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IUDS: Pamper, Pamper, Pamper -- Plus 9 Other Tips For Falling In Love With Your IUD

Posted: 03/27/2012 6:43 pm

You've heard that an IUD can give you five to twelve years of never-have-to-think-about-it contraception. You've also heard that, depending on which IUD you choose, you can have your period decrease by (on average) 90 percent. You've heard that in real world use IUDs are more effective than the Pill when it comes to preventing unwanted pregnancy. All true!

But nothing worth having is free, and the price you pay for a decade plus* of "fit-and-forget" contraception is that the fitting part and the adjustment that follows can be uncomfortable. Just how much so is hard to predict. On a scale of uncomfortable things we women do to get our bodies just the way we want them, ranging from, say, piercings to Brazilians to tattoos, an IUD insertion usually falls somewhere on the piercing-to-Brazilian end of the spectrum. And then there's adjustment. Some wombs welcome the newcomer from the moment it arrives. A few boot the first one back out into the cold world in the weeks or months after it gets put in. Most grumble a bit before deciding they like the company. Here are 10 tips that can make your IUD experience what you were hoping for when you first dialed your clinic:

Think Ahead Of Time About What You Want Out Of Your Contraception
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One Seattle family planning expert asks every woman who comes through the door, "How often do you want to have your period? Once a month, once every few months, or never?" Contraceptives offer a range of options for regulating menstrual symptoms including bleeding and cramps. For women who want totally hormone-free contraception, a copper IUD is by far the most effective and easy option available, but hormone-free means your periods typically will continue as before. Flow tends to increase during the first six months and then taper back to its original level for the next decade. Alternately, an IUD that releases a small dose of the progestin levonorgestrel will cause your period (and bloating and cramps) to decrease over time. For many women they stop altogether by the end of the first year; others level out with "panty-liner periods."
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No contraceptive method is perfect, and the one that is great for your best friend may not be right for you. But the latest generation of long acting reversible contraceptives, also known as LARCs, offers safety and effectiveness that our mothers could only dream of. Each year, one in twelve women on the Pill gets pregnant. For women with hormonal IUD's that's one in 700. If you're tired of remembering (or forgetting) pills or worrying about condoms or timing your cycle -- if you're tired of missing classes or work or simply feeling bloated and achy for one week each month -- maybe it's time to pick up the phone.

Author's Note: The FDA has signed off on the ParaGard for 10 years, but research now shows that the ParaGard keeps working for 14 years or more; Planned Parenthood and Bedsider.org list it for 12 years. The Mirena has been approved in the U.S. for five years for women who have had babies, but in Europe (where the track record is much longer) it is approved for up to seven years for all women of reproductive age.

Valerie Tarico is a psychologist and writer in Seattle, Washington. She is the author of Trusting Doubt: A Former Evangelical Looks at Old Beliefs in a New Light and Deas and Other Imaginings, and the founder of www.WisdomCommons.org. Her articles can be found at Awaypoint.Wordpress.com.

 
 
 

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You've heard that an IUD can give you five to twelve years of never-have-to-think-about-it contraception. You've also heard that, depending on which IUD you choose, you can have your period decrease b...
You've heard that an IUD can give you five to twelve years of never-have-to-think-about-it contraception. You've also heard that, depending on which IUD you choose, you can have your period decrease b...
 
 
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04:18 PM on 03/31/2012
What is a safe, healthy and natural alternative to artificial methods of contraception?

More and more people are turning to Natural Family Planning, which is science-based, 99% effective, and is not, repeat not, the so-called "rhythm method."

And there is no cost. NFP is free!!!

Information and resource links can be found here:
http://allhands-ondeck.blogspot.com/2012/02/benefits-of-natural-family-planning.html

