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A Response to Father Benedict Groeschel's Apology

Posted: 09/05/2012 5:08 pm

The condemnations and apologies have been forthcoming since Father Benedict Groeschel, a founder of the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal, told the National Catholic Register that some teenage victims of sexual abuse seduce their priest perpetrators. He also referred to convicted sex felon Jerry Sandusky as "this poor guy" before implying that Sandusky's victims should have spoken out sooner.

The National Catholic Register removed the interview from its website and posted an apology explaining the publication of Groeschel's "comment was an editorial mistake." In addition, the Register "sought clarification from Father Benedict," as if Groeschel's 468 word "comment" wasn't clear enough.

The Archdiocese of New York quickly condemned Groeschel's statements, acknowledging the harm that such comments cause victims of sexual abuse and offering "profound sympathy" and prayers to those hurt by Groeschel's words. Their communications director stated, "The Archdiocese of New York completely disassociates itself from these comments. They do not reflect our beliefs or our practice."

As I write this post, Father Groeschel is listed on the faculty of St. Joseph Seminary in the Archdiocese of New York, where he is entrusted with the task of teaching pastoral psychology to future priests. The website of Trinity Retreat House (also in the archdiocese) greets visitors with a letter penned by Groeschel. If their statement of disassociation had any merit, would they not fire Groeschel?

But before that might have happened, the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal responded to the Register's request for a "clarification." They called Groeschel's statements "inappropriate and untrue ... He never intended to excuse abuse or implicate the victims." They explained the illogic of his statements claiming medical incompetency:

About seven years ago Fr. Benedict was struck by a car and was in a coma for over a month. In recent months his health, memory and cognitive ability have been failing. He has been in and out of the hospital. Due to his declining health and inability to care for himself, Fr. Benedict had moved to a location where he could rest and be relieved of his responsibilities.

Groeschel's apology recycles the same excuse: "My mind and my way of expressing myself are not as clear as they used to be."

If this is the case, why was Groeschel interviewed at all? Why is he teaching at a seminary and providing services at a retreat house?

If he is so incapacitated, how was he able to attend the events on his public calendar, which reveals since mid-May he's spoken at nine different church events? Some recent engagements include the "Defending the Faith Conference" at Franciscan University in Steubenville, Ohio, and "Renewing the Priesthood: An Annual Conference for Diocesan Priests" in Louisville, Ky. "Sunday Night Prime with Father Benedict Groeschel" airs Sundays at 7 p.m. on the Eternal Word Television Network (EWTN).

Groeschel's itinerary of professional engagements does not paint the picture of someone who has been incapacitated by an accident that took place in 2004. It reveals that Groeschel is a trusted voice of Catholic wisdom and leadership whose counsel is in high demand. He's an industry.

Perhaps, the National Catholic Register, which is owned by EWTN, was told to pull the Groeschel interview. It would have been in the network's interest to protect its investment.

Fatherbenedict.com features more than 50 products, including books, audio CDs, and DVDs written by or featuring Groeschel. The Franciscan Friars of the Renewal have a financial stake in Groeschel. Saying the old man is out of his mind preserves Groeschel's reputation and lucrative legacy.

Some will no doubt say that I'm unjustly reading into things, that my questions are out of line and preposterous. Perhaps they are. Perhaps there is a simpler explanation for Father Groeschel's statements: He didn't misspeak. He told the truth as he sees it, as many Catholic bishops were inclined to see it before The Boston Globe blew open the sexual abuse scandal in 2002.

Groeschel's conclusion seems a flashback to the good old days of justifying the shuffling of abusive priests:

Well, you know, until recent years, people did not register in their minds that it [Sandusky's abuse of children] was a crime. It was a moral failure, scandalous; but they didn't think of it in terms of legal things. If you go back 10 or 15 years ago with different sexual difficulties -- except for rape or violence -- it was very rarely brought as a civil crime. Nobody thought of it that way. ... At this point, (when) any priest, any clergyman, any social worker, any teacher, any responsible person in society would become involved in a single sexual act -- not necessarily intercourse -- they're done. And I'm inclined to think, on their first offense, they should not go to jail because their intention was not committing a crime.

The simpler explanation is some Catholic clerics still believe this. An element of contemporary clerical culture continues to excuse and nurture this preposterous and outdated understanding of sexual abuse.

This would explain Father Angel Perez of the Archdiocese of Portland who last month (dressed only in his underwear) failed to chase down the 12-year-old boy he'd plied with alcohol, fondled and photographed, before driving drunk to the victim's home to demand his parents' forgiveness. This might cast light on Archbishop John Vlazny's surprise at the outrage generated by his granting Perez an open-ended loan to pay for the best defense attorney Catholic funds can buy rather than letting a public defender represent Perez.

