05/24/2013 12:07 pm ET

Remarriage: Divorce Coach Opens Up About Four Marriages (VIDEO)

Is the fourth time the charm?

It was for divorce coach Faydra Koenig, who met her husband online after three previous marriages ended in divorce. She opened up about what she learned from the marriages and shared her best dating advice on HuffPost Live Wednesday.

"I think that people don't spend enough time getting to know themselves and what they really like and what really turns them on, and so they make decisions about dating based on trying to set a good impression and teach somebody something else about them," she said. "I think if people can learn to go to the movies alone, go to eat alone, travel alone, they set themselves up to make a better dating choice down the line."

Watch the video clip above for details on each of Koenig's three divorces (and check out the full HuffPost Live segment here), then click through the slideshow below for dating dealbreakers, according to the Twitterverse.

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