Check it out! You might be pleasantly surprised by what you find.
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Alison Carabajal
Is this a joke?
03:07 AM on 03/30/2012
My experience with Mirena was good and bad. Good because it was awesome not ever having to worry about birth control, especially because I am awful at remembering to take a pill and the shot.... OY! Bad because it made my usually light and short lived periods into a week+ of spotting. Sometimes up to 10 days. DH is getting a vasectomy :)
10:47 PM on 03/29/2012
IUD's are a great product. They are safe and very reliable. I highly recommend using a gynecologist to have it inserted. It is a ''procedure'' and should be done by someone with lots of experience with putting them in as well as dealing with any problems that may arise. Like every other product, you expect for a few women to just'' not get along with'' any given product. IUD's can be put in nulliparous women comfortably with a little planning. Once again, go to someone that has the proper experience and knows all of the tips and tricks to making it as comfortable as possible.
I am a gynecologist and have put around a thousand in. Most women love theirs. I would be very reluctant to put an IUD in a virginal female in the office. That would be best done under sedation.
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Killermolls44
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07:33 PM on 03/29/2012
I tried to get one but my OBGYN advised against it because I've never had a kid. I instead got implanon, I'd still consider the IUD if implanon didn't work so well for me.
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Medusa Sant
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11:19 AM on 03/29/2012
I had Mirena for five years, the first three and a half were great. Insertion was uncomfortable, but bearable. Some cramping afterwards, but also bearable. Then at three and a half years, I began getting insane cramps, pain like you wouldn't believe. I was growing cysts on my ovaries, which is apparently common with hormone iud's. To top it off, I ended up getting PID. Basically a run of the mill infection that travels up the thread, into your uterus and wreaks havoc in there. As soon as it was removed (which was difficult as the threads had been pulled into my cervix) I felt immediate relief. When it works, its awesome. When it fails, it fails spectacularly.
10:41 AM on 03/29/2012
I'm considering switching from a 28-day Pill to the IUD - My Pill has worked 100% awesome since my teens! But . . . I'm certain that I don't want kids (I'm in my mid-20s now) and want to forget about taking a Pill daily. Is it safe for women who haven't had children? I've heard both sides of this and want to get some feedback. Thanks :)
04:03 PM on 03/29/2012
I don't know about the safety aspect when it comes to women who haven't had children but I know that my doctor told me that it was ideal for women who had already had children. The reason being that the uterus is stretched more after having a child and allows for the IUD to fit better. He never said though if they didn't insert them into women who have never had children, but I am guess they do. It probably just tends to be more uncomfortable for them.
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06:26 PM on 03/28/2012
I've given up on birth control. Condoms are the best fit for me.
10:03 PM on 03/27/2012
IUD's have come a long way and still kind of get a bad wrap because of some of the older ones that are not on market anymore. I have a Mirena and I love it. It is the easiest birth control I have ever used hands down.
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09:34 PM on 03/27/2012
My IUD worked pretty well, until I got pregnant with my sweet daughter Mia :-) I gave her that name 'cause she was obviously meant for me. When Mia was 2 years old, dear husband got a vasectomy done! BEST BIRTH CONTROL METHOD EVER :-)

P.S: Mia, almost 10 now, will surely know how she beat one of the most effective birth control methods!
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Jo Kennedy
09:27 PM on 03/27/2012
I had a horrific experience with the mirena - fatigue, anxiety, zero libido and finally after 2 failed office attempts at removal and a failed hysteroscopy under anesthesia I had to have it removed via the laparoscope. I am glad this works for many women, but honestly if anyone asked me if they have one I would say no!
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Robyn Singleton
screw you guys, Im going home
12:56 AM on 03/28/2012
Thank you for sharing. I've been considering an iud, but I know I would be that one person that has issues
02:14 AM on 03/28/2012
I got mine over four years ago(the regular,non-hormonal one),and it works fine for me. I had a little bleeding the first day or two,as my body healed and adjusted to its' implanting. They said one of the side effects may be heavier bleeding or cramping,but nope,have never had that. So,for me,the only part that ever caused discomfort was the actual implanting,and tylenol took the edge off the soreness. I'm glad I finally got one,and couldn't imagine using any other kind of birth control. (Unless they start giving out free tubal ligation-then they can sign me up).
03:25 PM on 03/27/2012
Interesting. Never seen one out so to me it looks like something I would go fishing with.
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Angie Daniels
Nerd, Democrat, PFLAG, taxpayer, animal lover.
03:00 PM on 03/27/2012
I have one. Was inserted in January. Painful experience and I still get some minor sharp cramps but in general it seems to be helping. (got it to help with heavy periods).
02:09 PM on 03/27/2012
I got a ParaGard when I was 25 and I couldn't be happier! Yes. It hurt when it was put in, but no more then cramps. Hell, I got up and walked the 1/2 mile home afterwards and even stopped for lunch. Really, not a big deal. Just woman up and put your big girl panties on! In a few years, I plan on having it removed, having a kid and getting one put right back in. I recommend it to everyone and consider it the best health decision I ever made.
02:06 PM on 03/27/2012
I had an IUD back in the late 70's to early 80's. It became imbedded and I contracted Pelvic Inflammitory Disease. The IUD's went away for years and I hope that the new ones are alot better than the old Cu7's.
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WILLIEMOJORISIN
USN 1978-1984 God willin and the crick don't rise.
01:14 PM on 03/27/2012
My 1st wife had an IUD when they went to take it out they had trouble getting ahold of it,somehow the string got tied in a knot,I'm not one to brag saying it was my manhood that did that...but...jus sayin ;-)
03:25 PM on 03/27/2012
Bet she spent a lot of time on a trampoline!
02:16 AM on 03/28/2012
Any talent with cherry stems? Heehee...
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WILLIEMOJORISIN
USN 1978-1984 God willin and the crick don't rise.
10:02 AM on 03/28/2012
;-) yup.