WOMEN
05/29/2013 12:40 pm ET Updated Jul 29, 2013

"YOU READ TOO MANY BOOKS": I SENT GUYS ON OKCUPID THE TYPES OF MESSAGES THEY SEND ME

Markus Frind, founder of free-online dating site Plenty of Fish knows most of the folks on the site gettin' their sleeze on, are dudes. This should come as a surprise to absolutely zero of the people zero of the time -- double that if you are girl. Because, if you're a lady and you've been online for longer than a second, you have probably been propositioned, negged, harassed or harangued in any number of fun and exciting ways.

As an online dater, I've experienced harassment of all sorts. I've had what I'd call friendly harassment, you know, guys who you are all "big boobs, lol i love dem." I've also had infamously wicked mean harassment: "You are unattractive."

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