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Can Loving a Robot Lead to Divorce?

Posted: 12/20/11 04:00 AM ET

When the anatomically correct, customizable, touch-responsive, personality-changing sexbot named Roxxxy was unveiled at the Adult Entertainment Expo last year, it -- she? -- was met with a lot of snarky responses. Only losers and perverts would be interested in shelling out $7,000 for a glorified sex toy, many said.

Inventor and TrueCompanion founder Douglas Hines doesn't see it that way. With about 4,000 pre-orders, Hines believes artificially intelligent robots such as Roxxxy are "the future of robotics."

It also maybe the future of love and marriage, if you believe artificial intelligent (AI) expert David Levy, author of Love and Sex With Robots.

According to Levy, human-robot sex, love and marriage is inevitable -- perhaps as soon as 2025. He predicts that robots may not only be more lovable and faithful than many humans, but they may even be more emotionally available than the "typical American human male." Not only will they make us become better, more creative lovers, but they also will offer those singles who feel a void in their emotional and sexual lives and married couples with differing sexual needs new, nonjudgmental ways to be happy and healthy.

Even if you can't wrap your head around the idea of loving a robot (let alone marrying one), imagine that for a certain percentage of the population it's not only not fantasy but preferable to relationships with humans. What will that mean for us as a society as a whole?

Although Levy believes that the "availability of regular sex with a robot will dramatically reduce the incidence of infidelity as we know it today," he also acknowledges there may be some potential sticky points. "(S)ome human spouses and lovers might consider robot sex to be just as unfaithful as sex with another person."

And that's what caught the interest of Sonya Ziaja, a San Francisco Bay Area attorney who blogs at numerous law and policy media outlets as well as her own, Shark. Laser. Blawg. After reading about Roxxxy, Ziaga says she wondered about hypothetical situations in which a sexbot might create some legal headaches. "It was most fun to discuss those (situations) in which laws that were designed to regulate interactions between humans suddenly faced (with) the prospect of regulating interactions between humans and machines," she writes.

And what could be more fraught with legal dilemmas than a love triangle among a married couple and a sexbot? How that might impact a divorce? That's what Ziaja explores in her paper, "Homewrecker 2.0: An Exploration of Liability for Heart Balm Torts Involving AI Humanoid Consorts," which she presented at the 2011 International Conference on Social Robotics that took place in Amsterdam at the end of November.

"If the doll's owner becomes enamored with the doll, and leaves his spouse, can the spouse sue as she or he would be able to if the interloper had been human? And who would be sued? The manufacturer? Inventor? The AI itself?" she questions. "(S)o long as we're intent on adding socially interactive AI into situations that would ordinarily be only human. ... socially interactive robots need to be 'safe to play with' in a way that manufacturers of toaster ovens never had to imagine."

Ziaja isn't promoting or rejecting robot relationships (nor is she intending to offer legal advice); all she wants to do is explore what Levy suggests will be a not-too-distant reality. If humans and robots are going to get entangled romantically, what does that mean if things go awry? Her analysis, relying on heart balm torts, should make any spouse contemplating love -- or just a roll in the hay -- with a robot take notice.

Ziaja was kind enough to answer my questions by email:

Q: It sounds like a bad sci-fi film: A Robot Wrecked My Marriage. Can robots really be homewreckers?

A: If robots are designed to be social companions and sexual partners, it's foreseeable that those robots could contribute to the dissolution of relationships between humans.

Q: What exactly are heart balm torts?

A: In the most basic and general sense, heart balm torts allow someone who is in a protected relationship (usually marriage, but it can be parent-child) to sue someone outside of that relationship for interfering with it. So, for example, alienation of affections -- a type of heart balm tort -- allows a married person to sue a third-party paramour for damaging the relationship. In other words, If Alice the wife of Bob has an affair with Charles, Bob, the husband can sue Charles for money damages. Of course, the husband in this case would have to prove specific element depending on the type of tort.

Q: Aren't there just eight states with heart balm torts, Illinois, Hawaii, Mississippi, North Carolina, New Mexico, South Dakota, Utah and New Hampshire? So, would it only be a problem if you lived in one those states?

