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We all have those moments in life when we feel particularly stalled, stuck, and just plain lost when it comes to living the life of our dreams. Wondering how to break free, we find ourselves repeating history and merely treading water while our dreams become some fairy tale vision of what "might have been."
The truth is, it doesn't have to be that way and the answer to why you are feeling stuck lies in your mind. Every thought you think has power and energy and the more you think a thought, the faster it becomes a belief and therefore your reality.
Feeling like your dreams are dying a slow and painful death? It might be because you have one (or more) of these powerful gremlins running amok in your mind.
1."I'm not ready." Likely the most common of all the dream-killing beliefs, this one runs rampant even in the minds of the wildly successful. It seems that somehow we have decided that there is some specific barometer that measures our "readiness" to be, have, and do all the things we desire. While you are marching in place collecting degrees, courses, programs, and more knowledge so you can one day feel 'ready', your dreams are slowly slipping away. Take it from me, if your desire is strong, you are ready enough now and you will continually learn, grow, and evolve along the way. Just begin.
2."I don't know how!" One of the number one excuses I hear from people is that they just don't know "how" to make their dreams a reality and so they do nothing. While it would be amazing for you to have your entire road map of how you are going to make your vision come to life, that's not exactly how it works. All you really need is the next step. Chances are you know of at least one thing you can do to get yourself started. The key is to take the first step and have faith that the next will appear. I promise it will!
3."It's been done." This one typically comes from my fellow entrepreneurs and creatives of the world. Thinking they have nothing different or unique to add to this amazing world, they do nothing at all. To be honest, this is just a load of BS! There are new inventions being created every single day and while you may not feel like you are one of the thought leaders of our time, the truth is you bring some truly magnificent things to the table. Your unique combination of skills, insights, desires, experiences and gifts are needed in this world and if it hasn't been done by you... it hasn't not been done.
4."Who am I to do that?!" While we can't always see the beauty, talent, and gifts we bring to the world, they are there. Chances are right now you don't feel like you have what it takes to make your dreams come true and you may even have trouble envisioning yourself stepping into such a large purpose. Here is what I want you to know: If you have a dream, vision, or a goal then you also have the potential to make it real. In fact, it's your responsibility.
5."It's too late!" There's no such thing as "too late." Some of the most powerful, successful, and creative souls in the world began their pursuits later in life. People like Samuel L. Jackson, Oprah, and Morgan Freeman had setbacks, struggles, and challenges, but look at where they are today. The truth is, they are no different than you. It doesn't matter how old you are, the "mistakes" you've made or about the time you feel you've wasted. What you have is this moment right now and if you want it, go for it with everything you've got.
6."I'm not ____enough." The story of not being or feeling enough in some way is one of the most powerful limiting beliefs you can have. To feel not enough is to feel a massive lack and void in life and is the exact opposite of the powerful, limitless being you are. You may not know all there is to know or have all the tools you need to make your dreams a reality right now, but you are enough to begin right now. And for those of you who think you are somehow unworthy of dreaming and achieving your deepest desires, I want to remind you that within you lies a spark of the Divine and limitless potential. You are worthy simply because you are here. Never forget that.
7."I don't have time." As a mother, wife, and entrepreneur believe me I understand the feeling of being constricted by the hours in the day. You may feel like you are already spread too thin with all of your responsibilities and you simply can't fathom putting yet another task on your list. Let's be honest, that's just an excuse. The real truth is that you don't have time to waste. Today, in this moment you will never have more time to achieve all of your desires in your life so use it. Make your dreams, desires and vision a priority right now, for you will never have more time.
We are entering into a time in the world where we have unlimited opportunities for what we can achieve and yet so many of us allow ourselves to get tripped up by the stories we tell in our mind. It's time to stop allowing your beliefs to kill your dreams before you even begin. It's time to affirm and breathe life into your vision and begin already.
This is your time to live the life your soul intended. So, what are you waiting for?
I'd love to hear from you! What beliefs are you hanging onto that are holding you back? Share in the comments below!
Lamisha Serf-Walls is a empowerment coach for soul-centered women who are tired of trying to fit into lackluster beige boxes and crave the freedom of standing in their truth and living life from the heart. Her mission is to create a community of empowered, free flowing, lovers of life who live a life of freedom with ease and inspire others to do the same. You can learn more about Lamisha and what she offers by joining her free community, visiting her Online, on Facebook, or Twitter or grab her free audio 5 Ways to Break Free From Stuck.