Relationship Tips

How 'Doing Good' Makes You Sexier

Karen Salmansohn | Posted 09.25.2009 | Living


Karen Salmansohn

There is no way to dupe your soul! Hence it's highly worthwhile to consistently choose morally right actions your soul can be proud of!

Friends with Benefits

Tamsen Fadal and Matt Titus | Posted 09.17.2009 | Living


Tamsen Fadal and Matt Titus

Stop talking about current boyfriends around him and when he start to do the same don't be so interested and eager to discuss his romantic escapades, change the subject.

How to be Your Own Mediator: Tell the Story Twice

Grande Lum | Posted 08.07.2009 | Living


Grande Lum

Catch the ways you leave out the other person's perspective. Alter your actions by altering the stories you tell yourself and others.

How to Be Your Own Mediator: Empathize and Assert at the Same Time

Grande Lum | Posted 08.06.2009 | Living


Grande Lum

Feeling forced to choose to be assertive or empathetic is natural. Yet you may actually feel mixed and even desire to both assert and empathize.

How to be Your Own Mediator: It's Me Not You

Grande Lum | Posted 08.01.2009 | Living


Grande Lum

Identify your contribution to the conflict. By accepting your part and then taking responsibility, you give yourself the best chance possible for getting out of conflict.

Create a Comfort Zone for the Other Person

Grande Lum | Posted 07.20.2009 | Living


Grande Lum

If the the person your butting heads with is feeling safe, they are less likely to lose it.

The 90 Day Sex Diet

Karen Salmansohn | Posted 04.20.2009 | Style


Karen Salmansohn

Would you wait 90 days to have sex with someone you were crushing on? It might be a good screening technique for women to find out if a man is simply "sport fishing" or looking for "a keeper."

Date Hunting For Thirty-Somethings

Emily Bracken | Posted 04.11.2009 | Comedy


Emily Bracken

Take long, cross country plane rides in hopes of sitting next to a single person. If they are attractive--or at least don't smell like they slept in a box of kitty litter--strike up a conversation.

The Single Best Working Assumption for Drama-Free Relationships

Margaret Ruth | Posted 03.26.2009 | Living


Margaret Ruth

No matter what another person is saying or doing, assume, "He is giving me his best available at this moment," and you will start feeling better about relationships and other people instantly.

Unfreedom Of Choice?

Karen Salmansohn | Posted 01.19.2009 | Living


Karen Salmansohn

The truth according to me? Rarely is anyone or anything perfect. And so the #1 biggest problem with choice is... well, it's an illusion.

Blue Labia: Turn Up The Sexual Heat This Winter

Karen Salmansohn | Posted 12.12.2008 | Style


Karen Salmansohn

Your first and foremost need for a peppy libido is plain ol' good basic health. You need this as a strong foundation for your libido to be at its best.