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06/26/2013 11:50 am ET

A Dominatrix, a Man-Slave and a Reporter Walk Into a Dungeon...

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It’s 8pm on a Wednesday night and I’m spanking my bent-over boyfriend in front of three strangers at a pimped out sex dungeon in midtown Manhattan. Being a sex writer is not all fun and games, people (kidding, that’s literally all it is).

Tonight, I am lucky enough to get a private kink workshop from Mistress Nina Payne, dominatrix, teacher and author of the new e-book, Kisses to Kink. For the next 90 minutes, Nina and her protégé Mistress Mona are going to teach my boyfriend and I to spank, flog, and tie each other up. Let the awkwardness begin!

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