When I met my husband 14 years ago, he turned me into a football fan. He was passionate about his team, and I joined his bandwagon. Now, our 4-year-old son has done the same. But he, well, he has taken it to an entirely new level.
The kid is obsessed, and until lately, it was driving me crazy! What did he want for the holidays? A football helmet. What does he do every single morning with his basket full of horses and other animal figurines? Set them up to play a rousing game of football, of course. "Who do you think will win, Mom?" he asks me repeatedly. I was finding myself worried about this scenario. He loves football, but I absolutely do not want him to play football as a little kid. Beyond this, I was also concerned that being crazed for football was making him -- I'll be honest -- less intelligent. I know I shouldn't care about that, but it frustrated me to ask him what he did in preschool that day, only to be answered, "We played football," followed by a detailed description of the game that I know they didn't play.
Yes, I want to spark other interests in our son, and believe me, we try. But in the meantime, instead of fighting against this football obsession, I'm embracing it and turning it to all of our advantage! Taking this new perspective has been such a relief, and it's making us happier. Below are the four key ways that we are using our son's obsession to springboard to get him excited about math, reading and other cognitive skills through football.
- Jersey Numbers: He always wants to know players' numbers. "What number is RGIII? What number is Peyton Manning? What number is RGIII?" He has them on rotation! Now, instead of simply telling him a number to satisfy him, I'll write it out and ask him to identify the number for me. It has been the quickest way yet to get him recognizing larger numbers. Ok, so he might still say "two-ty-three," but he's getting there.
So, while I'll still try to get our little guy to turn his attention to the arts or other sports, I'm going to go ahead and indulge this interest for now. What tricks do you use to turn your kids' interests (obsessions?!) into something positive?
This was originally posted on Zoobean's blog.