This might explain how Cardinal Dolan could lie about having paid hush money to pedophile priests and how Cardinal Egan recently rescinded the church's apology for the sexual-abuse scandal.

Groeschel's original conclusions make sense in a church where it took until 2011 for the Vatican to allow the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops to apply the federal legal age of minority as under 18 when defining child pornography, rather than the Vatican's definition of minor as being under 14.

Or maybe it's just easier to blame statements such as those made by Father Benedict Groeschel on senility and misspeak.

Update: Religion News Service reports that Father Benedict Groeschel "has given up his longtime spot on the conservative cable network EWTN following comments in which he appeared to defend clergy who abuse children while blaming some victims.

 

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David Golani
12:40 AM on 10/01/2012
In my experience the FIRST thing a person says tends to be what they intended to say. Any future apologies are just damage control.
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charlesrfd2003
Proud American who believes in the Bill of Rights
11:33 PM on 09/24/2012
Some people continue to grow all their lives and gain wisdom. Some never really grow and fail to mature in many ways. What surprises me is the continued stupid statements we see from priests and bishops as the article points out. I guess with arrogance one feels invincible and stops growing. Maybe that explains the stupid statements.

Isn't it time to retire these priests in their seventies? Let them say Mass but lighten the responsibilities.
09:09 PM on 09/24/2012
ANYONE WHO HAS WATCHED FR GROESCHEL AND HAS READ HIS BOOKS KNOWS HIS SOUND THEOLOGY AND PSYCHOLOGY. IF YOU HAVE WATCHED HIM RECENTLY IT IS OBVIOUS THAT HIS ACCIDENT AND STROKE HAVE TAKEN A TOLL ON HIM AND YES IT IS TIME FOR HIM TO REST. GOD BLESS FATHER GROESCHEL AND ALL THE GOOD HE HAS DONE AND GOD HAVE MERCY ON THOSE WHO JUDGE. OH, AND BY THE WAY SOME PRIESTS HAVE BEEN FALSELY JUDGED AND SEDUCED , AND TO THE GUILTY, GOD WILL JUSTLY PUNISH THEM.
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sweetlilthing
hurt no one but tell the truth
07:58 AM on 09/14/2012
Great article. Putting into words what we knew to be true!
10:56 PM on 09/10/2012
Civilization will not attain to its perfection until the last stone from the last church falls on the last priest. ~ Emile Zola
07:53 PM on 09/10/2012
perhaps the reporter should read Fr Groeshels book on clergy sexual abuse of children. He is a pschologist who knows this problem inside and out . He was not condoning or excusing thia abuse.
The fact is that troubled teens and adults may attempt to seduce the care provider. if he or she is having issues him or herself he may lose his usual control. This is not condoning this behavior but stating a psychological fact. Fr. Groeshel has been a champion for the poor and marginal and an inspiration for many. It would do the Post well to dig deeper into the life of this saintly man. As for his comments about Sandusky as being a poor soul is just a reflection of his Christian love for both the victim and the victimizer.
07:13 PM on 09/12/2012
Yeah, it sure sounds like he knows the problem "inside and out"...
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sweetlilthing
hurt no one but tell the truth
07:45 AM on 09/14/2012
Would you like the buy a bridge?
05:34 AM on 09/07/2012
Thanks, Tom. Groeschel sounds like many a younger Catholic cleric: deadset on minimizing the pain of victims/families and somehow shifting blame to them. These poor, helpless adult priests were seduced by sexually aggressive male adolescents. Right. His remarks point to a vast, scandalous subculture in which adult clergy, including hierarchs, did not consider sexual relations with minors to be criminal. Did they all have dementia?
08:19 PM on 09/06/2012
Fantastic piece, Tom. Somebody has to say these things. Your article and analyses make a lot of sense and you make a lot of great points.
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ManuOB1
A voice crying in the wilderness
07:29 PM on 09/06/2012
FYI-- Fr. Groeschel founded the splinter Franciscan Friars of the Renewal because he believed the Cappuchins were overrun with homosexuals.
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charlesrfd2003
Proud American who believes in the Bill of Rights
11:40 PM on 09/24/2012
If one is raised to think that being homosexual is an objective disorder. Since is gay, marriage is not an option. Since one is so disordered, joining a religious order to devote one's life to God may seem to be the best choice for a young person. Unfortunately, that is not the best discernment but I can see how someone could choose that. Also, I can see that heterosexuals might not like the atmosphere and leave especially if the staff at the seminary has predators. Maybe that is one of the reasons for a decline in priests.
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INTUITE
03:32 PM on 09/06/2012
Christianity is empathy and compassion...the Catholic Church has none.
11:01 PM on 09/10/2012
God required his son to suffer in order to save the world. That is an image of God as a child abuser, and Jesus is imaged as the perfect victim. He accepts the abuse and does it silently. He is praised in his religious community for accepting abuse as the highest form of love . . . . If this is the virtue of God's son . . . how is the victim of the priest's abuse going to find a justification for raising a protest? . . . How is the church going to see the perpetrators of abuse clearly if it can't see its own conceptualization of God as abuser? ~ Rebecca Ann Parker, American theology professor
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sweetlilthing
hurt no one but tell the truth
07:51 AM on 09/14/2012
What matters is that the Abuse stops and the perpertrators put in jail. How a religion conceptualizes it's God is irrelevent when children are abused.
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James Walton
Fairly Unbalanced
02:45 PM on 09/06/2012
The mind of a pedophile always blames the victim, and the co-dependent always protects the perpetrator.
07:16 PM on 09/12/2012
Absolutely true. Right on.
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ginas13
09:15 AM on 09/06/2012
This is just another example of how far the Catholic Church has fallen. Even after all the money they have paid to lawyers and as hush money, even after all the parishioners they have lost, even after all the children that they have abused they still go on doing the same things. They cover up and deceive. I have been raised a Catholic but I find it so hard to go to church any more. I go for my grandmother but I do not feel God there. I see God in the trees, in the smile of a child, the sound of crashing waves...
01:13 PM on 09/06/2012
Jesus was born of a virgin, died, was resurrected and ascended into heaven. Now he talks to me through my blow dryer, so I don't have to go to church anymore either. What? You're having trouble with the blow dryer part?
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10:01 AM on 09/07/2012
He speaks only through the toaster oven. It is known!
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sweetlilthing
hurt no one but tell the truth
07:52 AM on 09/14/2012
The RCC has always been in this place, it's just out in the open now.
06:56 AM on 09/06/2012
The "cognitive failure" excuse is lame. He was able to speak on his weekly show on EWTN. They must have thought he was mentally competent to keep him on the show. He's had many speaking engagements in the last several months. Sad to see him and the Church try to blame his comments on failing mental capacity instead of taking responsibility.
01:15 PM on 09/06/2012
I am relieved by this mental incompetence declaration. I expect that all clergy similarly will be declared incompetent, if the standard is that you have to make a ridiculous, anachronistic, abusive and counter-factual statement that is offensive to everyone's sensibilities.
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sweetlilthing
hurt no one but tell the truth
07:54 AM on 09/14/2012
I am not relieved because I know it's a cover up.
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INTUITE
03:38 PM on 09/06/2012
The Catholic Church has neither empathy or compassion.
01:22 AM on 09/06/2012
No apology by Groeschel or his superiors will work in response to such a statement. Further, no other profession allows its big guns to remain in public life after saying such things. I'm frankly stunned that anyone would be backing up Groeschel on this...haven't they learned the price for not taking sex abuse seriously?
11:05 PM on 09/05/2012
I do not know how to explain it medically; he can speak about many profound topics, but I've noticed that his mind shifts from one thing to another. I have had to learn to connect the dots in order to understand what he is really saying. This has happened in the past year much.

