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Cheek Biting: Why You Bite Your Cheek and How to Stop

Posted: 02/03/11 02:40 PM ET

Let's talk today about cheek biting.

That's a sentence that will make some people say "huh?" while others say "yes, let's." The reason for this is because, by and large, cheek biting is somewhat akin to fingernail biting. Some of us do it as a bad habit, and some of us don't. And, of course, the two sides don't really understand the other (the side that doesn't do it says "hey, just stop already," while the side that does do it knows it's just not that simple).

But yes, there are cheek biters out there. And when I say "cheek biters," I mean the entire inside of the mouth -- the cheek, the lips, and even the tongue. It's just the phrase "cheek biters" sounds better.

As a NYC cosmetic dentist, I see a lot of cheek biting. Some cases are simply accidental, some cases are chronic, yet have easily remedied medical reasons, and some are physiological in nature. Let's go over a few reasons/causes:

The first cause of cheek biting is what I call "careless chewing." It's something we all probably do from time to time. It's when you're chewing and usually trying to do something else -- talking, reaching for something, reading etc. Talking is really the biggest culprit here (be it far from me to admonish people for reading while eating -- my newspaper is a staple at lunch). This can be remedied by perhaps paying a little more attention to chewing, slowing down while eating, and similar.

But again, this is something we all probably do. Thus, an occasional cheek/lip bite is usually not a cause for concern.

More problematic is chronic cheek biting, usually due to some sort of misalignment in your teeth, or perhaps due to TMJ (temporomandibular joint disorder). This is quite common in some people -- misaligned teeth cause our bites to be "off," and can cause an occasional nip to the cheek/tongue/lips.

This can happen with your permanent teeth (which become misaligned due to missing teeth/etc), or with improperly aligned false teeth. Misaligned teeth not only cause an occasional accidental nip. In some people, misaligned teeth can create a psychological dependency in terms of biting one's cheek. This is where chronic cheek biting starts.

When your teeth are misaligned, they do not close together properly. Our brains realize this, and sometimes look to "correct" this misalignment by putting something in between them. And what is available to put in there? You guessed it -- the insides of your cheek/lips. So if you find yourself constantly putting your cheek/lips in between your teeth, misalignment could be the reason.

The last reason people bite their cheeks is due to a simple nervous habit, much like biting one's nails. The root cause may or may not have been misaligned teeth or dentures, but "nervous habit" cheek biting can be prevalent even in a perfect mouth.

So, now that we know the causes, let's discuss how harmful cheek biting is.

The first, and most obvious, "harmful aspect" is the simple fact that biting one's cheek often leaves a sore, and mouth sores are never fun. Now again, if this is a twice yearly thing, perhaps it's not worth worrying about, but if there are constant "bite related" sores in your mouth, it's something you probably want to address, if nothing else, for your own comfort (and you don't want them getting infected, etc).

Of course, like I mentioned above, cheek biting may mean misalignment, and misaligned teeth can cause all kinds of other problems (TMJ, headaches, moving teeth, etc.) So it's probably a good idea to get this checked out, and corrected.

I have heard talk of mouth lesions sometimes being a cause of oral cancer. So that would lead one to think cheek biters may be more susceptible to developing oral cancer. I am not going to go that far -- the research on such is somewhat spotty, and really, most of the condemning information that is out there is in the form of discussion forum posts and the like. But still, mouth sores are something you do want to eliminate.

Ok, we have causes and concerns -- now let's talk about fixing the issue.

Obviously, going by what I've laid out, the easiest fixes involve paying more attention when you chew, and, in many cases, getting a misalignment in your bite corrected. In fact, those two will likely eliminate cheek biting in a great majority of people.

For chronic "nervous habit" cheek biters, the solution may need some kind of substitute or "training" to eliminate the habit. For example, sugarless gum is something that can help. Or, if you are biting your lip, perhaps lip gloss/lip balm, which at least will make you "realize" what you are doing.

In the end, cheek biting is something almost all of us will experience at one time or another, and with a little effort, is pretty easy to correct.

