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How Governors Are Leading the Way on Same-Sex Marriage

Posted: 01/31/2012 4:32 pm

Is supporting marriage equality contagious? The governors of Maryland and Washington believe it is, as they support same-sex marriage legislation. More on that in a moment.

We focus a lot on social justice issues during my 11 a.m. hour on MSNBC, particularly marriage equality. I take great pride in shining a light on this issue, and why not? We're at a pivotal moment in our country when it comes to LGBT issues.

For instance, last year, for the first time ever, a national poll showed that 53 percent of America feels same-sex marriage should be recognized as law. That same poll reveals that Republicans and older Americans remain at odds with marriage equality.

However, most people, young people, feel that full marriage equality is just a matter of time. Specifically, you can thank college kids for that one. A new poll by UCLA's Higher Education Research Institute (HERI) finds that 71.3 percent of college freshmen support same-sex marriage equality. So if 7 out of 10 college kids feel that way now, then it is logical to think that marriage equality is inevitable.

Is it bold for governors to support same-sex marriage now? It's certainly not unheard of, but nationally, it is bold. Consider this: only six states and Washington, D.C. recognize marriage equality. Safety in political numbers, right? Or is it the needed proof to demonstrate that marriage equality is not a threat to what is now dubbed "traditional marriage"?

Now more than ever, governors are tackling the basic "fairness" of this issue and are evolving, personally, to understand marriage equality as a civil rights issue. Civil rights.

Politicians are realizing they want to be remembered for standing on the right side of history. Just look at this recent trend and what certain elected officials are willing to do now.

Gov. Chris Gregoire of Washington wasn't always in favor of marriage equality. Gregoire was admittedly conflicted because of her Catholic faith, but she admits to a "personal journey" that convinced her to support it. She is also not running for a third term.

Gov. Martin O'Malley, also a Catholic, is putting his political neck on the line and, on a personal level, his religion, too. Catholic church leaders in Baltimore have urged O'Malley against supporting such a bill. I know personally and professionally about the strong Catholic church lobby in the Maryland State Legislature. Strong. O'Malley seems genuine, willing, and more than likely to get marriage equality passed on his watch. Will it cost him, or is this a calculated risk that will help make him a presidential contender in 2016?

Whatever the political calculations, the outcome is the same: the fight for marriage equality is on the move, on the march, and getting results. And as President Obama declared in his State of the Union address, "We've come too far to turn back now."

That gets us to the big interviews of Jan. 27. For months we have been aggressively trying to book Gov. Martin O'Malley to talk about marriage equality in Maryland. The week before last, we finally got him! It just so happens that O'Malley became available the same day we had already booked Gov. Gregoire. She was recently a guest on the show to talk about her bill for marriage equality. We invited her back on Jan. 27 because she has the votes needed to get it passed. Enjoy!

 
Is supporting marriage equality contagious? The governors of Maryland and Washington believe it is, as they support same-sex marriage legislation. More on that in a moment. We focus a lot on social...
Is supporting marriage equality contagious? The governors of Maryland and Washington believe it is, as they support same-sex marriage legislation. More on that in a moment. We focus a lot on social...
 
 
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10:44 AM on 02/03/2012
A poll showing the same question being asked despite a change in circumstances purports to show that a slight majority of people support same-sex marriage, and my question is...so what?

And the age group with the least experience with marriage supports same-sex marriage, and once again my question is...so what?

Marriage is on the right side of history.

Same-sex marriage is not.
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08:28 PM on 02/02/2012
Gregoire and O'Malley should be 'role models' for any politician in re: the topic of our country's principle regarding separation of church and state. Their religious faith may inform the decisions they make in their private lives, but allowing it to help shape public policy decisions is inappropriate. Too bad so many politicans lack the intellectual horsepower and/or personal integrity to understand and implement such a policy.
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BlackJAC
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05:04 PM on 02/01/2012
Let's also remember the economic benefits of legalizing gay marriage, because it opens up a new market segment to all wedding-related industries.
01:34 PM on 02/01/2012
I wish my governor (Chris Christie) was as fair-minded and willing to protect the rights of all as opposed to protecting only the majority's rights, as these two governors are. Alas, while Maryland and Washington elected people with open hearts, we ended up with a closed-minded bully.
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pj-smith
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10:27 AM on 02/01/2012
No surprise. The only reason the govs are doing the right thing is because in this case, those who want to see laws passed favoring Same-Sex Marriage have very large wallets that they are willing to open.
09:46 AM on 02/01/2012
While it is amazing that these baby steps are happening, I have a huge problem with providing a provision that excludes churches, which receive many governmental breaks (i.e. tax breaks), from providing equality to all. We heard this same "exercise-of-religious-freedom" excuse when churches wanted to keep observing segregation because of their interpretation of the Bible.
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08:33 AM on 02/01/2012
The support of the governors is appreciated. But the hearts and minds of a majority of the residents of each state are what's needed. Fortunately, public opinion polls show that is happening, at a much faster rate than anticipated.

