Iyanla Vanzant

Five years into their marriage, Tiffany's husband, a pastor, told her he was gay. Later, he confessed to having multiple affairs with men. Now, she just wants to know one thing.
Iyanla Vanzant helps a 42-year-old man sort through decades-old pain.
"You can be a lot of things in the black church, but, Lord, do not be gay."
Life coach Iyanla Vanzant says you're just 40 days away from better self-esteem.
"Don't see the person as 'broken,' and don't see them as where they are right now," according to Iyanla Vanzant.
The life coach pinpoints the biggest reason men and women have trouble communicating.
The reality star tells Iyanla Vanzant she's with a "good guy" now.