The first step is to realize that we have these different voices offering up their advice. They all want things to be done their way. The challenge is to get this "committee" to come together in a consensus so we can make a decision that's for the highest good for all of our parts.
We all have many parts to our personalities and getting those parts to work in harmony is the essence of emotional health. Leave out certain voices and you're in for strikes, rebellions, hypocrisy, and, eventually, brutal attacks.
The Gov 2.0 World is Growing Fast and the voices in Government 2.0 abound. I have chosen to list just some of the ones that come to the top of my head and also ones you may never have heard of and are in no particular order.