You will notice that his statement doesn't even make sense of itself. One second, he's talking about priests who have abused a child and says they must leave. Next, he's speaking about priests who leave the ministry and marry a woman. It doesn't fit in with what comes before it and what comes after it in his remarks.

I believe his mind was shifting at this point very much. When I read it, I said, "seducer" is really connected with his statement about a priest leaving the ministry for a woman (yes, a woman can seduce a priest). "Seducer" is not connected with the minors.

*This whole situation can manifest our society's compassion toward those with diminishing cognitive abilities!*

As for calling Sandusky a "poor guy": Fr Benedict speaks with classical language. In this regard, "poor guy" means "a man who is poor, not financially, but poor in virtues, lacking in goodness, and poor in circumstances." "Rich guy" would mean "rich in virtues, prosperous in circumstances, filled with goodness." Today in USA, when we say "poor guy," we are offering sympathy. But in classical language, it is a very negative remark.
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Cindbird
Using my head for something other than a hat rack.
01:33 AM on 09/06/2012
Stop trying to defend a man who excuses pedophiles and blames the victims for the crimes. We used to do that to Rape Victims too.
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AnalyzeThisToo
At the fork in the road...veer left!
11:49 PM on 09/06/2012
"We used to do that to Rape Victims too"

Republicans/conservatives still blame the victims of sexual crimes...most conservatives are Fundamentalists and Evangelical Christians! It is always the woman's fault if she is raped...or the man or child if they are raped.

That is the reason Republicans want to control women's bodies instead of letting women be free to control their own lives.

The conservatives moved God off from His throne and sat them selves down; they expect that all people live up to their demands; those people that don't are considered evil...but, just like the Catholics they are the evil ones.

Religion is giving religion a very bad name; religion is responsible for dividing America!