Until next time, keep smiling!

 

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Let's talk today about cheek biting. That's a sentence that will make some people say "huh?" while others say "yes, let's." The reason for this is because, by and large, cheek biting is somewhat ak...
Let's talk today about cheek biting. That's a sentence that will make some people say "huh?" while others say "yes, let's." The reason for this is because, by and large, cheek biting is somewhat ak...
 
 
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04:40 AM on 02/13/2011
I don't know how many other people in the world have the same problem. I don't know where the line between a "nervous habit" and a self-harming habit is to be drawn, necessarily (although I would suggest that if you: find yourself proud of your "secret"; are comforted by the taste of blood; find yourself trying to see how big, deep, etc... a hole you can make, you are probably engaging in self-harm). I DO know that the first bit of writing I've ever seen dedicated to the topic, written by someone who, by dint of his profession, is one of the few in a position to be on the lookout for this, comes across as unsatisfactory and downright ignorant. If it occurs to a dentist to check the patient's tooth alignment to determine if that is causing the (clearly obvious) problem, why doesn't it occur to him/her to ask about the patient's mental processes related to the habit as well? Dentists need training around this issue; if noticed in a child, the dentist has a moral & possibly legal duty to talk to the guardian(s). Even with adults, the dentist has a chance to open a door, a dialogue that might not have been possible otherwise. They have the opportunity to help the patients help themselves. In light of this, it would at least be decent of Connelly to do his research well enough to realize that it's not as easy as sugar-free gum.
04:06 AM on 02/13/2011
Apologies for the possible double post, but my computer just did something odd and reloaded the page.
Comment #2:
Connelly makes the "nervous habit" of cheek-biting sound essentially harmless, even trivial. He doesn't seem to understand the potential physical repercussions of deliberate, long-term practice of the habit (what happens when you have a network of scars which you then cut up to form another layered network which you then cut up to form another layered network which you then cut up...for ten years, in an area maybe 10-12 square inches?). His idea of cheek-biting as a "nervous habit" seems to completely ignore the possibility that this "nervous habit" is, in some practitioners at least, full-blown self-mutilation (just not the publicity-seeking kind). Does he imagine that chewing sugar-free gum is going to solve the problems that start the process of self-harm in the first place? Was there no expert he could have consulted before he blogged on the topic?
It's kind of offensive to me that a practice that has left me permanently, if invisibly, "disfigured" (in the sense of a detrimental alteration to the original state of one's body) can be so totally ignored by a professional's writing that purports to address the subject of the "nervous habit" of cheek biting. I don't tear up my face nearly as often or as badly as I used to, but it happens. (Going for #3, I guess.)
03:47 AM on 02/13/2011
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A dentist is one of the only people who is in a position to notice the kind of chronic cheek-biting referred to in this blog. If there are flesh wounds, it must be fairly clear; I don't know if the scars are easily visible to someone who isn't looking for them. Connelly's advice, and his analysis, regarding chronic cheek-biting are sadly lacking. He makes this "nervous habit" sound pretty much harmless. It isn't. He suggests chewing sugar-free gum - how does that address the needs of someone who re
03:40 AM on 02/13/2011
As a mostly former chronic cheek biter, I want to weigh in on that you said here. My cheek biting is something that started when I was a young child, riddled with depression, anxiety and self-hatred, and too young to understand that this was not the standard mental condition of the average person. As a "nervous habit" I would bite at the inside of my cheeks and the area below my lower lip (inside my mouth). I would worry away at a spot for hours, often going so deep I severed nerves. I had constant infections, though I always found mouth wounds healed quickly, but I was also left with a web of scar tissue so extensive that nerves were re-routed; for years I had a patch on my lower lip that was numb. I did not realize that what I was doing amounted to extensive self-mutilation until I had been doing it for a decade or so. But, for someone who is only trying to cope, and doesn't want to be noticed or caught, it is nearly perfect as a form of self-harm. All the damage is unseen by others; you can have a conversation with someone while tearing holes in the inside of your face. Swallow the blood - it will pass unnoticed. From my point of view this article is shallow. This "nervous habit" is the least understood and most potentially harmful. (This will have to continue in a second comment.)
