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Where the Real Shame Lies: Calling Victims of Violence Liars and Their Advocates Crooks

Posted: 05/31/2012 8:02 pm

"Shame on them." That's what Rep. Sandy Adams said when she was told that more than 300 organizations and government agencies helping victims of domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault, and stalking opposed her version of reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act, H.R. 4970. Adams' bill did get the support of one organization, the National Coalition for Men, which issued a statement saying VAWA must be amended to prevent "false accusations."

H.R. 4970 contained language drafted by another organization, Stop Abusive and Violent Environments (SAVE) -- language that rolled back protections for battered immigrants. One of SAVE's board members, Natasha Spivack, runs a mail-order bride agency called Encounters International. Spivack has lobbied Congress for years to weaken laws that provide protection for the women she matches up with U.S. men. SAVE says that their language, as adopted by Adams, would discourage "false allegations of abuse."

The principles underlying H.R. 4970's rollbacks of existing law seem to be that victims don't tell the truth, and that the governmental and nonprofit agencies that provide services to victims and hold perpetrators accountable are engaged in self-enrichment.

Right-wing House members marched in lockstep, decrying the "fraud, waste, and abuse" committed by VAWA grantees as their reason for supporting the draconian and incredibly costly auditing mechanisms and punishments contained within their bill. Yet not one of them provided evidence of rampant fraud and abuse among VAWA's thousands of grantees and subgrantees, which include law-enforcement agencies, prosecutors' offices and courts, as well as severely under-funded victim service providers. In fact, the U.S. Department of Justice specifically reported that these agencies are not engaged in fraud or abuse.

Why aren't House Republicans celebrating the hard work and success of VAWA grantees? And why does the language of the bill assume victims are liars and grantees are embezzlers?

Perhaps the focus on "fraud" and "false allegations" is meant to be convenient cover for what H.R. 4970 really does: roll back victim protections that have existed in law for decades; order the establishment of a new and costly bureaucracy to burden grantees with unnecessary paperwork; and deny any meaningful protections to battered immigrants, Native women, or LGBT victims.

H.R. 4970 would establish a new and costly "fraud" unit in the Justice Department by taking money that would help victims. H.R. 4970 says there are "enough victims," and that immigrant, Native-American, and LGBT victims aren't worthy to be added to the list of those already protected from abuse. H.R. 4970 insults victims and those who serve them.

Shame on "them," Rep. Adams? I don't think so. The real shame is on you.

 

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03:48 AM on 06/11/2012
As a 40 year advocate for victims, and one who worked with VAWA programs/funding, I would caution politicians who are making decisions which affect actual life and death outcomes. I worked first hand in shelters, crisis lines, organizing private organizations to put victims underground having to skirt the government ties and use NONE of their money; I know both sides of the coin. Until the politicians have WALKED in our shoes, not just thrown them aside, I would caution them to not throw about words like "fraud" and "false allegations" and to consider the extreme repercussions on victims: adults and children, affected by these actions. Before you vote politicians, WALK IN OUR SHOES: WE'RE PROFESSIONALS IN THE FIELD AND I AM AN INDEPENDENT VOTER BEHOLDING TO NEITHER PARTY and .I speak for the victims, and they have names, tears and crisis needs. WHAT DO YOU PROPOSE WE DO TO SAVE THEIR LIVES? CHARGE IT?
02:07 AM on 06/08/2012
Nice try ,Terry, why are you opposed to a new VAWA that helps all victims. You don't believe male victims are worthy of protection? You don't think the accused should have due process? The most telling question:Ms.O'Neill,why are you so opposed to the new bill that requires accountability for where the money goes?
11:00 PM on 06/07/2012
Same rhetoric and misrepresentation of facts,after years of telling half of the truth or telling blatant lies is the writer expecting anyone to take this article seriously.
the whole idea that we need an abusive law,that is used to abuse victims and destroy the lives of innocents is clearly disingenuous.
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Kire
"Nothing becomes funny by being labeled so."
05:11 PM on 06/04/2012
Nobody needs to be added to a list, everyone should be automatically included, even men. Unfortunately, that's just not the way it is.

Where is all that money going? It would be nice if there were some oversight and assurances that it was being spent wisely and on programs based on actual science, rather than ideology.
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Kire
"Nothing becomes funny by being labeled so."
04:49 PM on 06/04/2012
"Perhaps the focus on "fraud" and "false allegations" is meant to be convenient cover for what H.R. 4970 really does: roll back victim protections that have existed in law for decades; order the establishment of a new and costly bureaucracy to burden grantees with unnecessary paperwork; and deny any meaningful protections to battered immigrants, Native women, or LGBT victims."

this is a very leading statement

"perhaps" could mean anything. one might as well say "perhaps not"

