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Welcome the Volunteer: Reclaiming the Faith Tradition of Hospitality

Posted: 08/16/2012 3:37 pm

Earlier this summer, new college graduates packed their bags and left campus life behind. Some returned home. Others went on to graduate school or started their first big job. And several thousand began a year of intense service in every kind of community across the country.

Many of these young idealists are now arriving in new neighborhoods, some of them strange and struggling places that they have never visited, to be placed in nonprofits, schools and other agencies that are addressing our most pressing issues.

Often, they are participating in AmeriCorps, the largest national service program in the country, which works in partnership with national and local non-profits and other governmental agencies.

As a founding commissioner of the Corporation for National and Community Service, I helped shape AmeriCorps in the early 1990s as a way to tap into and stimulate interest in community service. Though there is no religious component to service in the corps, we have found that many who participate come from strong faith backgrounds.

For most of my career, I have worked to grow the ranks of young people volunteering in our communities. For two decades, I led the Bonner Foundation, which provides service-based scholarships to college students. Now, with the formation of FAITH 3 (Faith Action in the Head, Heart and Hand), we are helping young people connect their passion for service with their interest in spiritual exploration, faith formation and choosing a vocation.

It was with this effort in mind that I recently visited one of the largest AmeriCorps programs in the country. Instead of being met with suspicion about my intentions, they were appreciative. The leadership had discovered that volunteers who connect with a local faith community are more likely to finish their term of service.

Many of these volunteers represent the best of the next generation. Yet they often arrive at their assigned site knowing little about the community and with little to no local support system. For the first time, many of these young people are fully on their own. They are on a tight budget and are searching for safe, cheap housing.

They come filled with passion, ideas and commitment. Most will describe themselves as spiritual, but not religious. And few will seek out a congregation where they might create connections and build the kind of community that might help them find their footing.

These days, the church seems burdened with a bad reputation -- to many of these young people, it just isn't relevant to their lives and what they are dealing with. Congregations are shrinking, and enrollment at seminaries and divinity schools is dwindling with fewer young people attracted to what they believe the church represents.

Rather than interpreting this trend as a lack of interest in church and stopping there, there are those of us who see it as an invitation. Not to proselytize, convince or convert, but as an opportunity to be a part of their lives during this time of exploration -- to provide conversation and companionship as they discern their future goals.

Also lost in this gap is the tradition that all faiths embrace: offering hospitality. Where, I ask, is the welcome our faith communities could and should be providing this generation of volunteers?

Why not open our own homes to these young people? Perhaps you have an empty basement or bedroom, as other family members move out?

Recently I was asked to speak at conference entitled "Rethinking Stewardship" at Luther Seminary in St. Paul, Minn.

When we think of stewardship we tend to think only of dollars raised and spent. Few of us have $5,000 that we can contribute directly to a volunteer coming to live and serve in our community. But I wonder how many of us have empty rooms in our homes. Rather than spend their modest living allowance on housing, they might be able to put that money toward paying down school loans and strengthen the possibility that they will be able to make a long-term commitment to their work and sustain their presence in our communities.

If 10,000 of us were to open our homes, we would be supporting the cause to the tune of $50,000,000. This act of stewardship would be the largest financial gift made to this important movement by an organization other then the federal government.

The benefits of such hospitality go far beyond the financial for this generation. This and other acts of hospitality will begin to communicate -- and eventually reclaim -- the importance of congregations and the role they can and must play as a telling presence in our communities.

By being relevant in their lives, our faith communities will become relevant to them and we will be well on our way to solving the leadership and vision failure of our faith communities.

So let's welcome the newest neighbors by meeting them at the airport, opening our homes to them and inviting them to sleep on our couches and in our basements. Let's open our doors and welcome them!

 
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Earlier this summer, new college graduates packed their bags and left campus life behind. Some returned home. Others went on to graduate school or started their first big job. And several thousand beg...
Earlier this summer, new college graduates packed their bags and left campus life behind. Some returned home. Others went on to graduate school or started their first big job. And several thousand beg...
 
