10/31/2014 03:58 pm ET

Why I Only Have One Kid, If You Insist On Asking

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My daughter Kali is 10 years old now. But starting when she was not even 10 months, people would ask, “Are you going to have another?” I would tell them no but they would say, “She’s going to be lonely. Go, on, you can do it — have another!” And I’d start feeling guilty, and then I’d start feeling angry, as well, because I’d think: I just nearly died having this one.

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