iPhone app iPad app Android phone app Android tablet app

Insecurity

Human Security -- A New Response to Complex Threats

A View from the United Nations | Posted 05.02.2013 | World
A View from the United Nations

Today, millions of people face extreme insecurity as a result of conflicts and economic crises -- not only in acute conflicts like Syria but also in many lower-profile crises.

Why I Want You To Judge My Parenting

JJ Keith | Posted 04.21.2013 | Parents
JJ Keith

Not all judgment is baseless. Sometimes I need horrified onlookers to make me realize that I could be doing better.

The Yellow Wallpaper

Sarah Barness | Posted 04.04.2013 | Comedy
Sarah Barness

I am crazy (in the normal way). Let me just put it out there, it's true. I am insane (in the normal way). I know we are all a little psycho (in the normal way), but me more than others (not in the normal way), okay?

Lena Dunham and My Belly Button

Shannon Sutherland | Posted 03.21.2013 | Entertainment
Shannon Sutherland

If you feel insecure about your belly button, take some time to think about what your belly really is and who it connects you to.

Katherine Bindley

Relationship Anxiety: Hard On The Heart And The Immune System

HuffingtonPost.com | Katherine Bindley | Posted 02.13.2013 | Healthy Living

Relationship anxiety is known to be tough on a person's mental well-being, but a new study suggests that fear of rejection -- and worry that someone d...

Service as the Secret to Self-esteem: 30 Days of Service

Mark Goulston, M.D. | Posted 03.26.2013 | Impact
Mark Goulston, M.D.

"Whether you are a CEO or a secretary, self-employed or unemployed, rich or poor, a 20-something or a 60-something, a master at the task or a first-timer, none of those labels matter when you are serving. I like to think of service as a great equalizer."

What Kind of Friend Is This?: When Mean Girls and Boys Become Thoughtless Adults

SaraKay Smullens | Posted 03.19.2013 | Healthy Living
SaraKay Smullens

My client found it unbelievable. "Here I am 37 years old, a wife, a mom, a nurse valued by patients and staff, and I am hurt -- no, correct that, devastated -- by a supposed friend and her group of friends."

Understanding Insecurity

Michael Neill | Posted 03.19.2013 | Healthy Living
Michael Neill

What follows is not a trick question: Would you rather feel exhilarated, grateful, humble, inspired, resolute, compassionate, and content -- or fearful, sad, worthless, jealous, angry, overwhelmed, and bored?

I Hate to Admit it, but Beauty is Intimidating

Mara Menachem | Posted 03.18.2013 | Women
Mara Menachem

I don't want to believe it, but women measure themselves against other women's attractiveness.  Because of this, making friends with someone more attractive, they fear, will somehow diminish their own attractiveness. 

Desirability Stock inflation

Nayia Moysidis | Posted 02.25.2013 | Women
Nayia Moysidis

Scouting for a decent man on campus required a great deal of focus. You had to see past the sprinting engineering students, the slouching athletes and the arguing SIPA grads and try and find the prospects with an ounce of charm.

Never Look Insecure Again

Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 02.13.2013 | Healthy Living
Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D.

You know you shouldn't do it. You know that if you keep calling and leaving messages he's going to think you are needy, or pathetic, or just plain crazy. You know that if you keep asking her if she's seen her ex-boyfriend, she's going to think you are insecure, or jealous, or even controlling.

How We Can End The Body Wars -- Once And For All

Cara Alwill Leyba | Posted 01.30.2013 | Women
Cara Alwill Leyba

Let's stop tearing each other down and instead, educate each other on how to treat our bodies and ourselves with the utmost compassion and respect.

Why I'm Happy I Never Got A Nose Job

Amanda McGowan | Posted 01.16.2013 | Style
Amanda McGowan

"You have a nose like this," the little girl told me, and drew a Pinocchio-like schnoz. I cried.

Relationship Advice: Should I Tell Him How I Really Feel?

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 12.24.2012 | Healthy Living
Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

Psychotherapists often advise their clients to share their feelings with the important people in their life. Is this good advice?

Ladies, Stop Calling Each Other Lesbians

Uloop | Posted 12.08.2012 | College
Uloop

I was enjoying a lovely stroll to Starbucks today when my morning was promptly ruined by the stupidity of a conversation between two ladies behind me....

The Safety of Home

Sharon Greenthal | Posted 12.01.2012 | Fifty
Sharon Greenthal

In the timeless words of Dorothy, "There's no place like home." For me, no truer words were ever spoken.

Why Women Are Mean to Other Women

Juliette Fretté | Posted 11.26.2012 | Women
Juliette Fretté

When an attractive woman strolls around your workplace, you might treat her differently. She might as well be parading a better resume in front of you. Look at me, I can get a better man, a better job, a better wardrobe... a better life.

Reuniting With Your Inner Geek

Barbara & Shannon Kelley | Posted 11.21.2012 | Women
Barbara & Shannon Kelley

Often, the mythical mean girls we feared in grade school -- and those we fear now -- may exist only in our own heads. And when it comes to all this leftover adolescent angst, women seem to have much thinner skins than men.

My Summer Anthem

Lily Zweig | Posted 09.12.2012 | Teen
Lily Zweig

This is your time to feel passionate. This is your summer to be confident. Now put on that bikini.

Greta Gerwig on ‘Lola Versus’, Insecurity, and Marriage Before 30

The Daily Beast | Posted 06.06.2012 | Women

I started lying about my age when I was 7. It was first grade, and I had turned 7 in August. Having an August birthday meant that I would either be th...

We Get Old But Rejection Doesn't

Michele Willens | Posted 08.05.2012 | Women
Michele Willens

I know a man -- a highly successful one at that -- who is so fearful of rejection that he literally can't ask dinner guests if they want a drink. Why are we so afraid of the word "no"?

Coping With Economic Uncertainty

Noah Kass | Posted 06.27.2012 | Healthy Living
Noah Kass

Collective anxiety and increased tension go hand in hand with uncertainty. When individuals experience stress, they can slip into patterns of irrational behavior or thinking, rapid mood swings and highly unpredictable feelings.

The Daily Mail Woman

Anna Blundy | Posted 06.05.2012 | Women
Anna Blundy

A former employee told me that to get a feature into the Daily Mail you have to assure the editors that the female subject is photogenic.

No, Slim Doesn't Mean Fat

Daylle Deanna Schwartz | Posted 06.02.2012 | Women
Daylle Deanna Schwartz

I was a vulnerable, insecure fifteen-year-old when a guy I'll call Marty said, "With your pretty face and hourglass shape, you'd be a knockout if only you lost a little weight."

WATCH: Jon Hamm's Fears And Insecurities

Posted 03.27.2012 | Women

Even the debonair star of Mad Men has insecurities! Here Jon Hamm reveals some of his fears and what he's done to overcome them. var src_url="http:/...