People are simply starting to realize that in a free society, one group of people cannot be treated as second-class citizens, especially when it comes to a fundamental human right such as being able to marry the person you love.
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HermaO
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05:38 AM on 02/01/2012
It's great that in some states governors are taking the leap and trying to move towards equality.
But none of this will be enough, and equality will never be trully achieved if DOMA still stands.

DOMA needs to go!
04:39 AM on 02/01/2012
I really cannot believe that the dominos are falling this fast. I never would have predicted such a thing in my lifetime. Bless both of these governors. What is not mentioned in the blogs is how important it is for more states to pass marriage equality laws before the Supreme Court hears Prop 8. If you look at the history of laws regarding interracial marriage you will find that the Supreme Court ruled it illegal only after a significant number of states had already done that. Only rarely is the Supreme Court out ahead of the rest of the country in regards to advancing human rights. (google slavery in that regard)
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08:28 PM on 01/31/2012
good for Washington and maryland,now if the other states would learn by example.and make society stop creating minority groups,so they feel better about themselves.The foolishness needs to stop.
It's time to more forward to the betterment of society

EQUALITY FOR ALL
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StevenWells
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01:52 AM on 02/01/2012
Ironically, it's majorities who create "minority groups," simply by singling them out for different treatment due to one characteristic or another. If that weren't done, we'd all be simply people, each of whom happens to possess his own little collection of "differences" from most.

Everybody's a part of some quantifiable minority; we all have some attribute unshared by the majority of Americans, whether it's being left-handed, green-eyed, a resident of a particular city, a doctor, a butterfly collector or any other thing that most people aren't.

Isn't it odd that a society will arbitrarily seize upon one of a specified handful of "differences" to magnify, and set their possessors apart?
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09:11 PM on 02/04/2012
um steve thats what i have been saying lol! :p
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07:51 PM on 01/31/2012
I really cannot wait for gay marriage to be recognized and on par with heterosexual marriage in this country. There is no good reason for it not to be legally recognized. I still fear that it won't happen in my lifetime, though.

And no, civil unions and domestic partnerships are not good enough. They equate sitting on the back of the bus. Striking down DOMA and full marriage equality across the board in all 50 states is the only acceptable choice, period.
07:52 AM on 02/01/2012
you're young so be patient. I'm 60 and went to Conn for a civil union in 2006. Civil union isn't good enough. If someone ask "are you married?" I have to say "no I'm civil unioned". take care and keep hope alive.
07:28 PM on 01/31/2012
Freedom and civil rights should be goals that are recognized by all. Anybody, gay or straight, who wants to commit to a monogamous, responsible relationship, should be encouraged to do so.
07:24 PM on 01/31/2012
The argument from religious groups is ridiculous. Does a mormon temple let non mormons get married in their church? nope. Why would a homosexual want to get married in a church that condemns them anyway?
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09:28 PM on 01/31/2012
The religious zealots don't have a cogent argument and they know it.
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02:20 PM on 02/01/2012
It's almost beyond ridiculous. Self-respecting GLBT people will find a church that is willing to marry them or will opt for a civil ceremony. I have yet to hear of a religious group being forced to marry anyone it does not want to. This is just a red herring to lure the naive and ignorant into the anti-equality camp.
06:58 PM on 01/31/2012
It's about time the states' leaders start to take a real stand on this issue. People are being denied civil rights, it's been happening for far too long, and it's time to move forward.
05:50 PM on 01/31/2012
Would like to point out that the writer probably meant "Washington State" in the first paragraph, since Washington DC doesn't have a governor.