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First, let's get the ways to not be your own version of Wonder Woman or Superman in your own life out of the way! Looking to be rescued in a relationship? Many of us are until we realize ain't nobody got time for that, and it's pretty much impossible!
Guaranteed ways to feel like a victim in your life and relationships:
- You make excuses for the bad behavior of others toward you, even if they're nice to the rest of the world.
Now, no one has to stay in victimhood, unless the benefit of being "poor me" outweighs the reward of being your own "superhero!"
All those statements about victimhood might be insidious, because they're so ingrained in your thinking. You may not notice how all of those beliefs about yourself and the world have mentally taken your power away.
In fact, many people don't realize they have choices in all those statements, so they remain a victim, blaming others and life for it's unfairness or crappy results.
Here's the deal.
Today is a great day to become your own superhero, there's no reason to wait. Let's reverse that list above into power statements on how to be your own superhero!
- You recognize the bad behavior of others toward you, and start treating yourself with the respect you deserve. When you stop treating yourself as worthless, others will, too, and if they don't, you won't tolerate it in your life.
Just take one of these tips and watch how kryptonite no longer has the same effect on you!