I have told you what I learned from being married to a drag queen and debunked 10 myths about drag queens. All that got me thinking that I should write a survival guide for any current or future drag husbands. Think of me as a drag husband Jedi. Every good Jedi has a master, though, so for a little help I turned to my fellow drag husband Jedi, men who were drag husbands long before Mr. Von B was even around. A huge "thank you!" to my friends Mr. Bedd and Big n Tasty for their help with this drag husband survival guide.
Now, to me, there is a difference between a drag husband and someone who is simply married to a drag queen. The latter does not have as much of an active role in his queen's drag life. Yes, he'll attend most of her shows, and I'm sure he'll give her advice when needed, but he is more in the background. A drag husband is at every show, or at least 99 percent of them, and plays an active role in his queen's drag career. Drag husbands help with a lot of the planning, promoting and running of shows, along with everyday decisions about drag. I'm not saying that one is better than the other; whatever works for the couple is what is the most important.
No matter what type of husband you are, being married to a drag queen can be difficult, hence this drag husband survival guide:
- Know when to talk and when to just listen.
So there you have it: a drag husband survival guide! Some of these tips are easier to master than others, but in any case, save this survival guide, find your queen and be the best drag husband you can be. May the drag be with you.
For more advice on being a drag husband, visit Diary of a Drag Queen's Husband.