Middle age is a cultural fiction -- a construct that emerged in the last 150 years through a confluence of factors, including industrialization, moder...
How can a kid learn anything new without making a mess of it at first? And yet how often do we let our grown-up selves get messy or be in a situation where we might make a "mistake"?
Many of 78 million baby boomers, now in the thick of midlife, are vulnerable to feeling demoralized about their lives. For some it's the classic "midlife crisis." But for many, it's more of a chronic, low-grade fever.
Today's Post50s are breaking the mold when it comes to sex at midlife. Once upon a time, an older woman in touch with her sexuality was a punch line -...
We've all been inundated with images of the midlife crisis: Harley-mounted, silver-haired 50-somethings riding off (reluctantly) into the sunset of th...
Are you too hearing more and more women saying either: they need time and space to themselves; they are happy when their spouses are traveling; they are taking trips with other women or alone?
Finding out that your partner is having an affair is devastating at any age, but if youāre in your fifties and youāve been together for years the ...
For most people, the Bucket List is just a source of frustration, a reminder of all the things you have wanted to do and have not done -- so far. The skillful use of your Bucket List is a powerful way to live your best life at any age.
Before you jump at the chance for a midlife 'do-over,' you may want to consider these three essential psychological components to determine your readiness to take on major transformations at this stage of life.
One of my dearest friends from my teenage years stunned us all recently when she decided -- quite suddenly and quite happily -- to marry her first lov...
Whether you're entering a new relationship or hoping to resurrect your existing but flagging relationship, the upheavals and changes of midlife can make anyone pretty apprehensive about what lies ahead.
I used to say that there are two pillars of parenthood you couldn't imagine until you've had a child: guilt and worry. But there's a third pillar that most parents would never admit to: jealousy.
What can help free you from that sense of sinking, sliding and stagnating -- the "big three" of midlife despair -- is first, learning to mentally reframe your current experience of loss, regret and the like.
It wasn't the cancer that did me in -- it was how I perceived my experience of it and what I did to destroy myself way after the disease was thoroughly removed from my body.
Reinvention holds enormous appeal for Baby Boomers like us. Who isn't eager to try something new? Who doesn't have a dream they'd love to bring to life? Who doesn't want to be part of a world-changing venture?
When I started writing "RIPE," everywhere I looked, there were high-profile examples of people who had reinvented their careers in midlife. One day, though, I spotted something different.
Midlife is a great time to reinvent yourself. It just isn't a great age to get divorced, especially if you're a woman who isn't ready to give up on sex and love and a partner.
Middle-aged man abruptly buys a red sportscar, becomes a gym rat and leaves his wife for his receptionist, all in a frenzied attempt to reverse the cl...
It's healthy and wise to examine choices and decisions you've made so far, and studying those that conjure up a twinge of regret offers the greatest opportunity for guiding your future and avoiding "midlife angst."