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Having Children

'I Left My Ex For My Future Child'

Amira Young | Posted 04.26.2013 | Divorce
Amira Young

I left my ex for someone else. I wasn't cheating on him. Rather, it was for a person who didn't exist yet: my unborn child.

When Is Being Done, Done?

Cyma Shapiro | Posted 03.17.2013 | Parents
Cyma Shapiro

When is being done, done? Is "done" the exact same for someone as capable of conceiving as someone who must, or who chooses, to adopt or foster? Should age, in and of itself, determine this?

Resisting This Could Cut Your Cancer Risk In Half, Study Says

Posted 12.14.2012 | Black Voices

Those bright eyes and chubby cheeks may be hard to resist, but researchers from the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center in Seattle have good reason...

Is Having Children Ethical?

Paul Rasmussen | Posted 01.16.2013 | Parents
Paul Rasmussen

Are parents who have large families because they believe it is a divine commandment or because they take pride in their family heritage any less capable of creating "life-enhancing relationships" with their children than, say, educated professionals who wait until there are financially stable?

The Trigger Shot

Selvaggia | Posted 09.11.2012 | Women
Selvaggia

The fertility center doesn't have a sperm bank so you need to bring your own. It reminds me of the restaurants where you can bring your own bottle of wine and they charge you a corking fee.

The Question You Should Never Ask A Woman

Mary Kate Sheridan | Posted 09.08.2012 | Women
Mary Kate Sheridan

Tell me, complete stranger inquiring into my baby-making plans, do you want to hear my deepest fears and concerns about bringing a little one into my life? Even if you did, do you really think I'd want to tell you?

When Is the Right Time to Have Children?

Natalie Thomas | Posted 09.04.2012 | Women
Natalie Thomas

I'm sick of myself. I am. As an avid photographer, perhaps I should put this in photography terms: I can't take one more picture of my husband and me. I'm longing for a new subject.

Bias in the Workplace Against Maternity Leave

Lauren Wallenstein | Posted 07.17.2012 | Parents
Lauren Wallenstein

The hardest part of maternity leave is no longer sleepless nights caring for a newborn, but dealing with the anxiety surrounding communication between a pregnant women and her employer.

Why Women Feel Compelled To Explain When They Don't Have Kids

Jezebel | Posted 05.09.2012 | Women

Cameron Diaz, one of the many castmembers in What To Expect When You're Expecting, is 39 years old, unmarried, and childless. No kids. She didn't know...

Why I'm Still Not Sure About Having Kids

The New York Times | Posted 05.07.2012 | Women

This is one of three essays contributed to the Motherlode blog by performers in the first New York City production of Listen to Your Mother, an nation...

Motherhood Expands Us

Nicola Kraus | Posted 07.03.2012 | Parents
Nicola Kraus

Motherhood that expands us. Expands our definition of ourselves. The impossible becomes possible. We thrive on less sleep, less sex and fewer breaks than we ever thought we could.

Is There Any Rational Reason To Have Children?

Lisa Belkin | Posted 06.02.2012 | Home
Lisa Belkin

...moral tests imply logic, and we are outside that realm when we are talking about...Love...Faith...Children. Would these exist if rationality were the test?

Is It Selfish To Pursue Fertility Treatments Instead Of Adoption?

Healthland, TIME | Posted 02.02.2012 | Women

There's a reason that the desire to have children is so strong. It's got everything to do with perpetuation of the species, in the long term, and perp...

I Haven't Said No To Babies -- I Just Haven't Said Yes Yet

Tamsen Fadal and Matt Titus | Posted 10.02.2011 | Women
Tamsen Fadal and Matt Titus

Here's the truth. I don't know if I am going to have kids. What's more, I don't know when I am going to know.

Ask Maddisen: How to Get Off the Fence about Your Relationship

Maddisen K. Krown | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Maddisen K. Krown

If you stay together, you must realize that you are forfeiting your truth and heartfelt desire to have children. Is it worth it? Only you can decide.