Self-Help Isn't For Dummies
when readers comment on my pieces, many seem to suggest that those who seek self-improvement are stupid, disorganized or at the end of their rope in life. Thing is, that's not true.
when readers comment on my pieces, many seem to suggest that those who seek self-improvement are stupid, disorganized or at the end of their rope in life. Thing is, that's not true.
Mike Robbins | Posted 11.05.2009 | Living
Many of us, myself included, get so obsessed with doing things "right," or at the very least not doing anything that could be perceived as "wrong," we organize much of what we say and do to avoid ever being "wrong."
Mike Robbins | Posted 11.04.2009 | Living
What if we could truly love, accept, and appreciate our bodies and how we look, right now? Imagine what life would be like without negative body obsession?
Leslie Pratch, Ph.D. | Posted 10.29.2009 | Living
The best strategies anticipate setbacks, develop options and prepare us to identify solutions. How openly and realistically we perceive problems profoundly influences our chances for success.
B. Jeffrey Madoff | Posted 10.29.2009 | Living
My grandmother was a wise woman. She would tell me, "Live each day, one at a time." When I asked her how else you could live, she would take a sip from the flask under her apron and shrug her shoulders.
Bob Lingvall | Posted 10.28.2009 | Living
Immersed in the most personal of personal loves, we are a point of awareness in an ocean of compassionate love; a butterfly on the back of a whale preparing to dive.
Fawn Germer | Posted 10.20.2009 | Home
I'm one of those people who believes that, if you really want to do something, you make up your mind and do it.
Dr. Susan Albers | Posted 10.20.2009 | Living
Imagine stepping in front of the mirror and instead of hearing critical comments about your weight or the "f" word immediately jumping into your head, you accept who you are.
Dr. Susan Albers | Posted 10.18.2009 | Entertainment
Ralph Lauren has seen better days. This week his company has been blasted for allegedly firing a size 4 model for being "overweight" and photoshopping her into a grotesquely and impossibly thin woman.
Susan Harrow | Posted 10.16.2009 | Living
Leadership expert, triathlete and mother of quadruplets, twins and three other children, DeeDee Myers is never without lipstick in her purse. She's always prepared, always presentable, no matter what.
Sara Avant Stover | Posted 10.14.2009 | Living
The world's fully of beautiful, talented, and creative beings. We can't always be the best at everything we do, but we can be ourselves. This we have control over. This is more reasonable.
Bob Lingvall | Posted 10.15.2009 | Living
The death of a loved one, and in a special way a parent, opens up space for self-reflection. Death asks, "Are you living a good life?" Dementia tries to help us answer.
Dr. Susan Albers | Posted 10.17.2009 | Living
Can you go a week without using the F word? If you're not sure, here is your chance to give it a try.
Jay Michaelson | Posted 10.12.2009 | Politics
Where are the GLBT prophets who call us all to account? If it is true that denying marriage to gays is a moral deficiency, why haven't gay leaders framed it that way?
Soren Gordhamer | Posted 10.11.2009 | Living
While I have nothing against cool clothes, exercise, and health drinks, let's get one thing straight: perfection is something that exists inside us, never from the outside.
Susan Harrow | Posted 09.30.2009 | Living
My partner, Will, felt I had shared something that was meant just for us. For me it was a daring investigation into how I see and live with my body, a personal test.
Susan Harrow | Posted 09.27.2009 | Living
While Phillips's is an extreme case, you don't have to sleep with or have been raped by your dad to feel bad about yourself, your body or your sexuality.
Susan Harrow | Posted 09.24.2009 | Living
Do you have a body part that you absolutely hate and sometimes feel ashamed of? Are you constantly finding ways to cover it up or hide it?
Gail Lynne Goodwin | Posted 09.22.2009 | Living
It's much more important to spend time developing our own self-image than it is to worry about what others think of us, for nothing controls our own personal success or failure in life more than our level of self-esteem.
Donna Fish | Posted 09.21.2009 | Living
How do you as a parent help give your kids the skills to do their best, which involves trying over and over and over?
Pavel Somov, Ph.D. | Posted 09.22.2009 | Living
To function as a society, and to function in a society, we have to play this game of comparisons. This game is useful but fundamentally absurd. After all, how do you compare apples to oranges?
Anne Naylor | Posted 09.20.2009 | Living
On this coming Peace Day, I invite you to stand tall in the value and worth that you are as a human being, even for a few moments during the day. Celebrate and esteem yourself.
Christine Whelan | Posted 11.09.2009 | Living