Spiritual Sex: Ecstatic Love Beyond The Physical
Eleven minutes: that's the estimated time most couples spend making love. We're stuck with a model of sex that I call: The Performance Model... Sex equals intercourse.
Eleven minutes: that's the estimated time most couples spend making love. We're stuck with a model of sex that I call: The Performance Model... Sex equals intercourse.
Clarence Haynes | Posted 08.30.2009 | Entertainment
I once missed the point of E. Lynn's work, which provided a safe forum for African-American female readers to think about sex, sexuality and the realities of male desire.
Dan Persons | Posted 08.29.2009 | Entertainment
Treut took a pause in her globe-hopping to speak to us about lesbian love stories, Taiwanese ghosts, and the life of the world filmmaker.
Amy Siskind | Posted 08.23.2009 | Media
I've already had too many conversations with my daughter before the appropriate age. How many times will the actions of our teenage TV stars prompt discussions on topics well before their time?
Patrick Sauer | Posted 08.17.2009 | Comedy
Attention, America! We sit on the precipice of a total meltdown of one of the key economic backboners of this great nation. The professional pornography business is in jeopardy.
Lindsey Horvath | Posted 08.06.2009 | Entertainment
The "empowered" 15-year old female can belt risque lyrics, flaunt racy lingerie, and flirt with suicide to be a sexy, appealing feminist?
Danielle Cavallucci | Posted 07.28.2009 | Living
The idea that men love mean girls has led to a generation of divorce-fated, confused people who actually buy the bunk that stipulates we should treat each other poorly to get what we want from a relationship.
Mike Alvear | Posted 06.15.2009 | Living
Men need to to help women survive their decision. And that lies mostly in bearing witness to their pain.
Danielle Cavallucci | Posted 05.13.2009 | Living
Twenty-something isn't all its cracked up to be and thirty-something is the start of really knowing oneself and hitting one's stride.
Jane Minogue | Posted 05.28.2009 | Politics
"If we change traditional marriage, it's a slippery slope," said the man at the table next to me. "Soon we'll have people marrying animals." I'm not aware of any man-horse association that's lobbying Congress or state governments to allow bestiality.
Dr. Jon LaPook | Posted 05.24.2009 | Living
This week I went to Central Park in New York City to talk to passersby about their sexuality, hoping to strike the right tone.
Joyce McFadden | Posted 05.11.2009 | Living
We as mothers are putting our own fears ahead of our daughters' well being, and we have to confront this crisis of confidence in order to offer our girls more grounding in sexual vitality.
Anastasia Kousakis | Posted 05.08.2009 | Style
As a concept, virginity is more dangerous than not, because it puts us into these virgin or not categories, which doesn't really give us a very nuanced perspective or understanding of sexuality.
Ethan Imboden | Posted 04.24.2009 | Style
It's 2009, and we're living in a changed world. I'm not talking about recessions, I'm talking about Barbara Walters, Sherri Shepherd, Joy Behar and Elisabeth Hasselbeck recommending vibrators on The View.
Dr. Logan Levkoff | Posted 04.23.2009 | Style
But a true blessing is in having the ability to make informed decisions, the freedom to speak up, access to reproductive health services, and having accurate and effective sexuality education.
Frankie Thomas | Posted 04.20.2009 | Entertainment
The question remains: why do they make us laugh? And why is it so hot when they do? This is why: there is a sexual undercurrent to the comedy of Flight of the Conchords. It is largely unremarked upon.
Julian Baird Gewirtz | Posted 04.17.2009 | World
The Vagina Monologues' appearance here captures a crucial moment of change in the way young Chinese women are thinking about their sexuality and their status.
Mike Alvear | Posted 03.12.2009 | Style
Is there such a thing as a romantic sexual position? Certainly, there are elements that up the intimacy -- positions that allow eye contact, kissing, and caressing.
Therese Borchard | Posted 03.12.2009 | Living
According to Peggy Vaughan, the author of "The Monogamy Myth," 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in their ma...
Jaemin Kim | Posted 03.06.2009 | Living
Reducing Asian women into a sexual object is not funny, it is not flattering. It is perilous. We can see this when Asian women are subject to race-targeted sexual violence.
Rachel Kramer Bussel | Posted 03.05.2009 | Media
Those of us who write about sex, not to mention all those heathen divorcees and masturbators, get plenty of flak. I'm tired of sex being seen as scandalous, inconsequential, or worse, pointless.
Ian Kerner | Posted 03.02.2009 | Style
While our cultural exposure to sex has heightened over the last decade, our level of personal satisfaction has plummeted to a staggering low, with sexual dissatisfaction being cited more often than ever as a primary cause of divorce.
Jill Brooke | Posted 03.01.2009 | Living
Does natural selection motivate sperm? Turns out it may be good ol' male competition. Nothing gets those fellas going like knowing there are other guys in the mix.
Mike Alvear | Posted 03.01.2009 | Style
Michelle looks at Obama like she's undressing him. Embers turn to flames when you treat the object of your affection like the object of your desire.
Andrew Trees | Posted 02.28.2009 | Living
We most value those qualities about our partners that we value about ourselves, research shows. So, all you really need to figure out is what you like about yourself.
Linda E. Savage | Posted 08.31.2009 | Living