"You are imperfect, permanently and inevitably flawed. And you are beautiful." -- Amy Bloom
Lately, I've been conscious of a trend that makes my heart jump for joy. Have you noticed that more and more ordinary people are on TV and in the movies? For too long there's only been room for Hollywood glamour. That standard was allowed to exist by a world that sought happiness from the external. As a young girl, I was indoctrinated and blindly aligned myself to that belief system. But not anymore. I, along with many others, have outgrown that life-view. Welcome tall, short, fat, thin, young, old and every color. Welcome me. Welcome you.
It's hard to believe that when I began my career as an illustrator, I couldn't find work because the people in my drawings looked too "real." I was advised to stylize my children like the Gerber Baby because more women would relate to it. Can you believe that? I was exasperated by the assumption that only blue-eyed Caucasian babies were relatable. There was and is a place in the world for every mother's child.
"When you're always trying to conform to the norm, you lose your uniqueness, which can be the foundation of your greatness." -- Dale Archer
I would go so far as to say that embracing "who we are" is what helped launch Pharrell Williams' song, Happy, into the stratosphere. That tune went nowhere until its video was released showing people of all ages, ethnicities, and body types dancing to it. To add to the explosion Pharrell's fans posted videos from across the globe grooving to his song. Happy became a celebration of life and the beauty of humanity.
And what about Colbie Caillat's song, Try? Its video blasts Photoshop and the unrealistic beauty standards put on women and girls. During the film, Colbie removes her hair extensions and her make-up bit-by-bit. At the end, what's left is someone we can connect to. You see it's nearly impossible relating to someone who's body is decorated and molded. There is no heart in plastic. Being who we are is where our power lies.
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