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08:34 PM on 02/11/2011
Gum is a good suggestion, though for those with really nasty sores from biting, it might burn. I used to have to apply oral anaesthetic paste a lot. I had this habit for a long time in my childhood, and the sores would get so bad, I'd have trouble eating or talking. If a substitute like gum doesn't work, try a few sessions with a therapist (if you're in a position to do so) to help break the habit and get stress levels down.
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beyondliberal
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02:39 PM on 02/09/2011
I'd like to know the link between bruxism (teeth-grinding or clenching during sleep) and cheek-biting.
My dental hygienist says I bite my cheeks during sleep; had bruxism for years. Fortunately, I never develop sores; just little ridges of whitened cheek epidermis.
01:30 PM on 02/07/2011
Is there a body of study behind this or are these personal observations or...?
10:33 AM on 02/07/2011
After suffering from intermittent hearing loss and daily migraines for two years, visiting several doctors, having several tests and myself thinking I had some crazy kind of brain cancer, one doctor said I think you have tmj. I blew him off until I had bad reaction to some medication a neurologist was using to treat my migraines. I decided to ask my dentist about the tmj. He did some simple tests and he felt I did. He sent me to a craniomadibular specialist. My craniomadibular doctor treats my tmj. He got the hearing to come back the migraines to stop. I see him every 6 months or whenever it flares up. I feel one of my main reasons is my lip/cheek biting habit. I have done it my whole life. I think my mother has also. I am not a nervous person. I seem to do it just because. It is worse with stress. My cranio dr agrees that is a big part of my problem. He told me one redeeming fact about my cheek biting. "Better you take all that stress out on your lip/cheek than your heart." Sounds silly, and of course he does discourage me from doing it, but he has a point.
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MikeLawson
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10:13 AM on 02/07/2011
Cheeky.
09:17 AM on 02/07/2011
I've been doing this on and off for 20 years. Since I was 5. I have to say, I've kept from doing it now for 4 months and I never want to do it again. I would do it when I was nervous and I thought it would make me feel better. But now that I've stopped the nervous feeling are much better and I realize that the bitting was actually causing the feelings. It only takes 3 days to have your mouth healed - after that it gets much easier because If you bite, it would be on a smooth surface. And no, my life is just as stressful now as it always was - so it's not that. It's like a bad drug problem, you think your enjoying it, but your really not.
03:00 AM on 02/07/2011
I used to have the habit of biting my cheek until I got a mucocele about a year ago which had to be surgically removed. Getting a mucocele is enough to stop me from ever cheek-biting intentionally.
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02:33 AM on 02/07/2011
Some schools of thought classify chronic cheek biting as a bodily-focused repetitive behavior (BFRB). Other BFRBs include skin picking and trichotillomania (compulsive hair pulling). The Trichotillomania Learning Center (trich.org) has information on these behaviors for anyone who is interested.
01:19 AM on 02/07/2011
Dear Mr. Connelly,
I just wish to state that I enjoy your style of writing. Your straight forwardness and lack of medical mumbo jumbo is indeed refreshing. I am a new fan.
10:31 PM on 02/06/2011
I systematically strip the outer layer of mucuos membrane off the inside of my cheek. When I was in jr high we had an experiment where we scraped off cheek cells, stained them and looked at them with a microscope. This lead to my check biting habit. I do it when I'm hungry, busy on a project or nervous about something. When I was in elementary school I would peel off the skin on my fingers starting under the nail edge. I really liked peeling and eating the skin, it was fun and made me feel calmer. The check biting does the same thing, makes me calm and focused. It helps me when I'm really hungry but can't eat right then. it tides me over so to speak. I don't plan on breaking this habit, I like it too much!!
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crom14
03:21 PM on 02/06/2011
I do this all the time, cannot afford the dentist. God, it hurts.