Hindsight is always 20/20. Looking over our shoulder at the past, we can see so much more clearly what we might have done differently ― one small nuance that would have changed everything. If only we could have the clarity of perfect vision while going through divorce; imagine the difference this could make in custody matters.
Understandably, as a parent in the midst of custody issues, there are strong feelings of grief and heartache. Often times, emotions take over. Unkind comments are exchanged. Feelings are hurt. Lapses in judgement happen, and the child is caught in the middle.
Many parents in the divorce process have experienced moments of humiliation and remorse. You are not alone. Break your silence. The confessions below, collected from SharedParentingConfessional.com reveal the inner most thoughts of parents like you, about their divorce and custody issues. Learn from the upsets and gain insight from 10 parents who now have the wisdom of clear-sighted vision.
Here are the heartbreaking regrets from 10 parents:
Some confessions share concern and determination to keep their family together:
Several confessions reveal regrets. In some cases, cruel things are done or said with the intent to cause harm. When this happens, the consequences of their behaviors may not be realized until years later. After, a childhood without one parent. After, one parent has lived their life without a relationship with their children:
Some confessions reveal utter grief and heartache at the loss of their family and in the changes that have taken place:
NOTE: If you are considering suicide as a solution to your divorce or Family Court matter, PLEASE stop and seek help. There are many groups that offer emotional support.
USA: National Suicide Hotline: 800-273-8255USA
USA: 2-1-1 Offers free and low-cost services and resources
USA: Emergency services: 9-1-1
UK: Hopeline, 0800 068 4141
UK: Helpline, Helpline 0800 132 737
Fortunately, a few confessions are positive. This post reveals a transformation process that improves everything for everyone:
These are the experiences of 10 parents. Now that you have the benefit and clarity of perfect vision, what would you do?
Shared Parenting Confessional is an anonymous site. This is a place for co-parents to confess their feelings of betrayal, fear, heartache or humiliation experienced in divorce or a co-parenting situation.
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