05/22/2013 02:39 pm ET Updated Dec 06, 2017

The Good Samaritan Within Us


Are you sick of watching the news? Tired of reading depressing news online? It is difficult to get through the day without feeling overwhelmed by the onslaught of bad news on the economy, multiple government scandals, Christian persecution in the Middle East... the list is endless. It is incredibly rare for the media to show the positive and uplifting stories we all hope are out there, but rarely hear. Well, I have one for you.

My oldest son has high-functioning autism. You may know that children on the autism spectrum often live with a host of challenges around interacting with others, making friends and living independently. Parents of children with autism often feel that they live in an isolated vacuum and wonder if anybody really understands how difficult our lives can be.

My wife received a call not long ago from a friend of hers in our neighborhood who has had enormous struggles of her own. She has fought her way back from a life-threatening illness and her husband lost his job several months ago. This woman would have every justifiable reason to retreat from the world, focus on her own problems and not worry about her neighbors. But this woman is different. This woman is a true good samaritan, because she called to ask if our son would like a job watering her plants and collecting her mail while her family is on vacation this summer. I don't think she has ever even met him, but she was able to look past her own problems and show unbelievable kindness to our son. I can't tell you how overwhelmed my wife and I felt at her kindness and generosity. I get teary-eyed at the thought of it.

This may not seem like a big deal to you, but he has never had a job before. He has never been held responsible for anything outside of school or our home. He has certainly never been paid for any kind of work outside of the home. For seven days at the end of this month, our son will be like the "other kids" who have summer jobs. He will feel important, responsible and needed. He will earn a few dollars to spend on something he wants and feel the satisfaction of using money he earned to buy it. My wife and I will feel the cautious hope that someday, other generous good samaritans like our neighbor will look beyond their own struggles and extend opportunities to our son as he makes his way in the world. What an incredible gift she has given our family.

I am sharing this brief story with you as encouragement that we all have a good samaritan somewhere deep within us. It is easy to get lost in our own problems, but we have opportunities every day to reach out to people struggling all around us. Our neighbor was able to look beyond her own challenges and demonstrate a random act of incredible kindness to our son.

Who can you and I help today?

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