Relationship

Identity: Life's Superimposed Sex vs. Love Scale

Lisa Guest | Posted 11.13.2009 | Living


Lisa Guest

I remember first hearing the following phrase: "Women give sex to get love. Men give love to get sex." Back then I didn't agree or disagree with this concept. I think it registered more as a curiosity. Is this true?

Aging: Giving Up 'Giving Up'

Jim Selman | Posted 11.11.2009 | Living


Jim Selman

What if wisdom has more to do with 'giving up' our beliefs and attachments than 'getting' more insights or having 'more, better and different' of whatever we think is important?

The Future Habit

Jim Selman | Posted 11.03.2009 | Living


Jim Selman

Our media commentary is rarely about what is happening now - mostly it's about what happened in the past or what someone thinks is going to happen in the future.

The Best 10-Minute Investment Into Your Love Life

Lokita and Steve Carter | Posted 10.07.2009 | Living


Lokita and Steve Carter

At first, 10 minutes might seem an awfully long time to talk about how we like to be loved. But let's face it -- those 10 minutes are a great investment into a more pleasurable time with your lover and with yourself!

Tantric Sex After Prostate Cancer

Lokita and Steve Carter | Posted 09.24.2009 | Living


Lokita and Steve Carter

From the tantric perspective there are many ways to connect with our ecstatic selves, with our without the medical help. To experience high sex is a transformational journey, not dependent on the prostate, and it enriches not only our sexual activities but our entire life.

Mastery

Jim Selman | Posted 09.22.2009 | Living


Jim Selman

If I have learned one thing in my life, it is that people are not broken and don't need to be fixed and, in fact, the more I try to fix them the more they (or I) will resist.

The Case For Space: How Living Apart Can Bring Couples Closer

Elle.com | Carrie Sloan | Posted 09.17.2009 | Style


Even recent science proves the benefits of a little breathing room in the bedroom. "Fifteen years ago, experts in the field of sex therapy used to say...

Test Important Relationships for Even Energy Exchange

Margaret Ruth | Posted 09.07.2009 | Living


Margaret Ruth

Economists have an analysis technique to identify and compare all expenditure and benefits of a given project; cost/benefit analysis. There's a similar energetic rule for interpersonal associations.

I'm Beginning To Wonder If This Has Something To Do With ME (Part 1)

Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks | Posted 09.03.2009 | Living


Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks

It's the best one-liner I ever heard in a therapy session. Before I tell you what it was, though, let me set some background. I saw my first therapy...

How Not To Do A Long-Lasting Relationship

Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks | Posted 07.09.2009 | Living


Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks

While Kathlyn was in Northern California teaching a seminar this past weekend, I was on the road, too, finishing a series of bookstore and media appea...