 
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stephen morgan
We're all bozo's on this bus.
06:34 PM on 08/25/2012
We would all do better to try harder to practice hospitality.
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george martini
I wasn't always this introverted.
11:02 PM on 08/22/2012
I changed my welcome mat to a home made one that says "Try the house next door".
11:58 AM on 08/22/2012
Thanks for the ideas and the call to support volunteers that are working to make a difference in our communities. I am up for any idea that works to turn around the cynicism that has infected our young adults when it come to the church.
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farmilyman
everything is illusion
06:37 PM on 08/21/2012
Politics has replaced hospitality
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george martini
I wasn't always this introverted.
11:02 PM on 08/22/2012
Is there any difference?
06:31 PM on 08/20/2012
Creative hospitality -- two virtues in short supply generally, and very seldom associated with religion, despite an ethic of hospitality present in all religious traditions. It's a refreshing refocus, especially as extended to young adults. Thanks, Wayne!
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Asal Cliste
The suspense is terrible, I hope it will last.
07:45 PM on 08/18/2012
The first lesson in hospitality is to mind your own damned business.
04:23 PM on 08/18/2012
“Not to proselytize, convince or convert, but as an opportunity to be a part of their lives during this time of exploration -- to provide conversation and companionship as they discern their future goals.” Who does this guy think he’s kidding? If there is any proselytize going on inside AmeriCorps, it should lose all it’s federal funding. Most of it’s money comes from the federal government. Our government shouldn’t be giving any money to any faith-based initiative. We should be taxing the hell out of all religions, not giving them money.
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John Camp
Husband/Pastor/Scholar
01:37 PM on 08/18/2012
Being hospitable is a biblical qualification for elder ,and by extension pastor, (1 Tim 3:2) but as some churches have rushed to throw out the other biblical qualifications for leadership this one has been jettisoned too.
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Indigo1941
Time traveler.
10:05 PM on 08/17/2012
"Not to proselytize, convince or convert, but as an opportunity to be a part of their lives during this time of exploration ." Yes, of course, but it all sounds very patriarchal. Controlling, even. May I suggest moving the boundary to include experiencing explorations of our own? To host is generous, to witness can be moving, to accompany the guest on the exploration can force a deep adjustment in our topography of values. Could it be we're wrong? Could it be we've stop asking and seeking to become answer-giving patriarchs who wear silk top hats? Could it be we have set ourselves up as the Idols of the Market Place? Youth will us but it helps if we listen.
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sarahinez
06:30 PM on 08/17/2012
Some people who might wish to help would need something for the extra utilities and food, but that would still be cheaper than a separate apartment and less stressful than hunting for a roommate.

If everything old is new again, what about the19th century practice for teachers in rural areas? Different families in the community would provide room and each month. A church, apartment community or non-profit provide housing for the year in 3-6-week segments.
03:23 PM on 08/17/2012
Amazing Wayne!
01:01 PM on 08/17/2012
Thanks for your post! I think it is important that we all consider how hospitality can change the world.
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12:24 PM on 08/17/2012
Why don't you recruit AmeriCorps volunteers out of the high crime areas of Chicago?
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Claire Redfern
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10:06 AM on 08/17/2012
Hospitality is also from the Benedictine life as well. you always welcome those who come to knock on the door. it stems from the idea partly of the angel unaware in Scripture. It shouldn't matter what your background is where you come from or what you do or don't have we are all human first, and there are times we all need that welcoming hand to be opened to us...
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NC Democrat 12
Progress is Evolution
04:44 AM on 08/17/2012
By "hospitality" you are referring to those of like mind I'm sure. People of "faith" are never welcoming to those of differing ideals, backgrounds or persuasions. Nice try, but alas, no points awarded because you didn't tell the truth, as usual.