How do you react during stressful moments?
Questions keep popping in your head. Due to the rapid stream of random thoughts, you feel like banging your head on the wall. Your mind starts building complications by inflating the small issues in life.
Never underestimate these small issues in your life. They give birth to big problems.
So, the small size matters a lot.
By framing a dull environment, you give rise to the erect negative thoughts. The more pessimistic thoughts you come across, the more problems you see.
By shaking things up and down, you generate a lot of confusion. You start ejaculating the frustration on your loved ones.
Do you know the reason?
They are the easiest target. When you can't express your anger with the seniors or any authoritative individual, you transfer all the irritation to your family members, close friends or relatives.
Some of the possible reasons behind the anger ejection:
Your don't get the proper recognition of your efforts in the organization. On the top of that, your subordinate gets the credit for your work.
What a deadly combination, isn't?
You become the laughing stock among your office colleagues or college friends. By showing more anger, you invite more troubles. So, you restrict your true emotions.
Sometimes, you need to keep quiet due to financial reasons. There is no use of having a heated argument with your boss. You suppress your anger due to the family responsibilities.
By collecting all these pressures, you forget to ask one thing:
Do you have a proper protection system?
There is no use of wiping off the stains after committing blunders in your life. By inserting the seeds of frustration into the peaceful zone of your loved ones, you give birth to trust dilution and disrupted relationship.
On a personal level, it also affects your thinking and behavior patterns.
In order to keep a check on the frequent outbursts of your anger, you need a condom covering over your accumulated thoughts.
The question arises:
What is the Condom State of Mind?
It is a covering which is rolled onto your erect harmful thoughts before the mental intercourse. It blocks all the ejaculated frustration from entering your calm state of mind.
There is no need to suppress your anger. Mark Twain rightly said:
Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured. But, it must come out in a controlled manner.
Do you know the reason behind getting stuck up in life?
You solve all problems with an erect mindset only. For overcoming any obstacle, you need to step out of those obstacles. Put your mind at ease by detaching yourself from all the mental barriers.
Importance of condom covering in your life:
Before bursting out, you have time to gain a different perspective by putting yourself in another's place. You can calm down to keep a check on your anger.
By keeping a log of your annoyance state, you can work on changing your wild reactions.
There is no denying the fact that you can learn different things from lots of people. But, your opinion shapes the decision process.
This covering creates a private space in which you can interact with yourself only. It provides a dedicated environment for self-interrogation.
By creating a private zone, you understand things at a basic level without any adulteration.
Beware of the Double or Multi Bagging:
Some people think about making a strong cover by asking the solution from different people. There is no harm in discussing your problems.
Before sharing, just ask one question:
Did you take a dip in the inner ocean before assembling information from other people?
Be confident about the strength of your private cover. Never weaken its strength by mixing the external noise.
When there are more condom coverings at the same time, you generate a lot of friction. As a result, they are more likely to rip or tear.
In the beginning, you may experience some slippage or breakage of your condom covering. Don't worry. The most important thing is to move forward and learn from your mistakes.
After some time, you will not feel jealous about your subordinate's success. You will learn how to laugh at yourself. Instead of getting emotionally charged, you will realize the temporary nature of events in life.
Why?
With experience, you will learn to handle the circumstances.
Accept this Harsh Reality:
You are responsible for giving birth to infinite problems.
If you are the originator, you have the power to destroy these complications. Without scratching your head, take some preventive measures to stay away from any trouble.
Are you having the condom covering over your gloomy thoughts? What would you do to calm yourself in stressful times?