how exactly does it roll back protection for victims? please be specific

what is a "meaningful protection"? to protect accused people (mostly men) is not meaningful? tell that to those men and their children and extended families who have to live with the consequencecs of the actions of the lying wives and girlfriends who use the VAWA for advantage in their divorce/custody cases.
01:12 PM on 06/03/2012
What a nightmare it will be if mail-order bride entrepreneur, Natasha Spivack, and her organization, SAVE, or more accurately, the “Men’s Rights Movement”, succeed in their agenda of gaining control of domestic violence laws and domestic violence programs. SAVE was recently included in a list of websites noted for their misogynistic content and hatred of women by the SPLC. SAVE has close ties to A Voice for Men, a very disturbing antigovernment website seething with hatred towards women.
http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/intelligence-report/browse-all-issues/2012/spring/misogyny-the-sites
http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/intelligence-report/browse-all-issues/2012/spring/a-war-on-women
http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/intelligence-report/browse-all-issues/2012/spring/myths-of-the-manosphere-lying-about-women
A Voice for Men routinely writes articles expressing their belief that domestic violence victims “started it” and “had it coming”. In the following article, they imply that Chris Brown is the true victim along with the “millions” of other men who have been arrested for doing the same that Chris Brown did. This is their definition of “falsely accused”.
http://www.avoiceformen.com/misandry/chivalry/the-failed-manhood-of-white-knights/
SAVE, and the Men’s Rights Movement, also known as the “Abuser’s Lobby”, has no place in the creation of laws for domestic violence victims. I’m deeply disappointed to find that Sandy Adams has ties to these misogynistic groups and is pushing their agenda. Shame on Sandy Adams!
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Kire
"Nothing becomes funny by being labeled so."
04:43 PM on 06/04/2012
what's misogynistic and hateful about those groups? please, do tell
05:08 PM on 06/04/2012
And out of your other face, you will tell us that false accusations aren't a problem.
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Mary Eyer
11:25 AM on 06/19/2012
Why don't you prove that false accusations ARE a problem? What are the statistics on false accusations (to the police and to shelters) of abuse?
04:00 AM on 06/03/2012
Anyone unaware of how often women make false accusations against men have their heads buried in the sand. Women are never prosecuted for perjury, or false arrest. Victims Advocates and prosecutors are notorious for subornation of perjury. Restraining orders are handed out like candy, and everyone involved in the justice system--nation wide--acknowledges this fact. Public officials, federal representatives and Senators, State and local officials, lawyers, and law enforcement personnel, who, due of political correctness, fear standing up for falsely accused men and telling the truth. The "waste, fraud, and abuse," are the resources expended on fraudulent accessions by women; fraud committed by women, and abuse perpetrated women. Every day lives of thousands of men are ruined beyond repair. But fear grips our public servants- and god forbid they cross any one of the über powerful women's organizations, who will undoubtedly feel oppressed until the end of time. There are more women attending colleges and universities today than men. Increasingly, women are the primary "bread winners" in intact households. There are laws on the books providing special protections for women. Yet somehow, women are the most oppressed MAJORITY in the land. Women are just as distorted in their perceptions of their roll in society as they are in their roll in private and intimate relationships. Women's accusations go uninvestigated, and men have restraining orders placed upon them without a shred of evidence. The whims of women and the family and criminal justice system enables their malicious fraud.
02:43 PM on 06/01/2012
The Republican charges of waste and fraud are part of their strategy to reduce government services to everyone--except their cronies, of course. Shame on them, for sure!
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Kire
"Nothing becomes funny by being labeled so."
04:43 PM on 06/04/2012
but there is waste and fraud
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Mary Eyer
11:28 AM on 06/19/2012
Prove it.
02:22 PM on 06/01/2012
It is not just many so called VAWA victims, who are liars, but all feminists are liars. The feminists rumour mills churn false statistics and hoaxes like Anorexia myth, bride burning hoax and keep spreading their hatred all around the globe. The last thing any feminist wants is any gender equality. They only crave for more and more discrimination of males and denial of a listening space for men in the society. The hate feminists propagate dwarfs even the racial and religious hatred in some parts of the world.
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Mary Eyer
11:33 AM on 06/19/2012
So, only obedient and submissive women are telling the truth? How's that working for you? Find some woman with low enough self esteem to put up with you yet?
12:44 PM on 06/19/2012
Four Times more American Men compared to American women are committing suicide due to domestic violence. Hatred has not helped anyone. Feminist hatred for men has not solved any of the problems of women in USA in last 40 years. They are still as angry as usual.
11:25 AM on 06/01/2012
"Fraud, waste and abuse?" You bet there is. And it's been cited time and again. Indeed, a U.S. government audit of 22 recipients of VAWA funding found significant financial errors including fraud at 21 of them. That fact is cited in SAVE's literature and in much of the public commentary on VAWA by Republicans like Charles Grassley. As an example, just a few months ago, three people were sentenced in San Francisco for VAWA fraud (padding their payrolls).

The problems with VAWA are many. They include the failure to deal with false allegations, radical erosion of constitutional protections for the accused, the almost complete refusal to serve male victims, the almost total refusal to treat female perpetrators, the dissemination of false "information" about domestic violence and the fact that there's no proof that the law functions to reduce domestic violence.

VAWA should be scrapped altogether and replaced by a sensible, gender-neutral statute that uses what's known to work rather than the inaccurate and ineffective political ideology of the domestic violence industry.
06:00 PM on 06/02/2012
Exactly.
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09:25 AM on 06/01/2012
U Visa = only U.S. Visa issued to illegals by the USCIS, while on U.S. Soil, Giving recipients up to 4 years of legal, deportion free, residency in which to apply for LPR status

http://www.usimmigrationsupport.org/visa-u.html
07:20 AM on 06/01/2012
About time VAWA got stricken off the books all together. This law does more to undermine families and eliminate the rights of citizens than any other law passed by Congress. It is one of the most criminal, corrupt, immoral, misleading, rewarding-to-special-interest-groups (the criminal justice system) laws on the books. Typical of Washington, it accomplishes very little for group it is supposed to protect while funding millions/billions to the criminal justice system anxious to prove how important the law is so it can keep the funding coming.

Shame on the supporters of this law. You are either ignorant, greedy or both.
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Mike Dehart
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08:33 AM on 06/01/2012
Both...Well said.
02:27 AM on 06/01/2012
Shame on Sandy Adams. She sold her soul to the higher bitter for a position. All those tea partiers backing her up.

She lost her moral and forgot what it feels to be a victim of abuse. Shame on you Sandy Adams, and your cruel and pathetic version of VAWA.

Pass the real VAWA NOW! the one that has existed since 1994 ..pass bill S. 1925 ..the real vawa!!