The hardest, greatest thing I have learned since getting married is that my husband is first a person, second a man. I grew up hearing that men and women are so different. Opposites. Things about venus, mars, and spaghetti.
Sure, many men are indeed Thinking types, and many women are Feeling types. But behaviors associated with Thinking and Feeling may have less to do with essential qualities of maleness/femaleness and more do with personality type.