Let's face it, when you're flying solo in life, February 14 can be one of the most challenging days of the year. Here are six simple ways to beat the blues during this year's Cupid-fest if you find yourself without that one special someone to share it with:
- Don't stay home by yourself! Today is the perfect opportunity to go out with a group of friends who are also partnerless. Make a plan for dinner, bowling, a concert or even a house party. This isn't about hooking up, it's about having a great time with your favorite co-singles. Why pass up that chance?
And if none of the above appeals to you, because it's just too heartbreaking, then spend Valentine's Day this year making sure things are different next year. Take a fearless self-inventory about what you might change to become more attractive to your future beloved. Buy some books in the area you want to improve and commit to doing the work. Spend a few hours researching dating sites to find the one that's right for you (eHarmony gets you vastly different results from OKCupid), then take the time to build the best possible profile. Let your friends know you're open to being fixed up. Say yes to the date who might not be perfect and compel yourself to have a good time. Be nice. Stay Happy. Enjoy the long weekend.
After all, St, Patrick's Day is just four weeks away, and that's the night everyone wishes they were single!
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Valerie Alexander is the author of Happiness as a Second Language, a #1 Seller on Amazon in both the Happiness and Self-Help categories. For more from Valerie, please visit Speak Happiness.com, and follow Speak Happiness on Facebook and Twitter.
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