A: The argument in my paper isn't that the heart balm torts necessarily directly apply to cases involving robots in any particular jurisdiction. Rather it is that law can adapt to new technologies by reviving old torts.

Q: In what way would heart balm torts with a human-robot relationship be the same as with two humans? In what way would they be different?

A: There is a possibility of combining social-based or emotionally based torts with more traditional product liability theory -- something that creators might want to keep an eye on. Social robots as products, because of their social nature, have the potential to cause social and emotional harm. This is something that designers and manufacturers never really had to think about before. The short take home is this: Robots are not toasters.

Q: Robots Unlimited and Love and Sex With Robots author David Levy predicts marriage between humans and robots will be common in 50 years; what kind of headaches does his create for lawyers? What about for the creators of the robots?

A: I think the challenge here will be for the creators and policy-makers to agree upon who should be held liable in cases where robots cause social harm, and some common standards to potentially limit liability.

Q: Let's say a husband fell in love with his sexbot and decided he enjoyed her company more than his wife's. Could the wife sue for divorce, and whom would she sue? What if a robot and a human marry and adopt a child; could the female robot end up with custody?

A: There are many hypothetical situations where human-robot interactions could lead to outlandish and sci-fi-like results. But, there are also many steps that would probably occur well before. For example, establishing what level of responsibility -- both social and legal -- for which people are willing to hold robots or their creators accountable.

Q: Do you think robots will create more marital headaches than benefits?

A: I think that will depend on how robots are designed and what people expect from them.

Huffington Post bloggers Vicki Larson and Susan Pease Gadoua are collaborating on a book on reimagining marriage, "The New I Do." If you are interested in being a part of their research, please contact them at info@changingmarriage.com

 
 
 

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When the anatomically correct, customizable, touch-responsive, personality-changing sexbot named Roxxxy was unveiled at the Adult Entertainment Expo last year, it -- she? -- was met with a lot of snar...
When the anatomically correct, customizable, touch-responsive, personality-changing sexbot named Roxxxy was unveiled at the Adult Entertainment Expo last year, it -- she? -- was met with a lot of snar...
 
 
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02:19 AM on 01/30/2012
Well, i don't think simple robots are going to fly. But drone-like drivable robots will be the hit of the century. How convenient , when you are away from your mate, to spend time together. And consider the variety to be introduced. You can try a new shape, new face, new hair, or different gender.
12:21 AM on 12/30/2011
I don't think men and women are compatible in modern times.. all the rules changed but few of the instincts have. So i look forward to a future where each individual can be responsible for themselves. Where a divorce for either party is as simple as throwing a on off switch and shopping for a new model. Only thing that will change is there will be no more betrayals and pain. the only drawback will be kids will effectivly have only a single parent and only learn one point of view.. turning millions of them into republicans.
12:11 AM on 12/30/2011
i'd call that a bright future for mankind. women. the few that aren't liberated. will have to get a job.
08:33 PM on 12/26/2011
I don't see it being any different than a woman electing to have Arfificial Insemination. That's perfectly fine. What, she can't find a Man, any man, to provide the necessary material. Yes, I'm well aware that some women have an impossible time of gettting pregnant. But, how about those who just want Genetically superior Sperm. ... or don't want to be touched by that of a Man-How creepy is that!

Not to mention that they have to be in the MOOD! "I Say, "Call Girl or Doll!" Honey, you choose! :)
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rewith85man
Expressing Who I Am
10:34 PM on 12/25/2011
If the robot or sex doll gives me peace, pleasure, and joy, then I would dump my miserable girlfriend/wife.
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Icecube
NFC East. Pick your poison.
09:42 PM on 12/25/2011
This would throw a monkey wrench into manipulation via sleeping in another bedroom or denying you sex.

Another outlet independent of the wife.

