This week Pope Francis offered what to do when we pass beggars on the street: We should give to them without a thought. We should look them in the eye and maybe shake their hand. To give without engaging is robbing them of their human dignity.
“People who don't give money to the homeless because they think it will be spent on alcohol and not food should ask themselves what guilty pleasures they are secretly spending money on, Pope Francis said..."There are many excuses" to justify why one doesn't lend a hand when asked by a person begging on the street, he said in an interview published the day before the beginning of Lent...But giving something to someone in need "is always right," and it should be done with respect and compassion because "tossing money and not looking in (their) eyes is not a Christian" way of behaving, he said.
Is he right?
The focus on what the panhandler does with the money should play less a part of whether to give or not than what you should do with yours and the responsibility each of us has to make an impact through our giving.
Planned Acts of Kindness > Random Acts of Kindness
If your giving strategy is to randomly give when someone asks you for money on the street, at the checkout, at your front door, or because of a random post you see on Facebook, I think you need to rethink the way you give. We need to be more intentional on what causes we support and how we support them.
Random acts of kindness are swell, but, alone, they pale in comparison and in impact to planned acts of kindness.
Make your money have a greater impact
You only have so much money to give. And choosing to give to one person is a choice of not giving to another. A dollar to a beggar on the street in your city could have 100 times the impact if you gave it to an effective nonprofit in Malawi. The dollar could go to fighting root causes of homelessness and poverty in your community, if you gave it to an organization working to address them.
This week I attended a benefit lunch for Second Harvest Food Bank in Muncie, IN, where I live. Clarence, who has worked in the warehouse for seven years, gave me a tour. Clarence told me that If I were to go to a grocery store and spend $500, I could buy several hundred pounds of food (I don’t remember the exact numbers here), but through the partnerships and model of Second Harvest that $500 could buy more than a ton of food. That food is used to fight hunger, but it’s also used in programs that support those who are food insecure in other ways, such as connecting parents with teachers in schools through distribution events.
So I could give to the guy next to the Interstate holding a sign, or I could give to Second Harvest and impact way more people. I’m not against people doing both, as long as they aren’t just doing the first.
We should SEE & LISTEN
The homeless shouldn’t be invisible, we shouldn’t ignore them, but if we really want to improve their lives, we should think about them more than when they are in our line of sight. We need to do more than simply shake their hands and look them in the eye. We need to listen to them.
Students at Brenau University, led by professor Juli Clay, completed a community storytelling project on homelessness this past fall. As part of the nationwide Facing Project, which I co-founded, Brenau students were matched with those who were homeless in their community and collaborated with them on written and performed pieces to bring stories of homelessness to life. (Read their stories here, and hear their voices.)
The students listened. The voices of the homeless were heard.
The Pope’s advice seems to be more about us, our compassion, what we should do when confronted with a beggar, than about how to genuinely help those who are beggars or homeless.
Compassionate and respectful giving may be always right in the eyes of Popes and Gods, but that doesn’t guarantee it will do any good.
What do you think? Do you give to beggars?