tips to keeping it together long enough to find out.

Don't Get Mad, Get Empowered: Why You Deserve Healthy Relationships

Nico Lang | Posted 10.02.2012 | Chicago
Nico Lang

No matter who you are, you deserve to be loved, affirmed and listened to. You deserve someone who wants to make it work as much as you do. Don't accept anything less.