11/18/2011 12:24 am ET Updated Jan 17, 2012

Demi Moore: You're Smart to Dump Cheating Ashton Kutcher

Demi -- your doormat days are done! Congratulations, you've just saved your self-respect.

I'm sure that you, Demi Moore, are feeling absolutely terrible about throwing the towel in on your marriage, but you shouldn't.

When you said your vows with Ashton Kutcher six years ago, you were madly in love and you thought you were committing forever.

But after the humiliation of Ashton allegedly cheating with 22-year-old blonde Sara Leal during a wild night of partying, AND allegations from then 21-year-old Brittney Jones that she hooked up with your husband a year ago -- you need to think about what's best for yourself and your three daughters.

Your statement makes it very clear that cheating was NOT OK with you. The rumors that you had an open marriage with Ashton must have been driving you crazy.

"It is with great sadness and a heavy heart that I have decided to end my six-year marriage to Ashton," you wrote in an official statement. "As a woman, a mother and a wife there are certain values and vows that I hold sacred, and it is in this spirit that I have chosen to move forward with my life."

In other words Demi -- you're giving the world a clear message that YOU held your marriage vows sacred. That as a wife and mother YOU had values. And those values were NOT compatible with cheating or an open marriage. I applaud you Demi for making a courageous decision to stand up for yourself.

You are a beautiful, talented, intelligent woman who will be loved again. Just because Ashton, at 33, is too immature to make a commitment to monogamy, doesn't mean that you're not worthy. You are!

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