Ben-Ari is still haunted by a story her grandmother told her about a girl who lived in her grandmother's hometown in Poland. "She told me about a young girl who played the violin just like me, but the Nazis then cut her hands off," Ben-Ari said. "Sometimes, I think that is why I play the violin -- for that little girl."
My grandparents never spoke about the Holocaust except just one time, when I was 12 years old interviewing them for my school's family tree project. Their painful stories, among those of many others, made me realize that people, under certain circumstances, are capable of turning into inhumane monsters.
I heard a beautiful song by Miri and knew I wanted to paint her. Then I heard her story and knew I had to paint her.
Welcome strangers, but study daily things,
Knowing that heaven and hell surround us,
But this, this which we say before we're sorry,
This which we live behind our unseen faces,
Is neither dream, nor childhood, neither
Myth, nor landscape, final, nor finished,
For we are incomplete and know no future,
And we are howling or dancing out our souls
In beating syllables before the curtain:
We are Shakespearean, we are strangers.
I want to feel the subjects' history and paint their inner complexity and mystery, and perhaps even the confusion a person has in the face of a disturbing past and portraying the drama of who they are. Miri Ben-Ari walked into my studio, sat down and allowed me to see her that way, to paint her, to paint my feelings about her grandmother who shared the horror of my own parents. I tried to paint Miri Ben-Ari as I felt her trying to heal the world with beauty, music and a commitment to education! Thank you Miri Ben-Ari, I hope you change the world, you already have!
At present, Miri Ben-Ari is a Global Brand Ambassador for Harman Kardon, and Goodwill Ambassador of Music for the United Nations Associations of Brazil.