childhood
"Late at night, I’d let him sneak into my bedroom on the top floor of my family’s rambling farmhouse. ... By homeroom the next morning, it was like it never happened."
Sound familiar? Here's what to do about it, according to experts.
“I was surprised to uncover this because I had a ‘good’ childhood.”
"My mom would wake me up in the middle of the night to play in the snow or to watch a meteor shower."
WHAT'S HAPPENING
Plus, how to break the cycle if you're a parent yourself.
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"My parents’ narrative looked true — we seemed to be living a 'privileged' life. But the reality was very different."
Rather than following in your parents' footsteps or bolting in the opposite direction, reflecting on the way you parent and making changes to your behavior can strengthen your relationship with your kids.
"'He’s going to be so mad that you lied to him for so long,' my mother warns."
There is no easy way to say, "I'm estranged from my mother." It's even harder to say, "I've cut my mother out of my life," clarifying that you are the one who has severed the bond.