I vote yes.
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Rochelle MacDonald
Living life at the legally accepted maxium speed
04:50 AM on 12/25/2011
At $7000 that is a very expensive toy. If the robots wear out at the same pace as computers or games, one would be well advised to create a cold, artificial personality to it. It will likely need to be upgraded in 5 years due to system failure. It will be middle aged by its 2nd birthday.
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rewith85man
Expressing Who I Am
10:35 PM on 12/25/2011
It is a good thing that robots/sex dolls don't age.
12:43 AM on 12/30/2011
sex doll == broken robot/robot with dead batteries
12:23 AM on 12/30/2011
lol 7000? that was my lawyers retainer nevermind what i lost.
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10:58 AM on 12/24/2011
Only if it came with a wallet , a car and lots of batteries . ;)
Morrisfactor
Just a little bent
10:48 PM on 12/23/2011
I recall reading that Ontario, Canada has already outlawed sex robots because "They devalued women."

Oddly enough, they have not outlawed male shaped sex toys, even though they devalue men.

Just another case of equality, sigh....
12:39 AM on 12/30/2011
lol men cant be reduced in value.. evolutionary wise.. they are common as dirt.
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Harold Saxon
Here come the drums.
09:27 AM on 12/23/2011
It's a sad thought that someone would forego human companionship in favor of a machine. A robot could never love you back. It might be able to generate responses that evoke emotions in the owner, but in the end it's all a mere facade of humanity.
08:12 PM on 12/23/2011
@Harold Saxon

We never really know what someone else is feeling inside. What if an artificial intelligence could play the role as convincingly as a 'real person'. What if everything the A.I. said and did was consistent with 'loving you back'. What would be the difference?

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rewith85man
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10:36 PM on 12/25/2011
And a real life partner may not love you either.
02:40 AM on 12/23/2011
okay so let me get this straight to find love in the year 2025 i will have to turn to a robot to find it because humans are so cold hearted we afre not capable to do so um okay really hope this works out for peaolple who anticipating this will make them happy. what will we tell god im speechless to the things we are willing to turn to because we dont want to face our truths and ourselves.
12:26 AM on 12/30/2011
uh.. i just dont want to face the divorce and loss of half of what i have worked for all my life.. i suppose i could marry someone with asa much to lose as me.. but then it would just be a contrived business arrangment.. not love.. you dont pick who you love.. love picks u. or it's not love.
11:33 PM on 12/22/2011
The more gadgets they can pack into one of these sexbots the better. We love gadgets.
12:27 AM on 12/30/2011
yup converts into a projection tv.. has a built in toaster oven an fridge for beer and pizza. wow.. wish i was young enough to LIVE this.
07:15 PM on 12/22/2011
sure wish I was going to live long enough for this!
Imagine a world in which people's sexual desires, can be fulfilled without a whole lot of emotional baggage and crap.
Sexually fulfilled men, who didn't have to degrade or harass or beg or pay anyone to get that way, will improve all aspects of life as we know it.
Nothing wrong with sex and love going together, and no one will ever try to prevent that, but I for one would be very happy to have an intelligent companion who can give sexual gratification, without insisting I deal with his mommy issues or sand the skid marks out of his drawers!
12:28 AM on 12/30/2011
sure beats the alternative .. where we all become like mr spock.. no emotions to get used or to fool ourselves into doing stupid financially disasterous things.. (what marriage has evolved into)
05:43 PM on 12/22/2011
This will either utterly destroy society as we know it or it will not catch on. My guess is it will not catch on. I think we would never feel quite comfortable in a relationship with a robot. You'd always be aware they were fundamentally different in a critical way. I can't imagine that wouldn't bother most people. Not that some people might not use them for sexual play, but a serious relationship, not likely.
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Vicki Larson
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11:54 PM on 12/23/2011
@PBack — Could you part with your smartphone, laptop, GPS, PS3? Think about how much technology is how we define ourselves.
12:29 AM on 12/30/2011
it will revolutionize society,... not to mention that robot can go out and work 80 hours a week while i stay home and do "housework" (watch tv eat and .. play with the other robot)
12:22 PM on 12/22/2011
Well if we're going to allow men to marry other men in the name of love, then I don't see why we shouldn't allow people who love robots to marry them as well. It's a strange world we live in these days, but we have to be accepting of other people's sexual preferences.
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eilish
Life ain't like a box of chocolates
02:41 PM on 12/22/2011
I think love in general is in far too short supply and should be generated whenever and as often as possible.
12:30 AM on 12/30/2011
hey .. women can have their women and robots too.. even multi sex robots.. liek transformers.. wow..